No judgment here but I am a mom of a 6 year old from a past relationship and my SO and I have a 1 year old. I work full time and so does he and I’m doing all the mommy stuff also which he doesn’t help hands on since his jobs are out of state and he’s gone for three weeks one month , 4 weeks the next month and when he does get back from the jobs it’s always bed time for my girls I’m just so dead tired. I’m off weekends but weekdays I bring my oldest daughter to school then bring the baby to the babysitter and then I go to work pick up the baby from the babysitter , pick up my older daughter from school , bring the girls to my MIL house go back to work then pick up the girls from my MIL , go home feed them if they haven’t been fed by MIL , do baths / showers and then the girls go to sleep by the time that’s all done I just want to go to sleep but when he gets home from being gone he wants to have some loving because he’s been away for work and misses me (Which I totally understand but momma is tired) and he seems to get mad when I just want to go to sleep and it causes a fight every single time. How do I go about talking to him about this without causing a fight ?