Why would you want to “fix” a marriage to a sorry bum who is trying to preemptively worm his way out of supporting/providing for his own children? Honey, don’t burn that bridge… C-4 it!
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A post prenup?
You mean a divorce? They figure all that out during the divorce
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No don’t sign. Be prepared. Hope he is sleeping on couch since he wants out.
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My guess is he’s already involved with someone else. He’s trying to get you to sign those papers because he’d get fryed in court ,so he wants you to sign his rights away. Don’t sign anything. Get a lawyer.
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I feel like he is just planning his way out of this marriage and his responsibilities. Do not sign anything!!! Get a good lawyer for at least a consultation. They will help you with legal advise to protect your interests
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Don’t you dare sign shit. That’s stupid.
Why would you want to stay with him after that? Go file for divorce now
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I think professional advice is needed in this situation
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He actually cannot write a pre nup that includes signing away child support. That is your child’s right to be supported and the state frowns on that. That is not legal. He sounds like a tool.
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Get you a lawyer and do not sign anything without your lawyer seeing it first. It’s over for sure…but file and go through the lawyer for anything
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Why would you even want to stay with a bum like him after saying that? He clearly doesn’t even care about his child/children, he is a piece of crap
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Show dominance, serve him divorce papers first
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This is the part of marriage that no one wants to work on because its the hardest… if he stepped out on your marriage then yes leave, if he is abusive leave… other than that, are you both serious about thick and thin, better or worse, in health and sickness? If so, then do everything you can to save what you have… theres always hope… do not sign anything as you’re already married… if you get a divorce then good luck as thats spendy and messy…
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What do you want?
If you are done & it sound like it, file. Speak with several attorney’s before hiring one.
Plan & prepare for a life without him. Therapy, join a mom group, something. Make this new chapter for you & screw what he wants.
Get a lawyer and protect yourself…
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Don’t sign anything. And don’t try to fix it. He’s trying to get out of supporting his kid… take his ass to court, file for divorce, alimony and child support. 
Love I’m sorry but I really don’t think there’s any fixing it… and if you try to make him fix it or anything it’s just gonna make it worse
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If 1 person in a relationship dosent want to work on said relationship then it’s a lost cause… sorry. As others have said Lawyer up and don’t agree or sign anything. And if he gets aggressive towards you or the children put a PFA on him ASAP!
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He’s with someone else, prove it and keep records etc. Don’t sign your rights etc away. That is the only reason a man takes off his ring.
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You can’t. 
Time to get a lawyer and draw up those papers.
File for divorce now ask that any child support be deducted from his paycheck by the state along with any alimony if you can get it. Get an attorney to help you.