there is NOTHING wrong with an abortion
AT ALL
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Please get help right now with your Anorexia for the sake of your baby. Not eating could cause you to lose it, or even cause it to be born with problems.
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Call upon Jesus. He loves you and wants you as His child and wants to be your Savior.
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Biggest thing u need to do is keep your legs closed
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Adoption is always an option! If youre worried about your health, go into intensive counseling during your pregnancy. Find a healthy accountability partner you can talk to about your anorexia? You’ve already said your against abortions for yourself, so if that’s not an option, just don’t be afraid to ask for help from those around you 
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3rd time deleting! And not being horrible…but it’s your baby…you helped by making it…what are your plans…you must of known what was going to happen right? You have issues right? I get it…you come on fb for advise…help…?? If you want help get on birth control. So sorry you people make me sick to my stomach have sex another think about the after marth…f@@king really…make me so cross
I would take your relapse as your first step for guidance. Find very resource possible to help keep that managed and under control. And over the next couple of weeks consider your options. Abortion isn’t for everyone so if you truly feel against it for yourself don’t torture yourself. But think of what that means for you, your life, your situation and make the best choice for YOU. Remember the right choice isn’t always the easiest choice. Life is crazy and things happen we don’t expect. That doesn’t make them “bad” or even “good” it’s just a change of your “normal” picture your new normal and see what feels comfortable and what doesn’t. And try not to be too hard on yourself
Stay strong and seek support from specialist eating disorder professionals, family, friends and midwife. Will all be ok and in years to come you will see this as the greatest gift ever and will be glad you kept your baby. Wishing you all the best, take care you got this!
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I dont suggest this often as who I’m I’m no one however i feel the need in this case…u know there is help out there u know the steps uve already taken major ones by admitting how u feel and asking for help here now take the next giant leap and ask for help in real life uve had the courage to say it here u know u have the courage to say it to some one who can actually help…u can do it!!!
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Sending prayers for you. There is also adoption as a choice; there are many couples who cannot have children of their own.
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You 1st need to see someone to help you through your eating disorder as your baby needs nutrients to grow. Giving the baby up to a couple that longs for a baby really is not a bad idea and you would be giving someone the biggest gift a person could give, the gift of life and a family to them. Think about this strongly you don’t want to hurt your growing baby by not eating it is a new life you are creating. But if you seriously feel you can not handle another child contact an agency that can help you pick out a family you would want your baby to be with and make a couple so happy to finally have a child 
This would be the best choice if you truly do not want another child, but give it some very good thought before you decide ok…be well and take good care…
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I had two girls, finally got a son for my husband, and got pregnant for my fourth child. I wasn’t all that happy at the time either, but after she was born, she was the pet of us all, and I could NEVER imagine life without her!! We are now soooo close to her, we ALL enjoy her so much!!
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God wouldn’t throw challenges at u that u can’t handle… I myself had issues with anorexia long before I became a mother…now I’m embracing how I look now after popping 4 kids 
…love yourself and that tiny miracle in your womb Hugs and stay strong 
Sometimes You just need a little Perspective… HMU if You want, I have a good one lbvs
Get counciling or talk to a trusted friend, so that you can talk through how you’re feeling… It is completely normal… I’ve known women in a similar situation when they’re fallen pregnant again, they talked about their feelings and loved their child once born.
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Don’t feel horrible that baby is being born for a reason weather it’s is your family or someone else’s momma you need to seek some help for yourself and your family so you can be the best you good luck and I will pray for you 
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I would reach out to a therapist and if you truly don’t want a baby you can give up for adoption and have open adoption so this way you will still be apart of baby life
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Breathe hun, you dont have to tackle this all right now. You have some time. Start with a list of things that need to be done to get ready, Adoption, keeping it, all of it.
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go with the flow and when the birth of baby if u still feel the way u do -put up for adoption -there r many parents out there whom would love a new born baby to call there own!
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Sending love and support…
Honestly… I felt like this. I got pregnant when my youngest was only 8 months old… I wasn’t ready for a third child at all. I was actually mad I was pregnant again. I wanted to wait til my youngest was 4-5 years old. I was not happy I was pregnant at all. I wasn’t as excited as I should’ve or could’ve been during my whole pregnancy. I felt that way up until I had him. He’s now a month old and I couldn’t imagine life without him. And his brothers adore him! Also I personally won’t ever do an abortion either. It’s just not for me. If you still feel this way once baby is born, maybe look into adoption? I know that feeling and it does make you feel horrible but you are human! Like I said, I was not happy I was pregnant at all my whole pregnancy but now he’s here, I’m so thankful God gave him to me!
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Prayer works wonders
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Go to the local Health Department a dietitian will set up a special menu meal plan for you. Sleep on your left side & have the kids take a nap like noon to 2 p.m. sleeping on their backs. Set a schedule. Take your prenatal vitamins have your blood work done & urine work. Find out what vitamins you need & when.
Maybe this baby is a blessing in disguise!! Pray about it and adoption is always a choice! I know a couple that’s had many miscarriages and would make a great mom!!! Take care of yourself and I have 7 kids I know it’s hard butt there are people that can help and maybe your family or friends
It took me a couple months with my last. I had 4 and didn’t want anymore. But also at the same time did nothing to prevent it. Ya that was a lovely surprise going in for my depo shot, getting it, n then getting a call hours later saying I was Prego 
she just turned 1 last month n I can’t imagine life without her 
sure it’s tough having five kids, but my heart is so damn full 
Well girl with you already having 4 kids , you know how fertile you are . Birth control , condoms , tubal ligation are ways to prevent this .
So u don’t want more kids but yet you have unprotected sex? If you are out there fuccin, then pregnancy is a risk u take. Its kind of a common sense thing. 
I suggest counseling. I do know people who had an unexpected pregnancy to place their child in a good home, stranger or friend becoming a blended family. Stay strong. Things will work out
The pill abortion sounds like an option. …it’s for unwanted pregnancies , since you struggle with anorexia it seems like a logical option.