You kindly let him go! Hes trying to focus on bettering himself
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You let him live without you and he adjusted theres really not much else.
Move on, stop wasting time you donāt get back.
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Move on itās only been 5 months
Move on!! Heās done told you he didnāt need a girlfriend to feel happy, so what makes you think he would even show you any interest again?
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Donāt put your life on hold. Maybe he wanted to break up with you anyway but instead decided to drink his āproblemsā away. Who knows. Live your life. If the 2 of you happen to find each other later then it was meant to be. If not it is what it is.
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Never let a man tell you twice that he doesnāt want you.
You deserve better. 
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Move on and join Al-Anon
Move on. He told you to in so many ways.
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Too much drama, move on!
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He clearly stated what he wanted man. Move on and let him focus on him and his kidš¤·š¼āāļø it sucks but you canāt make someone want you in their life if they donāt want you there.
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Move on,hes using his son work etc as a escuse not to confront the issue.you pulled him om something he cant stand and he aint changing for you sweets.if hes saying his stuff are the reasons why,does his son need him to drink to be a good dad?no does his work appretiate gis drinking?doubt it does it help with bills?nope its just bullshit excuses to get you off his case.id fuck him right off but thats me
And sorry but told you dont need a girl to feel happy,id be loooooooooong gone.you need some self respect tbh know your worth,your better than that x
Donāt walk but run the other direction! Iāve wasted 15 yrs on a drunk,before that 20yrs and Iām 48yrs old.My life has been wasted on drunks and trust me,you will never get the love and attention you need when a drunks in the pic.Alcohol comes 1st.
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Wait for what? He rather do his own thing and said that basically. Move on.
Move on bc clearly youāre trying to be controlling. If he wants to drink, let him. Heās a grown man.
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Youāve only been dating a handful of months, and from the sounds of it, the relationship isnāt THAT serious; I donāt know what happened with him before yāall got together, but it sounds to me that he may have had an Epiphany and wants/needs to focus on his son and personal life first. Nothing wrong with that. If youāre that adamant about staying with him, then tell him that youāll give him his space and when heās ready, yāall will sit down and talk but thatās not saying to drown yourself waiting for him either. Let him live his life, you live yours - try being friends and see what happens. You and/or him may have a change of heart.
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Itās probably not you and more him wanting to be able to drink freely. Idk. Either way donāt fight for someone that wants to go. Iām so sorry for your pain but if youāve been in love before you know it goes away with time. Keep yourself busy and jam uplifting music. Youāll be okay, I promise. 
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You move on. You tried to control what he was doing and he didnāt like it and thatās his reasoning. With you not in the picture, he can do what he wants, when he wants and he can find a girl with low self esteem that wonāt care if heās a job hopping alcoholic. Thank him and move on.
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No. Absolutely not. Life is short - go live it and donāt worry about him. Give that love to yourself if he doesnāt want to give you his love in return.
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Nope move on as he will
He told you what to do
Move forward and donāt look back.
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If he gets grip give him another another chance
stay away and forget himā¦heās been honest with you and stated his feelingsā¦move onā¦woman tend to devote themselves too muchā¦invest their whole future on a guyā¦stop it 
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Move on - prepare yourself for him to have another woman sooner rather than later.
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one part you say you donāt live together , yet you packed your bags & left?
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Girl move on. He does something you donāt like, you thought u had the upper hand by packing your shit and moving." You tried to control the situation and he told you he doesnt need you. So the stuff you packed? Keep it, use it, throw it away
Move onā¦. Youāll be on the back burner as just incase
He told you, like it or leave. Heās clearly not asking you to stay and honestly, is halfway out of the door to this relationship. Leave, grieve, heal, move on.
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move on-- someone else might love you more.
Please, please take it from someone who has dealt with all of this. The drinking is a 100% no go. Run away now before your life becomes an uncontrollable hell that you never imagined. Alcoholism is no joke
He told you what to do, trust him.
You answered your own question when you left but I get it sometimes we just up and leave our partner before we can ask ourselves is it a good idea and when we do that, we end up asking otherās for advice opening ourselves up to responses we really donāt want to hear. I feel in my heart that you once were in love with him but that is a past tense feeling you had and now youāre filled with regret and have fallen in love with the idea of being back with him and the constant ideas of how you will work through issues with him because you donāt want to loose him again but you are no longer as you say āin love with himā If you really loved him then you would not have left and would have worked around his drinking. You said he has his ish together and when you mess with a man who has his ish together especially one that has a child or children they have time to observe how you are as a person and how well you deal with issues basically trying to see if youāre strong enough to stick with them through any situation and when you left him because of his drinking it left him to think that maybe you arenāt feeling the relationship like you say you do. When you get with someone that has a child they donāt have time play around with indecisive folks that want to control them. You told him that you and him should slow down together āyou twoā not everyone else. Take this time to think about where you went wrong, work on your being controlling and with your next relationship tell them what you donāt like in the beginning so that way if they violate and do one of the thingās you donāt like it will help you to stand on your decision better. He is basically telling you that itās not going to work and to stand on you walking out on him! Itās other fish in the sea boo now fix your crown, dust yourself off and try again! Itās somebody for everybody he was just not for you and when you walked out you knew mentally he just helped you confirm it verbally!
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He enjoys drinking and doesnāt want to answer to anyone . Move along , donāt wait on this one .
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He was probably lying about that he stopped drinking, and thatās why heās acting like he doesnāt need a girlfriend, because if you come back then you will know that heās still doing it.
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Move on. Find someone who makes you the priority. Run at red flags, stop collecting them. 
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You do nothingā¦he just told you that he does not want to be with youā¦so move on.
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Couple things. 1) that was the real him, at the start of every relationship people try to please each other. 2) wait around? He told you he realized he didnāt need a girlfriend. Move on
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OP says they donāt live together but she packs her stuff and leaves?? And to OP donāt wait stopping for someone who just dumped you??
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Sounds like he is manipulating you ! Run forest RUN!!!
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Move on. If heās developed an alcohol addiction, thatās hard to kick. If he has no interest in kicking it, thatās a big red flag. He seems quite happy to let you go. Go with his blessing.
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Read what you posted and you can answer your own questionā¦ I mean seriouslyā¦ your not madly in love with him because heās a drunk you were madly in love with the man you met before so baby doll you answered your own question just reread your post
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You do whatever your gut tells you to do. If that is to provisionally forgive him and give him one last chance, then do so. If that is to throw in the towel and walk away, then do so.
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You sound like a psychoā¦get the hint he doesnāt want to be in a relationshipā¦get over it
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Move on. You arenāt right for each other.
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He left, it doesnāt sound like waiting around is really gonna do anything for you.
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Slowing down doesnāt mean he canāt drink with his friends. Maybe he doesnāt want to be controlled or made to feel guilty for his actions.
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You have been dating for 5 months. Thatās not even enough time to really know someone. Clearly, you are not madly deeply in love with him nor do you love everything about him. (The the fact he switched jobs and his drinking habits) Those are his life decisions, and you donāt agree with them. Itās just not going to work out for the two of you, and he sees that.
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Heās allowed to change jobs and drink with his friends. And he said he doesnāt want to be with you anymore. What more is there to wait for.
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What do you do? Seriously? Raise your standards.
Move on. Too much drama
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You are NOT in love. Trust me. You canāt love somebody who doesnāt respect or love you. He doesnāt even love himself. Give him lots if space to get his life together. There is always tomorrow
Dont let a man tell you twice he dont want you. In 5 yrs youll cross paths and he will still be drinking. Its not that he wants to focus on all those other things. He dont want you bc you dont want him drinking.
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Move on. And now that youāre out of it with no hassle. STAY GONE. You have to many out here wanting a good woman, to waste your time on some one like that.MOVE ON.
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Move onā¦he spelled it out for you
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Sounds like he already moved on so thereās nothing to do but move on yourselfā¦
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Move on be an independent women .
Dont wait girl , he is just saying it in a nice way that hes wanting to be single. Im sure his friends has made it look fun to be single and honestly girl u deserve better. Hes probably always been this way, their bad habits seem to come out after they get conformable.
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You left already. He realized he doesnāt want you back. Move on, most definitely!
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I would definitely move on.
He choose his drinksā¦
Sounds like heās choosing him & his child for now. Move on. Itās amazing if a woman said this to a man it would be true. But a man says it āhe chose his drinksā nah. Heās working on himself.
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Sounds like heās realised he needs to sort his life out and if itās meant to be it will be even if you move on and sort yours out also so maybe just focus on you and when the time is right it will actually work out
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Move on sista girl
He aināt worth your time and patience
You do realize you were just being used for sex, right? I mean grow up already. Thats all it was for him, just sex. Your nothing to him. If a man really wants you, he will move mountains for you. Heās not the one. Realize the truth, accept it and move on. Drinkers destroy themselves. Dont get involves with that kind of selfish ignorance. You deserve better.
His choice is clearā¦
Thatās the polite way to tell ya to f@#$ off
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Donāt wait, heās made it clear what his interests are.
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Just get in with your life and what ever is meant to be will be 
Iād just move on, sounds like he has. I know easier said than done. 
Move on heās not responsible enough for a family or relationship
Nope. Move on. Literally, he is telling you life is fine without you. Hate to sound harsh but even you, in your description of the events, say it (he doesnāt need you).
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Move on. He has to be sober for AT LEAST 6 months before he can consider dating. Also, the man you fell in love with isnāt him. Itās the addict version of him. You really donāt know who he is.
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He has an alcohol problem. If my husband is around it and being pressured heās the same.
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Move on and donāt look back. He isnāt worth it and will never be. Save yourself from a lot of heartache and misery (i.e. hell on earth).
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Be glad itās over!! Seriously!!!
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Youāre on two different pages. If itās meant to be, he will come back, but for now, he needs to be single, apparently. You donāt want to push someone into a relationship theyāre not ready for. Itās not gonna be good for anybody. Live your life for the time being, and either youāll find a better love, or heāll come back. Either way, now is not the time for you two.
He doesnāt want you. Heās made that clear. Move on.
Red flag thinking with his pā¦,already interested in someone else if you care you donāt take a break
Itās really pathetic how little self respect woman have for themselves. How willing they are to settle for less than the best! Why you even have to ask this question is sad. Iām sorry you are going through this! 
If you canāt love him when he is down, then this isnāt love. He deserves someone who will be there for him when he wants help. Not degrade him and make him feel even more worthless than he already does. Coming from a family of alcoholics.
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well he wont stop untile he wants to then sometimer its to late
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You tried to change him into what you wanted him to be, itās only been 5 months of being together. Back off a bit!! If that was a guy it would be called controlling and narcissistic behaviour. You sound like a stage 5 clinger, leave him be to find someone that doesnāt want to change him.
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You made that choice by packing your things up ā¦move on!