With my 1st I wanted a girl soooooo bad but i had a boy and loved him just the same…turns out god knew what he was doing because now his 2 lil sisters have a protective older brother❤
When i found out i was pregnant i instantly knew i was gonna have a girl. We found out i was having twins and then i was terrified i was gonna have two boys because at the time i just didn’t know how to raise a boy and they weren’t gonna have a father. When the gender ultrasound came around she said i was having a boy first and i held my breath just waiting for her to say it was two boys but thankfully i still got my girl. Now though my boy is such a little mommas boy and my girl isn’t nearly as cuddly as he is. She doesn’t like kisses or cuddles 
but i believe that either way it would’ve went as long as they were both healthy i would’ve been happy.
Every mother wants one or the other more , but as long as we have healthy babies , the gender is the least of our worries!
For some reason I knew I was having a boy,and I did…long before any test was possible.
my first I wanted a girl so so bad, and I got a girl. my second I wanted a boy so so bad, and I got a girl, and I cried, but I got over it and wouldn’t change her for anything.
I wanted a girl sooo bad thought it was a girl from the beginning then I was told it was a boy I was heartbroken BUT we found it it was actually a girl!! I was right all along, my fiancé wanted a boy but he is so excited to have a little girl💖 it’s normal to be disappointed if you don’t get the results you want
We wanted a boy and a girl, we wanted a boy first. When we found out our first was a girl we didn’t even care. When we found out our second was another girl, it was sad. My hubby wanted a boy to care on his last name because he’s the only boy. I was also disappointed. Gender disappointment is a real thing.
I wanted a boy first and it happened. I wanted a girl next and it happened. Didn’t care what the third was. Got another boy. Should have hoped for another girl because he’s a pain in the butt.
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Of course we care now although we may want. Or prefer one sex over the other. That doesn’t stop the love we have for our children. Whatever God blesses us with will be just fine.
as long as healthy does it matter if girl or boy which ever all babies are a blessing
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The most important thing to me is having a healthy baby and a healthy pregnancy. I see a lot of people putting a huge emphasis on what they WANT and truth be told, it doesnt matter. Parenthood is never about what we want, its selfless and its unconditional love.
IMO if you “only want another baby if it’s a boy” or “only want another baby if it’s a girl” then you probably shouldnt have another baby 
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I wanted a girl SO bad, and we had a boy, and as soon as I saw he was a boy I was so overjoyed.
I “wanted” all my kids to be girls. Unlike men who just want boys like them I had reasons. My aunt convinced me boys were harder to potty train. So I wanted my first to be a girl. Second just because I had a boy. I got my girl. I wanted my third to be a girl because my last 2 are a year apart, ex was very gender specific & I didn’t want to rebuy everything. My oldest & youngest are boys. It turned out how it’s supposed to be. BTW my daughter was the hardest to potty train.
I cried when I was told my first was a boy(obviously I got over it and love him to the moon and back now) and when I found out my second was a girl, I refused to believe it until she was born. I just knew they were going to hand me another boy and I’d be so mad…she’s definitely a girl🙂
I’ve had three.kids and with each pregnancy I wanted and got a boy…
I’ve wanted a girl each time! Currently pregnant with my third son! I live them all to the moon and back 5 times over. At this point I’ve come to terms I’m only allowed boys😂 it’s completely normal to not be happy and even have some resentment. Try seeking so professional help now and after baby gets here, if your feeling are really strong. Best of luck mommy💚
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I wanted another girl with my second but at the end of the day my child was loved no matter the gender 
And I got a super sweet baby boy and now I can’t even imaging having two girls
I want all boys. No girls at all. I have two of them. So far so good lol
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I wanted a girl and convinced myself it was a boy so I wouldn’t be disappointed and it was a girl lol. My second was a boy and, of course, I love him just as much
I honestly was always hoping for a boy! I got my boy 
I wanted a boy first so any girl i had after that would have a “Big Brother” to watch over them. I got a girl… I wasnt disappointed just was happy to see her moving around on the ultrasound and healthy as can be.
I wanted a girl, I got a girl but i would of been happy with either
I care, yes. It’s not bad I have two boys. But I’ve told myself I will not get pregnant again and I will adopt so I can have a girl without having 4 kids because I can’t handle it 
when I got pregnant with my first my grandmother cried and asked if I couldn’t do better than having a boy. Shit happens.
I wanted a boy first and had a girl and I was so happy ( my little best friend)… Then I wanted another girl so badly the second time and got upset when I found out he was a boy… But when he came along I was so happy he wasnt a girl and so glad he is a boy and wouldn’t change them for the world 
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Yes. I wanted a girl, boy then girl and that’s exactly what I got.
I don’t mind either as they both have perks. Boys have so much love for their mum, girls to their dads… Boys are full of energy & loud… Girls are chatty but will play more quieter games.
I wanted my first to be a boy and ended up having a girl I’m just hoping when I go to have my second it’s a boy
I wanted g b g ended up with g g, couldnt be happier, and I think we r done at 2
I got a boy when we wanted a boy and we want a girl this time we haven’t gotten the genetic testing yet so that’s to be updated
My first I totally expected a boy, we left gender a surprise for birth. We were happily surprised by a baby girl. The next three were boys so when surprise baby #5 came along, I suspected another girl but didn’t want to get my hopes up. Mommy & Big Sis were pleased to find out we were getting another girl.
My husband wanted a girl.
My first was a girl that second girl then two boys then a gurl an two boys so mix up love my baby’s to death…
When I found out I was having a third boy I cried and was mad at my hubs for a week or so!Over it now!I have 4 nieces and Im happy with my fate now!I got grandbabys to look forward to now!
I wanted a boy and had one wanted a girl got another boy. Now I’m on my last pregnancy with twins. One girl one boy. I cried. I really wanted that girl lol
I wanted my first to be a boy because I was scared if I had a girl she’ll be like me lmao when I was young and wild of course but now that I’m a mother it’s a whole different story and I ended up having a boy 
I wanted a girl but got a boy. He has my heart and I was just happy to have a healthy baby.
I have 4 girls. I really wanted a boy the 3rd and 4th time. But am glad I have 2 sets of girls. With a 10 year gap between 2 and 3. And both sets are 18 months apart completely accidentally
I didn’t care persay but I did quietly wish for a girl myself. However I was happy it even happened. I’m on baby 3 and still no girl, which did upset me I really did not want 3 boys, but the cards have been dealt lol
I wanted a boy but had a girl with my first. REALLY wanted a boy for the second and had another girl. I cried and cried and cried now I wouldn’t change a thing
I was in love with the idea for either gender. Just knowing we were having a healthy baby was enough for us. We had a little girl for our first.
When we got pregnant with our second, we felt the same way as the first. It would be sweet to have another baby girl or to have a handsome son. We were blessed with a boy for our second.
My husband and I are definitely very grateful to have one of each but would have been happy with any outcome.
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My husband actually wanted and daughter and so did I lol. We got our girl. When I got pregnant with my second, we both wanted another girl and we did lol. He has fears about having a son though because his younger brother passed away from a disease that have a higher chance being in boys than girls so that’s why too.
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I did hope I’d have a boy first but only cause I grew up wanting 3 boys then a girl as my last child. I had a girl first whose 5 and now I’m hoping IF I have another, it’s a boy and then I’m done😂 I’m just happy, I had a relatively healthy pregnancy, delivery and baby.
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I wanted a girl SO bad. But my son is the most perfect thing that ever happened to me.
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I wanted my boy 1st. My husband wanted a girl 1st. I got my boy 1st. Now we have 3 boys and 1 girl
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I had three boys and if the doctor told me my last was a boy I probably would have cried my eyes out, on the other hand my sister in law had girls and wanted a boy, at her gender reveal you could hear the disappointment, but she still loves her daughter
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I think we all want what we want but are thankful for a healthy baby regardless
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only reason i cared to find out was so i could buy stuff. because i’m obsessed with her already. my boyfriend wanted a boy but when he opened the envelope he cried and said how happy he was that he was gonna have two babygirls.
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I miscarried my first girl at 18 weeks. So when I got pregnant with my son I was really hoping for a girl. So I was a little bummed when I found out I was having a boy. But when I first held him I couldn’t be happier. And now he’s my little protector. And now I have a little girl as well. And he’s the best big brother to her and I couldn’t be happier to have had him first.
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I wanted one more after tayla but it wasnt to be, I’m glad that I got the best girl in the world.
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My sister and her husband got mad when they found out they were having a girl. So mad that her husband put his fist through a wall. And they didn’t bother to tell anyone because they didn’t want people t ok know they were mad.
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Not even pregnant yet and I want a girl. I have 4 nephews and 0 nieces so I want a girl!
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I really wanted a girl and a boy. I thought I would like for the boy to be older but when we found out we were expecting a girl it was the most wonderful experience ever. Now we are expecting a boy. 
I always said if I had a girl, I wanted to return her. I of course picked girl names out but never needed them. I’m good with having 2 boys. Dad got fixed after the second, so 2 boys it is.
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I wanted a boy first and I got it and a girl second and it’s another boy haha I love it still tho
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Yes! I’m a boy mom. Never wanted a girl. Don’t have time for all that.
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I wanted a boy, and I got him I do want the next to be a girl, but I would still love them no matter what
I got what I wanted each time. Knew what I was carrying all 3 times.
I have 6 daughters so I’m praying my next one is a boy. From the beginnings my husband has never cared about the gender he just wants me and the baby to be healthy when it’s all over.
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I wanted a girl and I had a girl. I definitely think it’s very common to hope for one more than the other, but when you find out it’s not the one you hoped for, I think most people process it and then love whatever gender it is all the same.
I always said I wanted a boy, but when I found out I was pregnant I didn’t care at all. Unfortunately I know a lot of women who had many pregnancy struggles and I was just so desperate to have a healthy baby… and the bonus was, I had a boy
Dunno if it is normal but i always wanted a boy first
I cried and so did my 3 year old girl when they told me I was having a second girl I mean I love her but it would of been nice to have a boy (got my tubes tied so no more babies)
I wanted to opposite of what I got each time. I wouldn’t change it for the world though.
For both my kids I wanted a boy
Annnnnnnnnd I had 2 boys
Cried when I found out my first was a girl bc I thought I wanted a boy. Now I have 2 girls and totally content not having a boy
I find out tomorrow, and we both REALLY want a boy, so I feel like if its a girl there will certainly be feelings of loss of the perfect little man I’ve been dreaming about my whole pregnancy, but I’m excited either way, a mini me would be amazing 
I didn’t care but I did always see my self as a boy mom, and wanted a boy cause my husband first born was a boy and he was still born then he had three girls. He didn’t care but thought it would be nice. I was right, I’m a boy mom. Two boys.
I wanted a girl & got my girl. 
If I ever want another one, I won’t care what the gender is
My husband and I didn’t care as long as the baby was healthy and we have a beautiful daughter and she is our only one since I lost my husband I don’t want no more kids at all. He was the best husband and father to me and our daughter
I have 4 boys i would love a girl we had a miscarriage between our 3rd son and 4th son.