how many mothers had a child after they turned 30, if so what age and if they had other children did they have a big age gap and how did they bond together ? 
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I’m 38yrs, pg with #4 (being induced Fri), and my kids are 18, 16, & 8
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My last son was born at age 35. My oldest was 8. They adore each other!!!
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I’m 36 with a 9 year old daughter and a 6 month old son. He’s still young, but so far they absolutely adore each other 
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I had a friend who’s mom had her late and her brother is 20ish years older than her and they have a GREAT relationship!
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I had my child at 38 due to fertility issues… we tried for 8 years and finally got him. I’m 41 now and probably won’t do it again just due to my age.
I had a 16 year old and a 13 year old and had my lil guy when i was 31 they all absolutely love each other and the big kids are crazy about our little guy who just turned 3
My mom had my little sister at 40.
We are 7 years apart.
Im 33 with a 15 yr old, 2 yr old, and 1yr old. My 15yr old and 2 yr old are best friends.
- 10 year age difference. A little rough when youngest got into the oldests stuff but eventually best friends.
I had my youngest at 30. Shes now 4 and I have a 12 year old. Both girls. They love to hate each other 
Its more the 12 yr old that just wants her space - Good luck!
My fiance’s mother had him at 37. His brother is a whole 19 years older than him and instead of having a real brother relationship, his brother acts more like his dad.
I have a 27yr old and 18, & 19 yr old and unfortunately my first one has her own life married with a daughter and they are not all that close. They were when they were younger but…not so much now
Im 31 and on my first
Had my first at 29 and just had one in feb. At 33 be 34 in august. My 4 year old loves her sister. She was in the delivery room
I had my youngest at 37. When he was born I had a 20,16,13 & 4yo they all adore him and have been a huge help with him!
I was 31 when I had my 1st and 33 when I had my 2nd.
I was 34 and gave birth to g/b twins.
My son was 15, when his brother and sister were born. They love him, sooooo much! He is so good to them. They are now 4 and he is 19.
I had last one at 40 and first at 23. My girls are 23 and 7. They bonded just fine. Older is obviously more protective then if they were closer in age.
I’ll be 37 on the 13th & my boys r 12 & 2 years old now
Had 2 after the age of 30 . My first one was born in my mid twenties . Ages right now : 7, 2 , and 3 weeks old . My 7 and 2 year old are super close and they both adore my newborn and are super helpful with him
my first was at 31 and my second I will be month shy of 34
My sisters are 20 years older than me. Worked out fine for my parents because my sister always took me everywhere lol
My mom had my sister and I at 39 and 41. I have brothers that are 20 years older than me
I’m 46. My daughter is 19 and my son is 3. They adore each other
I had my daughter at 32
I had my last one at 38…I’m now 40. My kids are now 17, 16, and almost 3. My older kids just love the little one and are such a huge help. I’m very tired at times lol but wouldn’t change a thing!!
There is 10 years between my oldest and youngest and they do great together.
31 when I had my 17 month old and I’m having my 5th baby Friday and I’m 32
First child @27 second @35 children are 8 years apart
I had my son when I was 33 and I’m currently 9 weeks 6 days with my second and I’ll be 36 in August. They will be 3 years and a couple months apart. My son turns 3 November 30 and my due date is Jan 23 2020
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I had my last son at 35. I have four children before them all mostly 3 yes apart and they get along great
I am a sibling of children 14 and 16 years younger and you don’t bond. We have almost no relationship.
15 year old at 33. 7 year old at 40. They don’t get along but the oldest has ADHD with outbursts and puberty has increased those. The youngest won’t stay alone with him. I work nights so he stays with my mom.
I had a boy in 83 a girl in 93. The bond is very strong and loving.
Just had a baby girl April 2018, right after I turned 30. I also have a son who is almost 12. They adore each other in their own ways. 
I had my youngest at 40.
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I had youngest at 32 and oldest three at 16, 18 & 22 the bonds are amazing
My first is 23… My next one just turned 4. That’s all of my babies.
I was 36 when my son was born his now 18 months and I’m 37 pregnant with my second due in October and they will be 21 months apart
I had my last baby at 32. My oldest was 6 at the time. It was rough at first but now that they are older they have an unbreakable bond. They love each other so much. But when they fight i want to ryn away. Nothing like a 9 and 2 year old screaming at the same time. #imtooldforthis
- 12 year gap. Now 33 with a one month old, a 2year old and a 14 year old. My teenager loves his baby brothers. My oldest and middle child have a really close bond.
I had my first baby at 31 and my second at 32. Boy and girl. They are 9&10
I was 29 and 34. My 6 year old absolutely adores her little sister who’s 8 months! I was worried about jealousy since she had been an only child for so long but I haven’t seen it at all! She’s even told her “I’ve waited so long for you”
I had my last at 31 and theres almost a 3 year gap. My mom was 39 when she had my little sister and there’s a 20 year gap
My 1st born I had him when I was 27.
I was 33 when I had my 2nd baby and she was a girl then a year later we got pregnant again with our 3rd baby girl. No regrets. Love my kids.
My mom had me at 37, my sister and I are 16 years apart. We had a horrible relationship growing up but now that we are older we are closer. My own kids are 8 years apart and they are the best of friends and have an amazing bond.
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I had my son at 34 and I turned 35 a month later. He’s my one and only.
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My sister is 6 years younger than me and believe me when I tell you my mother bringing home that baby was the worst thing that ever happened in my life. Still havent forgiven my mother and its been almost 19 years now. I’m considering getting fixed as a result since my kids are 5 and 6 now and don’t want to experience that hatred from them.
First child at 25, 2nd at 28 and twins at 39. The first 2 are girls and they fight like sisters do. The twins are boys and the big girls love them dearly!! Each twin has his sister that he prefers but they love them both!!
27 for my first 37 for my 2nd
I turned 30 last month and I’m due in 4 weeks with my third. My first two are 9.5 and almost 7
My daughters I had before the age of 21 and then I had my son a month after I turned 33. My daughters love my son, they have bonded real well. They love him very much, he is their world.
I am 32 and my daughter is 16 months old my son is 10 years old and then get along great
I had my son at 30, but his dad has much older children. Between the oldest and the youngest (mine) is 20 years. The kids are 24, 23, 21 and 4 
this is. Picture of the oldest and youngest… they spoil the heck of the youngest
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I have an almost 18 year old, 14 year old, 11 year old & 22 month old (All Girls) 
My oldest 3 love they’re little sister & are great with her… Also I had my 22 month old when I was 35 & had my oldest just shy of 19 years old… So in my case HUGE age difference lol
I just had mine in Jan. I’m 33
I did at age 43. When my baby was born his big brother was 15. Making them 15 years apart. Both will be 17 & 2 this summer
I had my daughter at 19, my son when I was 28. I’ll be 30 in September, they’re 9 years apart 
their bond is awesome, she loves her brother to pieces 
I had my youngest @ 32 there was 6 yrs between them!
Me and my oldest sister are 16 yrs apart. And we are definitely the closet of all the siblings
Just had my first, at 30 years old. My SO has an 8 year old from a previous relationship. We are hoping to have another one by the time I’m 34.
I was 31 with my baby girl shes 13 and 34 with my last child who is now 10. They will argue 1 min and play nice the next. My oldest child is 21 and having a 10 yr old makes my heart so happy(all my kids do). After a certain age they dont want to snuggle or watch movies with mama, and my 10 yr old does.
My first was born when I was 20, my second I was 24 and I’m now 32 with a 2 month old. It’s a bit of a struggle trying to adjust with the new kiddo but my older two have been a huge help at home.
My first was born at 38, and my second is due in August. I just turned 39
One and done 34!! It has always been us 3! He turns 21 in 3 weeks!! We are happy!!
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Had my first @30. My second a month before my 33 and pregnant with #3 and about to turn 35
In 36 and preggers with my 3rd. I was 32 with my first and 34 with my 2nd
I did. I was 32 my other two were 4 and 5
Had my youngest 4 months after I turned 30 . I had a 6 yr old boy and 3 yr old girl . Now they are 25 , 22 and 19 they have a bond like no other .
I have a 19 17 15 13 10 3 and 4 my little kids adorable the big kid and the big kids love the little ones. My youngest 2 act much other then other kids their age because they are used to adults and teenagers lol daycare was a challenge because they look at kids their own age as “babies”
My third I had at 34. My oldest two were 15 and 17 when he was born. The toddler and the now 17 yr old are best friends. The oldest has moved on to being a grown up but adores his baby brother and the toddlers is always so excited to see him!
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I had my kids at
18
23
25
34
I had my son at 29 and my stepdaughter was 12. They are close but my SD gets the occasional snippy teen attitude occasionally now.
I had one more, my older two were 9 and 13… If age gap, but I would do it all over again., I was 32
I had my daughter in April and I’m 31. We are going to wait a couple years before we think if we want another one.
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Yup 11,8, and (33)1 play are the best big helpers and I definitely appreciate being a mom more in my thirties and I ever did my twenties
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I was 20 / 23 / 26 / 33 / 34 when I had my kids…they are all now 16 / 13 / 10 / 3 / 2
I had my now 3 year old at age 30 8 year gap from my now 11 year old. My 3 year old was my hardest pregnancy
1st child at 27 (boy)
2nd at 37 (girl)
3rd at 41 (boy)
& I’m now 42 & due in August (girl)
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32 I have a 19 year old 11 year old and the youngest is 2 I love the age gap
I just turned 34 on May 12th. I had my daughter on May 2nd. Her brothers are 6 1/2 and 13. They are so in love with her and my 13 year old is the biggest help! Hes always rocking her and telling her shes beautiful
I’ll be 33 when I have my second in December. My son will be 7. Im hoping they have a great bond.
I had my first at 34 and 2nd at 38
Had one at 22 23 and 32 the older kids are closer to her now that shes older (im 37 now)
39 with my 2nd and another yr older with my 3rd . and my oldest i was 23yrs old. and my kids are almost 24 and one is 8 ys and 1 almost 7yrs
I’m 31 and just had my first. My husband has a 16yo daughter and her and her sister are super close.
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My first at 20 and planning the next at 25 i know my toddler is ready
I had my first kids at 34…twins. Boy and Girl.
I was 32 when I had my last… and mine are 16, 14 and almost 4
I was 33 when I had my last child. I am now 43. My kids are now 23, 19, 10 and 9.
was 32 1st one, 2nd one 42 .when they were smaller into teens they got a long great after that not so good
I was 34yo when I had my youngest. She is now 7 and I also have a 17yo and 23yo. They all have strong bonds to each other…so much so that my 7yo cried because her 17yo brother was away from us for 2 nights for football camp. She didn’t react well when her sister moved out of our house at 18yo either.
Last summer the 7yo cut her foot and had to go to the emergency room. Her brother is the first to tease her 99% of the time…to the point I want to scream…and yet that night, she wanted only him to carry her and hold her while we were there.
1st at 31, second is due Christmas Day and I’m 35
Had my first child at 38 and second child 2 weeks before I turned 40
I had my first 1 month before I turned 40, my 2nd 1 month after I turned 43 and my 3rd 1 month before I turned 45. I’m 58 now and I believe they keep me young.
I was 32 when I had my daughter. 1st and only child
I have twin 4 year olds and a 10 month old🖤 I had my twins at 31 and my daughter at 35
Just had my fourth I am 34 my kids are 14,6,3,two months and they all are very close
Just had my 4th baby at 39yo! There is a 6-8year gap between all 4 of my kids… My teens have no interest really but the 2nd youngest has always been amazing with a new baby.