Do I have a right to be upset?r

I need advice on restraining orders. How to get em? where’s I sign em? and who’s face do I show them to for it to matter against my ex. My exhusband agreed to move out. And i swear to lord baby jesus, hes makin it hard! I put his collection of beanie babies on the half-porch and he just sat on my porch hollerin. How do I get him to go away and just peacefully do our custody transfers at the Macdonalds and go on our seperate ways when he still loves me? Going back is OUT of the question. Any advice?