Sounds pretty normal behaviour. But if you’re concerned why is this person 1. Staying in your home and 2. Being left unattended with your child?
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I hope you’re not leaving your baby with some rando you moved in. If things don’t seem right to you it’s time to make a change. Between a woman you don’t like and your own baby, the choice seems easy.
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Young one never go against your “Momma gut” - as far as the lady -seriously she has to leave. It’s your house, your child, your rules, and your family - take charge of it young lady. This pussyfooting around isn’t getting anywhere- you Deserve respect and know how and Who You want to live with - right-
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If you have any doubt, kick the bitch out.
No questions asked.
Since you said you don’t like her, I think you looking for a reason to Kick her out of your house.
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Idk but my niece had a thing for playing with feet & she was like a monkey. Would do all sorts of “humping” like movements. She was a toddler and I know for sure she wasn’t being touched or harmed because I lived with her. I don’t like the lady you speak of and would get her out asap. If it makes you feel better get a nanny cam or 2 set up and see what’s happening. Wouldn’t be leaving my kid with her anyway as I don’t leave them with no one I don’t know well.
I am obviously not an admin at all, but the people saying hateful things, STOP 
! You do not know the situation, do not judge. Give your helpful advice, and stop being rude.
OP: if you are uncomfortable in anyway, GET RID OF THE ROOMMATE! Get discreet cameras that you can stream to your phone, you can find them fairly cheap on Amazon. This way if something is happening, you can have evidence and can press charges. Because if they are doing things to your child, they will continue doing so to others until they are stopped! Take care of yourself, and your family. If she is providing rent, there is absolutely no amount of money that is worth the mental health and well-being of yourself and yourself and your children. I hope this helps
Always go with your gut. Give her the boot!
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It COULD just be normal kid stuff. But if you’re not comfortable with this woman living around your child that’s ok. Regardless of reasons. You don’t need a reason to not have some one around your baby.
Also my second baby did do this a lot and he has autism and lots of sensory seeking behaviours like licking things, sniffing things. He used to try and suck guests feet. 
Get her out of your house
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What ur kid is doing is all normal. But put cameras up if you think it could be more going on.
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I would just go ahead and ask her to leave. If my gut says something isn’t right, especially where my kids are concerned, there’s no second guessing.
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Maybe your boyfriend exposed the kids to pornography or worse…
Secondly how is as a one year old able to get to your toes in your sleep? Sounds dangerous…
Put your kid before your boyfriend
Don’t ever leave your child alone with her!
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Oh gosh if your worried about her get rid of her… But my son is autistic and does the tongue and feet things.
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You’re literally describing the weird normal things kids do
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Your motherly instinct can’t be wrong. Better remove her from the home. And why is she staying with u in the first place?
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Trust your gut instinct!
Trust your gut feelings always
No body really knows her story. I’m not here to Judge you mama. All I can say is just trust your gut. Gut is always right and never second guess it. I think you and your boyfriend need to sit down and have a talk together and you guys can figure it out. Just be honest with him. You guys can come to a conclusion together. Keep up mama you got this. 
I’d get rid of her based on the fact you don’t care for her. You don’t need a reason to kick someone out of your home. Personally, she needs to go
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She would of been gone the moment she tried telling me how to raise my child🤷♀️ you don’t like her, she sounds like she is crossing lines that shouldn’t even be crossed by your own family members and now you have gut feelings. I wouldn’t be waiting around to catch her in the act. I would tell your boyfriend either she goes or you and see who he picks because that is not okat
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Get her out?! A house is not big enough for two women!! JS
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If you don’t like this lady then how would any of his behavior have to do with her? Unless you’re leaving your baby with a woman you don’t like which seems like a horrible idea. If you get a bad vibe from anyone, that person should never be left alone with your baby. I wish all mommies could be granted the first 4 years home with their babes for protection & love. Let the babes be able to talk before they need to be with anyone else. I know it’s a struggle for a lot of moms and I will just continually pray for our babies.
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Put cameras up. You can get a set of 4 on amazon called YI Home. They are like $90 maybe and totally worth it. It will solve your worries
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For that chil to learn all that kind of stuff she may be Sleeping with your boyfriend.
She is a Danger to your children 
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My son does all of this tbh 
however I know that this is normal for him. If this started after she moved I band something is telling you something is wrong then trust your gut.
I hope your not leaving your child alone with her!!! Protect him poor baby is learning it from someone kick her out!!!
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Call the cops if you have to to help get her out
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Children at that age are very prone to mimicking what they see, on tv and in their day to day routines. That’s normal. What isn’t normal is your bf moving this woman into your home without your consent and what sounds like, is making you very unhappy. You need to bring this to your bf attention and have a talk with him. Together you both need to speak with this woman about respecting boundaries while in your home. Getting into arguments with her is not good for your child to see. It seems this arrangement is not healthy. Might I suggest speaking to a family therapist? Being separated from your other children has to be causing you issues that you might not even be aware of. Also make an appt with your pediatrician if you feel uneasy about your child’s recent behavior.
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I would get the woman out always follow your gut instinct, your child could be witnessing something when you are not around and copien what he is seeing,but defo would not let her stay there for sure,hope you find out
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None of this makes sense to me 
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You better watch, get camarad n don’t tell her
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If you don’t like her what the he’ll is she doing living in
Your house ?
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Go with your gut, if it smells fishy….there is a fish!
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What in the cinnamon toast fuck is this?!
Get her out of your home, take your son to councelor.
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First of all is she ever alone with your child? If the answer is yes than it’s a definite possibility!! If the answer is no than just normal toddler behavior. Personally she’d be gone if I wasn’t getting along with her and I had any inclination she was capable of abusing my son!
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Trust your gut ALWAYS!!! your baby learned to kiss like that cause that’s what they learned! Somewhere! If not by you, then by someone. And the whole foot thing isn’t a fetish, doesn’t sound like it. My 10
Month old always tries to bite my toes and she’s never seen it done. I can’t even touch my feet(I’m pregnant and to big😂) buuut the whole humping thing, yeah he’s seen it or sometbing! Trust your gut, NEVER leave your baby alone with this person, and get this lady out!!
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Your boyfriend is an idiot and I actually stopped reading after you saying you don’t even have 3 of your kids now your pregnant again unbelievable smh
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Get a nanny cam now, don’t tell her or boy friend
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It sounds like he is mimicking what he is seeing either on tv or between her and your boyfriend. That child is witnessing and repeating sexual behaviors. Get her TF out now.
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Go to best buy and buy a small camera to put in the living room. The sale people can help you get the correct camera. She say you have a baby sitter and you concern and want to see whats going on when you not there.
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Keep it to your self that you got the camera
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How much alone time do you allow your kid to have with this person that makes you concerned that he’s mimicking a behavior he learned from her? Do you have your boyfriend share a room with your child? Are you and your boyfriend kissing in front of him? What type of movies do you watch with your child? Does your child watch videos on devices without supervision? There are a few factors to consider before going straight to an outsider. All kids are different. Just because your older 3 didn’t do it doesn’t mean this one or the next one won’t either. While I’m especially hyper aware about predators and predatory behavior, I’m also aware of my own habits and I don’t allow my kids unsupervised alone time with adults, period.
If you feel it , it’s there
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Those saying that she should put cameras up, why? If she’s suspicious of the woman, she should kick her out. Why wait? If the woman IS doing something, she’s giving her another chance to continue by waiting to see what the camera catches.
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No no no no no and no !!!
If youre even asking this question and feel something is wrong, get that person out of your house now !!! If the boyfriend has a problem with her going, he should go with her. Your kids are should be your first priority. I don’t know why your older kids aren’t with but don’t let something like this be the reason you won’t get to keep this one…. Kick that woman out the dood !
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A one year old sucking on toes sounds like a teething thing to me …I mean…it’s a one year old
Always listen to your gut!!!
Always trust the gur
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Not sure of why you don’t have your other children. But I sure wouldn’t be allowing this to go on. Or social services will get involved & take the baby away as well. The lady has to go!!!
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Your boyfriend needs to get rid of this woman!
If u don’t like her why is she in your house? I would have put my foot down an sent her on her way the first argument. Are u sure she ain’t messing with ur husband in front of your child? I’ve known a couple assholes that have done this actin like they helping family out but it’s his side piece. And most importantly if u have any kind of feeling it’s because of her, why are u continuing to allow her there?
Do you leave him alone with her?
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I would have made the lady move out if I even suspected anything weird going on with my child. And before all of that I would have kicked her out when she started getting into it with me over little things in my house! So disrespectful and I hate to be uncomfortable in my house. She shouldn’t be over stepping boundaries with your children. Anyways my son is 8 months old and he is teething he literally sticks everything in his mouth including my feet I don’t let him but he tries
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1st of all the lady said her oldest doesn’t live with her NOT that they were taken away! These comments about her not having her oldest 3 could be their choice, MAYBE THEY WANTED TO LIVE WITH THEIR DAD!! Second to the OP get her out of your house period! If you have bad feelings about her then she needs to go!
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Always trust your gut. You already know the answer. If you’re wrong, the only harm is hurt feels from someone who is disrespectful and intrusive to you. The harm will last a life time! Besides the emotional
scares to your son, it will effect your relationship always. His trust and feelings of protection from you will never be as strong. Why would you take any risk to his health, happiness and safty? True or not listen to your heart!
I know what I’m talking about.
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Your other kids don’t live with you…did you have them with you when they were that age ?. Some kids do the open mouth kissing …my daughter used to as a baby. All sloppy wet yuck…my son didn’t. I never kiss kids on the mouth. Only the forehead .
The humping…could be perfectly normal for a boy that age . Some boys do.
I’m concerned your 1yo is not in a suitable crib while you’re asleep…but then maybe you bedshare 
. Toe sucking wasn’t something my kids did so can’t say if thats normal for some…they did bite toes at every opportunity.
Your boyfriend moving in an older woman seems a bit weird to me and certainly not something I would have allowed…given you have a 1yo who will need his own room soon and another baby on the way…but maybe you have room to spare.
You dont get on with her. You obviously don’t trust her. Either she would be gone or I would leave taking my children with me.
Trust your instincts…the lady needs to leave.
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My son started the same stuff when he was around 1 and still occasionally tried to do these things now and he is 3. Turns out, his father had sex w his girlfriends in front of him multiple times. Always trust your gut feeling. It’s better to confront it and end up being wrong than your child going through abuse or inappropriate situations.
Set up indoor cameras
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Trust ur feelings if u dont u will pay the price later
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No matter what trust your gut. As a Mother don’t ever question your intuition. Please. I’m hoping for the best outcome though
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Get that women and possibly bf outta that house asap.take your child for a wellness check maybe they will see something you dont.it sounds as if your child has been assaulted.always trust your gut.something is wrong here .as a mom get on that asap and goodluck
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id get rid of her for certain, whats a middle aged woman doing living with a young unrelated couple anyway? also id think your little boy is seeing or having things done that are not right. get rid of the problem before your child is damaged
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Whoa!!! My gut says get that lady away from ur kid
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trust your gut for sure especially dealing with ur kids. either set up cameras and catch her or just go ahead and let her go. be careful there is some weirdos out there and she could easily be one of them
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Is she alone with him? Do you ever leave him unsupervised then there’s a possibility
However my babies all mouth kissed, not all of them humped but they often rubbed against stuff and never saw anything weird from us, as for sucking toes maybe he’s just weird little toddler
My middle boy liked to bite feet and legs lol
Sounds like he’s 1 
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Your child is learning this from someone!
What is the relationship between your man and this lady? Is this something you need to worry about also? If it’s your house get her out.
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The amount of ppl saying she’s cheating with your boyfriend or assaulting him wow 
I know signs of abuse aren’t always what you’d think but when was sucking toes and exploring how his body feels automatic abuse. Gain proof through having child examined if you’re that concerned
Why I can’t ever leave my Baby girl to just anyone let alone surround her with just anybody 
Mathias Hill
You need to buy a nanny cam
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Cameras and its your kid ur house, she needs to go
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You should be more worried about your other 3 kids not living with you 
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Kids learn about their bodies really young but I don’t think they really do this. I’ve noticed that my own kids explored their bodies. But I would question it if it gets to the point it has with your son. Take him to a doctor and make a decision from there. Don’t overwhelm yourself, just get him to a doctor first and see what the doctor says
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It sounds like your child could be being sexually abused. Especially if these behaviors began after the woman moved in. I would talk to a doctor or therapist and remove the woman from your home immediately. Kids need boundaries and stability and letting random people stay with you is not stable.
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So am I the only one wondering 1. If you don’t know nor like this bish wtf is she doing being left alone with your child?
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Why don’t your other children live with you?
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Are you overreacting because as you said yourself, you don’t like her and argue with her over petty shit?
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Uh. That sounds suspicious. I do peck my daughter on the mouth every so often and she has never tried sucking on my face nor try to stick her tongue down my mouth. You need to keep your son away from her. That’s just super weird and inappropriate.
I would be very worried and tell her to get out.
Get nanny camps asap and see what’s up . Only Uou should know abt them for now .
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Why are there laugh reacts? Sheesh this child could be getting groomed, and people are laughing. Not normal behavior in my opinion, my son has never done any of that? All kids are different sure but I’ve never heard of this until now. Your intuition is your super power, especially as a mother. Trust it always. As of all of you perfect mother’s laughing and judging, I hope you never find yourself in a situation like this, whether it’s true or not, scary as hell. Sexual abuse changes them forever….
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So you woke up to your one year old sucking your toe 
Something is prob happening to your kid, and stop having kids you cant raise
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Some very good advice on here, but I would also consider; what he might be watching in videos if he has access to a phone or IPad.
Even YouTube kids have sexually suggestive videos that somehow come up.
I would monitor that as well as everything else that’s been suggested here.
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Your intuition is being piked, that lady would be gone out of my home
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Get rid of her now!! Trust your gut. She’s messing with your son!!
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Be very careful who you let into your child’s life. You never know when the one you let in is harmful
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Always go with your gut! Praying you find out the truth 
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In my experience they’re seeing this behavior somewhere. Maybe it’s movies (adult) she’s watching but I’m praying it’s nothing more. Indoor/outdoor nanny cams in your children’s bedrooms. Don’t place them in her room…you could wind up fighting a nasty court battle for privacy if she’s not doing anything wrong and finds out
Praying u find out what’s causing this
Um, what’s up with your man inviting women to come live with you first of all?
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Cameras! But you don’t need a reason to have her leave.
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When my youngest was one he had a good thing where if a foot was hanging off the couch he was going to bite it/suck it 
lmfao 1 year olds are curious and use their mouth to explore. Monitor the woman and make sure something isn’t going on though. If you could have the feeling it’s happening then there’s something she’s doing is giving you that weird intuition.
Your child has started showing certain behavior AFTER the lady moved in she’s nasty and abusing your kid he’s showing you plenty of signs follow your gut and kick her tf out and if your man don’t like it tell him to kick rocks too
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Cameras!! Trust your gut. If it’s telling you something is wrong, it’s usually right!
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Trust your gut instincts. Talk to your primary doctor
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Kick that woman out and stop leaving your kid alone with people you don’t know! It’s not rocket science!
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