Go with mama’s intuition.
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Grab her by her slimy ass tongue and launch her out the door / window ! Simple xx
Trust your gut, also do you French kiss in front of him? I tried doing it to my my grandma was I was little and she shut my mouth and kissed me on the lips and said we don’t kiss like that!
Get rid of her immediately.
My kids did these things…it was very strange (and gross). But if your gut tells you that something is off, definitely investigate.
If you feel in your gut something’s not right then get her out asap. Better to be safe than sorry those are learned behaviors
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just ask her to move out and then pack her bags. 
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Trust your instinct. I’d also question why your fella moved her in in the first place 
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Always always trust your gut.
Kids randomly be biting and putting things in their mouth is rather normal my second kid is one hell of a character that’s for sure he was a toe biter there for a minute so i wouldnt jump to conclusions over normal child behavior but if you want this lady out tell her she needs to leave already but I wouldnt jump to outrageous conclusions over something like my kid biting my toe you just sound like you fishing for reasons only one you need is that it’s your and your bfs house and you dont want her there anymore promise that’s all you need doll its reason enough
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Look even if your momma instincts are wrong and it’s normal for your son, kick her out. How dare she not follow the rules or have the audacity to argue with you about your child. But your instincts are probably right, even if things are harmless she’s doing, something don’t set well with you so she’s got to go. If your husband don’t like it older or not I’d question his loyalty to her also.
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Kick her out. Get rid of the BF if he argues.
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Trust your gut and get rid of that woman. If your boyfriend has objections, get rid of him too! Your child’s safety is paramount!!!
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Sorry but why on earth are you letting a woman who u clearly don’t know properly live around your child anyway? If u feel she’s a concern to your child don’t second guess it get her out.
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Listen to your gut.
She needs to move out immediately.
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Gut is generally right. Not saying that something really bad is going on but something is definitely NOT right!
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Everybody’s a suspect until proven otherwise protect ur kid
Listen to Moms intuition…if it was my baby she would be gone,
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If you have a gut feeling, why not remove her from your residence? Why have someone watching your children you do not have trust with?
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Oh my! Nanny cam! Now!
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Kick her the Fuck out, go with your gut feelings mama bear also you just might want him to be seen by a therapist just to be on the safe side. Sorry but him trying to French kiss you is cause it’s being done to him period and the toe thing I bet he’s seeing your man do that to this lady. Something about him and her are not right just saying.
Do you think she’s at fault somehow? My nearly 3 year old Autistic son does things like that, thus, the question. He even licks things, even the cat is not off limits for him to lick…
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Mother’s instinct and you don’t know her. She sucking all of ya energy and will leave a negative one when she leave cleans with sage. Trust your gut. Either way she need to find somewhere else to stay. Protect your son and tell your husband and note to your self stop helping people they will suck your energy
Not good like they say go with your gut feeling
While I think the things you’re describing are normal growing curious baby things the real issue is you not wanting this woman in your house. Feels like you’re looking for a good enough reason to ask her to leave but the fact is, if you really thought she was a danger to your kid you wouldn’t be letting her around him period. I believe in trusting your mom gut 1000% but in this instance I feel like you’re looking for this to be the straw that broke the camels back. If it’s your boyfriend fighting you to let her stay and you really think your kid is in danger leave if he won’t make her leave
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Trust your gut feeling
Kids stick out they’re tongues and suck/knaw on things…. Is the humping the baby trying to move around??? Put up cameras and you’ll see.
Get rid of her and take your child to the doctor if the boyfriend don’t like it get rid of him too
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Why are you allowing your bf to let some women yoy don’t know live with you? Someone’s doing something her or him or both, time to get rid of them
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Why is this woman alone with your kid?
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Could be watching u or a movie
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When in doubt throw her ass out.
I tried that, it didn’t work
Obviously you’re not leaving your kid alone with this woman… for the few commenters that keep saying that, dumbasses… Does your bf watch him and is she there when he has the baby alone? What if he’s cheating with her in front of your son?
To all of you that keep talking shit about her not having her other kids, stfu! You don’t know the reasons why they don’t live with her. She came here to ask for help because she’s worried about her child. And you bitches just want to judge. This page is edification and support and encouragement. If you don’t have anything nice to say, move the fuck on and have a great day! 
Kick her out and if your boyfriend gets mad, leave his a*s
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None of this is normal.
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Put up video cameras in the house
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Again, cannot get past the first sentence and already know the answer is YES. And so do you.
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I’m just going to say, a friend had a daughter with a boyfriend who, when together, they had no issues whatsoever with over the top PDA…
The barely 2 year old son started mimicking his mom in the way of grabbing his grandma’s face & trying to open mouth kiss her, push her down on the bed & grind on her, really strange OUT OF THE BLUE behavior for him… & SHOCKING to grandma…
She let loose 
on her daughter about this behavior in front of a 2 year old child. The daughter ultimately ended things with the guy, & the behavior from the 2 year old grandson stopped immediately…
He’s almost 3 & not ever displayed that kind of behavior since.
So, either your son is watching it happen & acting out what he’s watching, or it’s happening to him & he’s repeating the actions.
You have to take a hard look at who is alone with your child. Then decide if someone is acting inappropriate in front of him, or doing inappropriate things TO him. & Take action accordingly.
Unfortunately, if you suspect sexual abuse, you are going to have to get PROOF to prosecute. Get a good hidden camera, & secretly supervise your child alone with this person. Let it go far enough that you have your proof without a doubt, but not far enough to hurt your child. INTENT is a punishable crime also.
Best of luck & my prayers for both you & your baby boy.
It all sounds like normal kid stuff. I’m a solo mother and my son did most of what you described except the toe sucking. However, he could be sucking your toes because you’re pregnant. I get that it’s an old wives tale but it can be true for some people
Follow your gut that’s not normal behavior for a child
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When sexual & physical abuse on children is at an all time high, how could anyone “laugh” at this post
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Listen to your intuition!! Use the new baby as an excuse that she needs to move.
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I swear, some of the scenarios on this page are fake and made up. Some of these are ridiculous.
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Having this feeling is your answer!! I would leave ASAP. I could never wonder if someone is abusing my kids.
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Child. Malester. I’m. Telling. You. I been. There. And. My daughter. Was. Raped. I’m. Telling. You. Sucking. On. Your. Toes. Hunching a. Pillow. How. Old is he. Yea. Think. About. This. Put. Nanny. Cams. Up. Promise. She. Is. Malesteing. Him
Just to be on the safe side. She hast to go
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Ask or have him play with dolls. No prompts. Yes I’d be concerned. Offenders aren’t always male
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Also make sure it’s not him ask cps
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First of all always do what you feel you should to keep your kid safe. Secondly: he’s one!! Did you know your baby has more nerve endings in and around his lips and mouth at this age than in any other area of his body. It’s evolutionary so that we learn what is and and isn’t dangerous, develop our immune response via the tonsils, and explore our world. While your other kids might not have mouthed things like feet and mouths, it’s not out of the ordinary at all for kids to do this. At that age things almost always go straight into mouths. A one year old doesn’t have the frontal cortex development to understand the social implications of this behavior or really most behaviors besides the basics like smiling. His amygdala is doing the work here. Give him the benefit of the doubt.
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Mother’s KNOW kick her Out
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She’s been there since April. And you don’t watch your child with her. But are wondering if she’s taught him these behaviors? Never leave a child unattended with someone you don’t know. Definitely have her move if your having bad feelings.
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Install a camera but don’t tell no one . See what’s going on for yourself
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Why the fuck is a stranger living in your home? Who cares if he knows her, if YOU don’t, she is stranger danger. Kick her out ASAP.
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First of all, wtf would he let her move in… That’s disgusting. Second put some cameras in the house. Third, I’d kick her ass out like yesterday
If something doesn’t seem right, something isn’t right.
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Your gut Will never let You down!! Pay Attention!!!
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Be worried. Be scared.
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I’d definitely be concerned!!
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Are your children left alone with this person? than there would be reason to be concern about something going on. But if your always with your childern than maybe Its just a phase your kid going through. But sounds like they have seen something or been involved in something to do those things and thats not good
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Honestly, kids kinda just do that. But also you need to not live with that woman if you arent comfortable
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Follow your gut feeling.
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Don’t let your kid alone with her
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Get her out and away from your children.
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If set up cameras, just to be on the safe side and see what’s going on when you’re not looking or around!!!
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Nanny cam that shit!!
He’s ONE! He didn’t develop a foot fetish. He’s probably teething and wants something to suck on! As for you judging parents that kiss their babies on the mouth, mind your business. And stop sexualizing your baby’s behavior. I guarantee you he’s not sticking his tongue down your throat to be sexual. That’s how babies kiss.
He’s probably getting into your bfs porn
I have questions.
Is your BF the father of your 1 year old?
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Kick her the fuck out !!! Sounds like your son is being sexually abused, TRUST YOUR GUT !!!
These questions can’t be real! Wtf. If so, you’re the parent. Protect your kids! Good lord! I’m gonna leave it at that because I don’t have anything nice to say.
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Doesn’t sound good to me at all I know what I would do but it’s not my child not my roommate
Trust your gut ALWAYS!
Follow your instinct
Listen to your gut And why would he invite another woman in?.take the child to a pediatrician
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Trust your gut mama…
Mamma always always always trust your gut.
Everyone boyfriend and all should be considered suspicious until proven innocent. Protect your child. Don’t be dumb about this.
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My cousin did this to me once. No idea where she got it from kids are odd. I brushed my teeth with the strongest toothpaste they had for adults she stopped because of the smell
Go with your gut feeling! God gave mothers that for a reason!
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Your gut is telling you all you need to know . Has your BF got a thing for older women ?? Show her the door today .
You should always follow your gut, but also know that those are natural things kids do also! I would definitely check and make sure nothing is happening behind the scenes, but both my kids did silly things like this. And they both at some point or another humped themselves to sleep 
I’m not sure if it’s just a form of exerting energy or what, but I also know many other mothers who’s child have done the same.
But still follow through and install a nanny cam just to be on the safe side because that momma intuition is there for a reason. Good luck!
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. Do you think the weird things my kid is doing could be related to our roommate?
You cannot under estimate Mother’s intuition!! If u don’t like and don’t want your child around her, kick her ass out!
She’s not family and she doesn’t need to be in your life. Better safe than sorry
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my kids literally do all those things. they are 1 and almost 3. especially the biting. they lick my face and arms and find it funny. and my 2 year old will stick his tongue out every time i go to kiss him.
that being said, listen to your instincts. it might just be a bit of paranoia but mother’s intuition is very real. if something doesn’t sit right with you or makes you uncomfortable then ask her to leave. don’t accuse others without proof, but trust your instincts and do whatever you need to make yourself more comfortable.
My son went through a stage at about the age of 2/3 of touching my toes and feet and stroking my face also playing with my hair and kissing my hands and feet. He is now 7 years old and has been diagnosed with ADHD and sensory issues. I think it’s normal at this age could be a sensory issue but also could be normal. I think the fact you don’t get on with this women could maybe be you over reacting and hormones playing apart. But in the same breath I would say you as a mom should always trust your instincts and the fact you don’t like her she needs to leave as you being pregnant you need a happy peaceful home 
‘My boyfriend let this lady he knows move in’
That was enough for me, Were you consulted on this? Especially if you both aren’t getting on…
Kids do have weird behaviours , However if its only now started since this lady has moved in I would be suspicious as well…
Personally I would be telling said lady she needs to move out of your family home , Arguing over silly stuff is going to cause tension in the household.
I also would not like someone my partner invited to live with us tell me how to do things in my own home.
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Kids do weird things…think he’s just being a kid.
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The kids stuff sounds like kids stuff. My 18m old is forever trying to give me a kiss with her tongue stuck out, licking me, biting my toes and things 
but if you don’t like someone living with you, then don’t let them live with you.
I’d be telling her to move out before the new baby comes, just purely because it’s not her home and she has no right telling you what is okay/not okay with your child. It also seems a bit strange that your boyfriend would invite some you don’t know to live with you…
Personally I think you’re overreacting because you don’t get on with her. Kids develop differently and do have different comforts, maybe he thought it was a thumb for example. As for the humping that’s something beyond anyone’s control given he does it in his sleep it’s not really copied behaviour
Why has he moved someone into your home you don’t really know and allowed that,no chance would I allow that,especially if you don’t get on with her hes taking the piss
Make sure he isnt alone with her for a substantial amount of time see if his behaviours improve. Yoir boyfriend may need to kick her out though and put you both first. Although my son is a licker but isnt weird with feet
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She’s not even family…she’s a guest. There is no reason why you can’t ask her to leave. If your boyfriend has an issue with it than that says a lot.
Mom’s have a “gut feeling” for a reason. Maybe it’s not molestation but maybe it’s a sensory issue…eaither way you aren’t comfortable so do what you think is best
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Yeaaaaa… Im going w over reacting… And I use that term loosely cause when it comes to protecting our babies there is no such thing as over reacting. HOWEVER… Babies give kisses before they even know was a kiss is. And its likely the baby is trying to suck or bite on things on its level or whatever is there… Like a foot… And they literally mimic everything they see…
Jumping to molestation cause of something like that is a leap. 
However if u are uncomfortable w it. Say something. You should never be uncomfortable in your own home… But tread carefully if the bf looks at this woman like a mom.
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Trust your gut. Mamas intuition is normally right.
She needs to go. And you need to bring your son to the doctor just in case to be checked out.
Could be nothing, but my gut never steers me wrong when it comes to my daughter.
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Lol my three year old (now almost 12) straight came at me face one day open mouth like I pushed himz lil head back like what are you doin? and he says ‘i just want to kiss you like daddy does’ and I died laughing…explained him boys don’t kiss their moms like husband’s as he will share that with his wife one day…it’s natural they’re curious because kissing is an essential part human nature and unless he’s watching soapy dramas with grandma lady it’s really not her faultand it’s still ok to teach him good touch bad touch…all my kids know and could use the proper terms for their pieces but growing up we call it the business…it’s YOUR BUSINESS and no one elses unless something’s wrong and your doctor can check it…everyone minds their own business lol
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Kids do weird things all on their own, but that being said if you are uncomfortable with her in your home and around your child them it is time for her to go. Letting her stay will teach your child that other people’s feeling are more important than your own boundaries.
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If your boyfriend let some random lady in the house to live with you, for like no reason at all. Then he might be hooking up with her. And I don’t kiss my kids on the mouth, it’s not what I’m comfortable with and I’ve never been a very affectionate person from the start 
but my toddler is two and when he was younger and crawling and learning to pull himself up on things he tried putting anything in his mouth, especially toes. But we shut that down real quick and was like “baby icky, toes are ickyyy”
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I still kiss my mother, grandmother and aunt on the mouth. I kiss my kids on their mouths. And my 1 year olds are always trying to lick me, bite me, suck on me in weird places. So to me, it’s not very weird and I think judging people for it is kinda shitty.
But as a Mom, if you have a gut feeling about something, say something. Make your boundaries known and express that if they are crossed, she’s got to go. Dont leave her alone with your child. And put up some cameras. I have cameras in the common areas of my home as well as my daughters bedroom that I can check anytime. I don’t trust anyone.
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