If you are the primary parent and you go out of town do you let your man figure it out or lay it out.
Balance?
If it’s an immediate health or safety concern lay it out.
If it’s not an immediate issue (like chicken nuggets for dinner isn’t necessarily the best but for a couple days it’s not an immediate issue) then let him figure it out.
As in telling the other parent how to care for the children? I don’t see why that would have to be info given to another parent. They should already know schedules and how to keep kids alive I would hope.
Day to day things? He’s a parent and can do it. Child care? You should help figure it out.
As a parent our main job is to ensure the safety and welfare of the children. If you know they ah e not a clue, yes I would 100% get all things in orders. It’s not about them it’s about my kid
I read the most bizarre thing in this page .
It’s not about you or the father of your kid , it’s about the kid , if I’m going to be out of town the first thing I do is to be sure that my daughter will be taken care of PROPERLY ( regardless of the person she will stay with ) I will not be able to enjoy anything if I’m worrying about her the whole time .So yes , I will help out as much as I can, I will make sure that she will be in a safe place, that she will have food to eat , snacks etc .I will provide any information that might help like her routine , her likes and dislikes ( in case they don’t know) of course a phone number adicional to mine in case I have to be contacted.