Has anyone made rude comments about a baby name that you chose?

Have anyone had rude comments about the name you picked out for the baby YOU made? We picked Lilith, and I have some super ridiculously religious in my family that had some mean opinions. I think it’s a beautiful name; I love the nickname Lily and whenever people ask if I know who was named that, I say it’s a badass that decided she didn’t wanna listen and obey a man and wanted to live her own damn life. I don’t see the big deal. It’s just a name!

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I get the same thing cause my kid is daemon :roll_eyes: people are rude and dumb

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I’ve been lucky. But, I’ve heard about people who’ve made ugly comments. Shame on them.

My daughters name is Seraphim. Everyone thought it was weird at first. Even had someone tell me Seraphim is a male name (because it’s from the bible) and that I should name her seraphina instead. Well its been her name 6 years now. People have to have an opinion about EVERYTHING :roll_eyes: I say tell them to stfu :woman_shrugging:

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Lilith is a lovely name…

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Ignore them…your baby, your choice xx

I had a nurse say that my daughter’s name was popular in the other kids that you know go to visit that pediatrician. as if I was supposed to be offended that somebody else had the name Amelia.

That is a beautiful name :heart: I liked Violet but I had people making jokes about Willy Wonka saying Violet you’re turning Violet. Hurt my feelings so I told them to go kick rocks and ended up changing the name to something I found even more better. Keep the name because it is honestly a beautiful name with cute nicknames :heart:

Yes with all 4 of my daughters I didn’t want super common names unlike mine so I found ones I like and I stuck with them when anyone made a comment I just told well you didn’t have anything to with making them so your opinion is irrelevant🤷

I don’t get any and two of my boys are synester and vyngeance.

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So you’re expected to miss out on a name all because it has some ridiculous religious backstory for them?
Naw.
Pick what you want. Someone somewhere will always say something.

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My ex and his mother made fun of the name I had picked out for our second child (arabella), he actually had an ex that I could not stand (due to them causing problems in the beginning of our relationship) her name was Erin. So they went as far to call her ERINbell until I eventually changed it to what they wanted. I love her name now (Alaina) but I hate so much that I caved and let them do that to me.

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Ignore the unneccessary and rude comments, or better yet, call out those immature assholes for bullying a baby about her name. (I think it’s a beautiful name!)

Lilith is beautiful i love the name…very powerful from an episode of the chosen when jesus told her she is redeemed!!!

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Lilith is a lovely name x

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Name your baby whatever seems right for them. I have a fairly unique name and, though I’ve heard my fair share of crap over the years, I love it! I named my daughter something unique as well, my grandmothers name backwards, and not only is my daughter in love with it but so is my grandma. She just gushes about her granddaughter named after her in a fun way.

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Yes. My mom at my baby shower made a toast and said “let’s hope it’s a girl otherwise it’ll be named (name we picked for if it was a boy)”(didn’t find out the sex )has never said anything negative since…I think she just got used to it

I planned on using Lillith as well if we ever have another daughter. I love that name.

A girl name her daughter caprese I heard another lady asked her If she wanted to name her caprisun

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Name your baby what you want to name her. I would not worry what other people think x

Lilith is awesome. She stood her ground about concent and was punished. Love her.

I love it!! I had a L&D nurse tell me she didn’t think she liked my son’s name so I very politely told her I didn’t give a :rat: behind. Tolan is his name.

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People are so rude! You will NEVER please everyone! Pick names you love because it’s Your baby and your opinion is the only ones that matter. If people love you and love your baby girl they will grow to love the name too. Both my girls have more traditionally “boy” names and I’ve gotten many comments but I don’t care I love them both. Hayden and Elliette :sparkling_heart:

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I’m from a super religious family(my dad was a pastor). My youngest is Lilith and we call her Lily for short. She’s 8 and prefers Lilith at school.

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My sons name is Tiberius and we got a lot of comments from people not liking it.

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My son is Cassius Hercules.
Name your kid however you want.

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Yep we gave her 2 first names and everyone talks shit but we love our Donna Jean and yes to address her you need to say BOTH names, it isn’t Donna🤷‍♀️

I love lilith that’s actually one of the names I have picked out for my 3rd child. Your the parent you can choose your child’s given name I’d just ask family to stop that this is the settled name. Just move on stop entertaining them if they throw a fit just ignore them they will eventually stop.

And if they did wfk they gonna do about it ? My kid . All people can do is have there opinions but other then than no one can do shit about it unless you let it get to you :heart:

I love the name! It’s your choice though and at the end of the day who cares what anyone else says ya know.

I named my daughter Ruby and one of my girlfriends at the time goes “awe the family that I clean for, their dogs name is Ruby!”
Yeah… don’t be that person…

Lilith was a girls name I really wanted.
My family swore to disown me.

Omg I love that name!

My baby’s name is Jonny Luciano and first thing grandma said oh why don’t you put him this instead … mmm how bout no wen don’t bye :wave:

I’ve always loved the name and the story, she wasn’t a monster just an empowered woman a name to be proud of and inspired by if someone has a problem because of religious reasons then its good to know their mindset but she’s your daughter and if I were her I’d be happy my mama chose that name f#$k the haters their opinion means nothing

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This is why we don’t left anyone except parents the name until baby is born

Lilith is a very beautiful name.

My little one will be named Baynham and a good bit of our family already said they will just call him by his middle name

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I mean i have kids with weird names , froends kids have super long names like long first and two middle bs and some two last names , but i keep my opinion to myself . Its there kids and if they fuck up kid can fix at age 18.

Lilith is in Jewish folklore. As a Christian I do not believe in her existence, but I am not a fan of the name or idea. That said name your kiddo what you want.

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I named my daughter Lilith knowing full well the religious implications and I give absolutely no f’s about it. I plan to tell her that same response that society as a whole has tried to mold women into the subservient creatures of men and Lilith biblically speaking was the first woman who demanded more so she was made out to be an evil demon which is kind of what still happens today.

I rarely get anyone with opinions…usually I hear “oh that’s beautiful!”

My daughter is almost 3 and is a literal angel.

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Yup, my MIL said something about our first daughter (Eden Jade) because one of my sisters name is Jade so that was an issue. And several people said stuff about my current pregnancy (Esme Sage). My response is always “whose baby is this? Mine and Joe. Whose opinion matters? Mine and Joe. Cool. Name stays.”

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I have a granddaughter named lillyth we love it. Such a pretty name…

Got told the name we choose for our next baby isn’t cool enough/ too lame to match his brother (Archer)
:woman_facepalming:t3:

My little girl is Holladay. I got several “Are you actually going to name your child Holladay?” She is Holladay RuthAnn. We call her Ruthi or Holly Ruth.

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Lillith never existed in the Bible, bc she is nothing but folklore. Those “Christians” mad about you naming your child that clearly didn’t read their Bible all that well.

I’ve had a few people act like the name I pick for my daughter was crazy. Her name is Guinevere Rose. I understand that Guinevere is a old name but I thought it was a beautiful and honestly it works perfectly for her.

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Name your child what you want! When I found out I was pregnant I had multiple people trying to put their 2 cents in and say I should name the baby this and that. It was annoyed, not many people liked my choice in names but it was my baby they had theirs and a chance to name theirs what they wanted so I just ignored them My mom wanted me to name a child after her but I didn’t like her name i ended up naming mine Willow Braelyn, Zara Layla and Zylah Bryn

I picked Avangeline for my youngest and so many people had rude remarks about it that I ended up naming her Ava

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Mine are literally named after the Rugrats… Phillip, Lillian and Angelica… Dont think it gets worse than that. Besides, Lilith is a beautiful name!!! Tell everyone who doesnt like it go to hell. Lol

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A lot of folks in my family didn’t love the name Evaleigh, but my husband and I loved it… Evaleigh Grace it is…

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We wanted to call our daughter Carmen. Not a very common name. Hubbys step mum laughed at it.
Changed it to Chloe. My mother in law kept rubbing my belly and calling her chloe and it put me off as i dont get on with her. We decided to not tell anyone from then and hubby chose her name as i picked our sons name. He named her Maia at 4 days old. She really suits her name :heart_eyes:

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Yep, I was told my daughters name was a “black” name, she’ll be 8 next month and Ariana suits her just fine! :rage::roll_eyes:

My son name is damien oh the looks I get especially at church bc that movie idc my father gave him that name and Idc what anyone thinks

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I told my boss I was going to name my daughter Drayce and he said “that’s basically child abuse”

Love the name Lilith :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:
My fiance and I both love the name Lucifer too :heart_eyes:
I really wish I had named my son that as he is starting to be a real little devil :face_with_hand_over_mouth::sweat_smile:

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A name does have power but just because someone at some point with the same name did something bad doesn’t mean your child will do the same.
I wanted to name my last daughter Delilah and well… you know.
Anyways I had a couple comments made about it and it didn’t bother me and I shut it down fast.
However the more I said it out loud the less I liked it so I went with Cambria instead.

Most everyone hates my daughters name too, we named her Charolette, we love the nickname Charlie

We don’t tell anyone what we plan on naming our kids until they’re born

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A lot of my family hated my daughters name, Paityn, and mocked it. But shes my child. I pick her name. You dont need anyone’s approval.

I can hear it now… if you say it out loud you should understand what I mean. Kids these days are mean. Just make sure you’re up for the battle.

Pregnancy rule #1. Never tell anyone your baby’s name until baby is born. My family made fun or critised every name I had for my oldest. Years later my aunt still brought up my girl name just to make fun of me. With #2&3 I refused to tell anyone the names until after the bc was done. They begged for me to tell them. Offered suggestions. I just kept telling them I will name him/her after they’re born.

Lilith is a nice name. Don’t let them steer you from it or let you feel insecure about it. In my expirence they’ll dictate & belittle every parenting & personal choice you make. It gives them control.

Yes, my sons first name is my moms maiden name. My uncles told me what a horrible name it is. I love it!

I love the unique names I have 3 sons which are landon… chevy… chance… if i had a girl i always loved willow rayne or journey ann :grinning:

Lilith was our choice too but we had a little boy and named him SATAN instead. Kidding! His name is miko lol.

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My daughter is almost 8 months old and her first name is Leah after her great great aunt and her middle name is Bradley after my stepdad…a lot of people dont like that her middle name is a “boys” name but I dont care it’s not about what other people think.

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Some people will love it some will hate it fuck it its your kid your the one who will be using there name the most (other then themselves) :woman_shrugging:
If they really wanna pick on a baby for the name that was chosen by the person who grew and birthed the child ide be telling them to grow up or don’t even bother seeing me or my kid :woman_shrugging:

We named our son Atlas and when I told my family they laughed their asses off. I didnt change his name though and now the name is becoming more popular.

That’s why we wouldn’t tell anyone the names we picked

I always wanted to name my baby girl Emigen ever since I was little and my mother said she will call her enema! lol I didn’t care I laughed and told her I was still naming her Emigen! Well God had other plans and I ended up having 2 boys and no girls :woman_shrugging:t2: Name your baby what you want SHE IS YOURS! :blush:

I didnt name my son lucifer because of rude comments):
I regret it

My son’s name is Trey DeShawn. I like the name DeShawn. But because we’re white, well, you know how idiots can be. No one actually said what they were thinking but facial expressions speak louder sometimes.

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We told my family that we were naming our son Busch Copenhagen. They were going to judge us regardless. Why not mess with them a bit? :woman_shrugging:t3::sweat_smile:

I had someone say my baby’s name sounded like it would be a strippers name. I still very much disagree and I think the name suits her :purple_heart:

I named my kid a “normal” name and the comment was made that it wasn’t appropriate for his race(those were not the exact words used). And the nickname I have for my kid raises some eyebrows. Someone is gonna have an opinion no matter what you do and you don’t have to defend your choices.

I like it it’s different. Also, I have a Lillian but we call her Lilly :two_hearts: your child your choice. People get over it.

My mom didn’t like the first name and would call her by her middle name. When she was born she looked at her and said you are beautiful and unique you are a Zaria.

Yess… after my third. I don’t tell anyone names. Because I’m a sensitive preggo. And I snap real quick. And at one point someone took my kids name and named their kid that name and we were due the same week. Guess who gave birth first. Not me. I was lividddd

I’m the youngest and having my first. My mom was,in my opinion, rude. She kept suggesting different names🙄
My father-in-law is upset that we aren’t keeping the tradition of naming him after my hubby who has the same name as his dad and grandpa.
It still makes me mad. I had a feeling ever since the moment I found out that I’m having a boy and he’s always been Troy.

My kids are Ivan and Cleo. My mom hated both at first, and people always question me about Ivan. :woman_shrugging:t2:

My daughters name is Sasha. It short for Alexander its russian. So I’m told…

Its your baby, why should you care what anyone say!

Ahh if my son was a girl his name would’ve been Lilith :heart_eyes: it’s still on my list haha but since he was a boy I went with Salem (yes after Salem,Ma) it was a toss up between Salem and Lucifer :yum: when I saw him he looked like a Salem though :two_hearts:

Mine are Joshua and Ole (Ollie) I wish I had picked something more unique for J and i got so much grief about the spelling of my youngest especially from my mil and non man u fans but I love it!

Lilith reminds me of the badass girl from The Order on Netflix

My sons name is caleb after the arch angle :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: and my youngest is Akai, after a literal speaker brand that’s was in my house. Lmao I love it :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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I named my youngest after a toddler who was run over by a truck and then buried in a magical graveyard and then came back to life as a psychopath murderer…yeah there have been some comments, I deserve them lol

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Yes I named my only son Crouse and ppl in the family made fun of him calling him Crouch . an I put a stop to it an his name is still Crouse :slight_smile:

i had my daughter when i was 18 and my dad didn’t like any name i chose. he said any name i had in mind was ugly. i told him if it was a boy his middle name was going to be the same as my grandpas and if it was a girl she was going to have my grandmas middle name( my moms parents, him and his family were never really around. he knows how much my grandparents mean to me). he felt completely entitled to name my child and pushed me and made me feel like absolute crap! he told me that he doesn’t feel my grandparents deserve any part in my child’s name. i wanted my daughter to be named ivy but he felt it wasn’t fitting considering her race which is hispanic i argued and said i didn’t understand why her race had anything to do with her name? he recommended kinley and i said i didn’t like that. i finally compromised and named her kinslee with two e’s at the end just like my name. my dad wanted her name to be vivian after my grandma on his side of the families grandma. i told him it was her middle name but it isn’t. he thinks her name is kinslee vivian-ann but her name is actually kinslee ann:)

Yep with all three of mine i have issac naomi and dexter and i said well we dont like over used names xxx

Best name it was the runner up on our list!

Lilith was a badass! Her story was meant to scare women into submission, lest they be demonized for wanting their freedom or enjoying sex. Don’t play their game. Name her Lilith, and teach her that while she should respect authority, she should bow to no one!

Kids call my 16 year old Austin Powers bc his first name is Austin. But he doesn’t mind. But I added family names for middle names for both my boys, so i didn’t have any issues.

I have 5 kids all with unique names my 2 yr old is Lilliandra Abigail rose and her nickname is Lilly she’s my little lilly bean my mil hated the name and I told her idgaf she’s my daughter and the names has a meaning lol

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My late middle daughters name was Lilith Marie, I don’t have anyone say anything about her name but I wouldn’t have cared. Not their kid so their opinion is invalid

My Mom doesnt like my son’s name. Its Rylan. She said it sounded too girlish. So glad I did the paperwork or he would have been Ryan. Oh hell to the nah! I’m sorry, but Rylan is still is my favorite boy’s name.

I think it is beautiful. Don’t listen to the negative people

Live the name Lilith! My granddaughter’s name is Lily!

It is a lovely name and I like Lilly as well

Yes. My sons middle name is valentine (yes like the day) named after one of my fiances grandfathers. No one likes it