Has anyone gone through a custody change with older kids?

Any parents who had custody change with older kids? Going to be going to court for a custody change. If the custody changes how do I go about talking with my child that their schedule is going to completely change. Should I talk to them now to give them time to prepare if a change happens or would that make them worry unnecessarily if a change doesn’t happen. Could use some advice.

I’d wait until the parents know if the changes are going to happen for sure before anything gets mentioned. No use in creating unrest and anxiety on maybes and what if’s. :woman_shrugging:t4: