How can I get my toddler to listen?

My son turned 3 in March and he is literally into everything climbing shelves destroying things touching things that belong to his dad and I and so much more. He is completely defiant and has no care for getting in trouble he will do the same thing he got in trouble for 5 mins later. My husband and I don’t know what else to do because nothing is working at all and I’m looking for some ideas I guess and ways to get him to listen and stop touching things gs