How can I gain motivation to do things around my house?

I can not get anything done in my house and my husband and I argue a lot because of it. It’s not like I don’t want to. I see it and I can’t do it. It’s been like this for a year. I am unable to get the magic skittles that help. Iv been skittleless for 7 years and I can’t find a doctor/therapist that will “give” me them. Also if I don’t have a monster or any kind of energy drink or coffee I can’t do anything at all. Like my eyes open and I have one in my hand and all it takes is one full drink and I’ll be good for the whole day. What I’m the work can I do. What are your tricks I can try to help me get out of this.