Does she know it was your old engagement ring? I’d be pissed if I was her!
what fool would use the same ring
Shit I’d be more pissed off if I was her and I’d definitely let her know
That ring obviously means nothing to him and you agree there are no feelings why would you want a reminder… move on
The the girl friends not to smart 
it would be a cold day in hell when I would wear a other ladys ring laugh and move on:rofl:
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Its ONLY OK to do this if its a family ring! Meaning it was his Mom’s, Aunts, Grandmother’s ring, etc.
If not! Its tacky & she’s an idiot for saying yes. Even in this situation.
Laugh & move on.
It’s cursed it won’t work out, no need to lose sleep already shows where the mindset is obviously trying to hurt you watch the show from the sidelines and thank ur lucky stars you/kids are free from that handcuff
You are very good person the way you talk that all
if i knew a man proposed to me with his exes ring i would be disgusted. i know they ain’t cheap… but id rather wear a walmart ring than a ring that another girl once wore. dude should save it for his sons. got a new ring for his new girl to maybe pass down to her kids. the fuck.
It is a piece of jewelry. It it does not hold memories of any good good times or feelings. The fact that he would give it to another woman shows that he realizes that fact. Look at it this way, she is getting your cast off man and your cast off ring.
It is extremely tacky indeed for him to do that and shows a lack of respect all the way around, however I say if she knows it’s your old ring and is wearing it around you then let her and get yourself a better one! You dont need a man to but you nice things or pass things down to your children. If your ex lacks the respect for you now he will not have it for you going forward so get a better one. Flaunt it off and save it for your your boys. Make that one into a necklace and wear it one fun trips and family vacations and when they are old enough they hand it down and it will have so much meaning to them then! 
You dont need your ex’s ring to have that bond:heart_eyes:
that just shows you, you did the right thing. My niece’s father did that to my sister, he also proposed to her in the same spot. then once they split up and he got a new girlfriend he did the same thing with her, same spot same ring number 3.
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I think that’s weird. The ring is a representation of the love you two shared. If I was the girlfriend I wouldn’t want that ring
That’s just weird… let it go doesnt bode well for their relationship
Wow!! Why did you even give it back🤷🏼♀️
Why didnt you keep the ring???
That is really weird. Does she know it was your ring? Like if someone proposed to me with an exes ring I would be totally creeped out. I can’t imagine someone saying yes knowing the origin of the ring.
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I be more offended if I were new girlfriend. I don’t want second hand used rings. Bad karma…
Talk to him about it if its bugging you this much
If he gave it to his new love then that ring doesn’t hold importance to him about you, hon. He could be trying to save money, he could feel sentimental to the ring because it did make him happy, he could’ve just forgotten that was the ring. He’s a dude.
Did you give the ring back or did he ask for it?
What would you do if your ex gave the engagement ring to his mother instead… And yon two got back together and she still has the ring what then
It is tacky… what woman would want a ring that she knew was the last woman’s ring??? I don’t get it. I had an ugly parting with my ex, so I got rid of anything associated with my ex or anything from his family… and it was 14 years worth of stuff. My past wasn’t gonna have any rental space in my future. My boyfriend of a year moved in with me, and I feel the same about his ex. I refuse to eat off plates that she picked out and sit on furniture that she picked out, etc. I wanted things we picked out together or that he got after her. Maybe I am weird??? I certainly would never ever ever wear a ring that had belonged to the previous lady. And it has nothing to do with jealousy.
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Yeah that’s not right. You don’t give the ring from your previous marriage to the next girl. It’s disrespectful towards both women.
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Yeah, that’s not right. But your first mistake was giving him the ring back.
That ring should have been saved for your son to give to his future wife. I would say something.
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What a cheapo and how can she be proud to wear that? She obviously doesn’t see anything wrong with it or maybe she’s wearing it out of spite? I wouldn’t of even said yes if he proposed with the ring that belonged to his ex. At the end of the day that’s your ring you wore it he bought it for you with you in his mind and now he’s given it to someone else! He mustn’t care for her that much that he gave her a second hand ring that belonged to his ex of all people not even from a family member lol! That’s just really f’d up tbh
Poor her. Secondhand rose. He’s not putting any effort into it. Consider it a commiseration gift to her. Memories are in your heart and head.
I agree that’s extremely weird I can’t imagine that the gf knows the ring belonged to you 1st. Personally I would have kept the ring or sold it, its mine to do with as I please kind of thing and to ensure it wouldn’t be reused on the next girl.
It’s tacky. And you returned it. So let it go and never mention it to either him or his fiancee.
It’s tacky that you are even thinking about his loser ass. He sounds broke. Be glad that you escaped.
Why are you even hanging out with them anyway? It’s one thing to be cordial but that’s so weird to hang out with your ex and his new lover. Have some respect for yourself.
Move on with your life and find someone way better… Then you can flaunt your beautiful new engagement ring in front of the two of them!
That’s just tacky and says a lot about her if she’s ready to loose a bunch of self respect by accepting it. Fools!
How did u leave the man you loved after 21 years? Iv been with mine for 11 and have so many issues, I love him so much but feeling like is it easier to walk away? We have 4 kids and I do love him it’s just so hard to deal with the drama
She is the loser het
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If it was your ring youd be wearing it right now. But youre not,so…its not yours
If I was her I’d be pissed that he didn’t buy me a new ring. I wouldn’t want a ring that was his ex wife’s. That’s just weird.
Honestly, I’d be laughing at the fact she is wearing your “old” ring.
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I was told the original reason for the engagement ring was a promise and investment. Basically a gentlemen took you off the market. Unable to be courted by other suitors in your prime. If the engagement ended, the woman kept the ring as a symbol of the investment or time wasted. Normally they would sell the ring to make money to compensate themselves. I’m sure there were a few that kept it for sentimental reasons. So in my opinion, no matter who ended it I feel like you should have kept it since it was a gift and an investment. The necklace or family heirloom would have been good ideas. Also, that’s awful that he gave it to her because I too would not want someone else’s ring.
Well,look at it this way…she’s getting something used already,not new! Wonder if she knows you had it?
If that’s ur ex who cares🤷🏻♀️ it’s not ur ring unless u paid for it or are marrying him
I would be pissed if I was her.
I think they deserve each other - if he gave her your old ri g he obviously doesn’t think enough of her to buy her a new ri g for their new relationship-cheap and no class. If she accepted it knowing it had been yours - she obviously doesn’t have very high standards - desperate? You should be very happy you are out of that mess.
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I wouldn’t be upset lol she defo second hand 
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Ask her if she’s enjoying your handy downs
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Feel sorry for her getting 2nd hand… how much thought he put into their special time . Keeping it for son would be way to go
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If you wanted it at all, you should’ve kept the ring. Once you have it back, of course he’s gonna give it to someone else.
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I would definitely let her know. Some places let you trade it in for a different, more expensive ring. Maybe let her know that too. Lol 
My ex did the same. When I saw it on her finger, I told her that was my old engagement ring. She didn’t believe me at first so I showed her a picture. She absolutely lost her s**t. She gave me the ring and I sold it.
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It is sad and you have a right to feel however you want but if you gave the ring back it’s up to him what he does with it. It’s actually really sad for his new girlfriend as well. I wouldn’t want someone else’s ring not at least his ex’s ring. I agree it’s tacky.
I understand that. I would be hurt. He needs to return it to you and buy her a ring that isnt tied to your past with him.
You know what I’d do? I’d GROW UP.
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I think it’s ok to be upset, especially if you guys discussed what to do with the ring and now this. It doesn’t sound like she’s a friend if she’s flaunting it in your face. Honestly it makes her look like a joke for being proud to wear that. He obviously doesn’t care much for her when no thought or effort were put forth to propose. Maybe it’s best to keep your distance from them, then you don’t have to see it 
Wait…she knows its yalls old engagement ring. I’d personally let it go.
if I was her I’d feel some type of way for sureee, that’s awful
Wow, that’s heartless on his end. Concerning both of you. He shouldn’t have given her your old ring, because it was yours for all those years. And you both discussed what should be done with the ring. As for her, I mean come on, don’t be cheap. He should have bought her a brand new ring. For a brand new start. He wasn’t thinking about you, and that being your ring. Such a jerk. I’d be hurt too. But knowing myself, I’d buy myself a beautiful mother’s ring to flaunt. Because after wasting those years of my life with THAT loser, I earned it. 
A hand-me-down ring, when a old relationship didn’t work out, to me sounds like bad luck for a new beginning to the newly engaged couple. If I was the other girl I’d be livid. And if I was you I’d be mad at myself for not keeping it after you both broke up. Because then you would of had it and wouldn’t be feeling this way.
How you feel is always justified. No two people are the same. My husband used the diamond from his ex fiancée’s ring and it didn’t bother me.
Who cares?? He’s your ex. Let it go and move on.
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You got rid of him and the ring move your beautiful butt own , one day he will pay with the loss of a better women trust me.
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If ANYONE should be upset its the New fiance lol
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geez hes cheap!! Lol…
you chose not to be with him and you obviously gave the ring back to him, what he does with it isn’t your concern…
And No its not tacky thats she showing off HER new ring!!
The rings was a transactional item and the engagement didn’t end in a wedding. Although you dont have any legal right to it you can definitely have feelings about. I wouldn’t get to upset, you have the rest of your life to make new memories, so what if the gf flaunts it, she’s happy. The ring is not owned to you so the fact that it wasn’t made into a necklace or given to you boys isn’t any of your business.