For those of you with one child and only plan on having one child, what made you decide that? I’m going back-and-forth on if I want a second one or not, but I don’t wanna regret it in the long run if I don’t. Run by me what helped your family decide.
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Finances and stability werent the greatest, then after sons dad and i split i knew i didnt ever want to deal with baby daddy drama again.
Ended up having a suprise pregnancy 13 yrs later and it was the best choice i ever made, although having a teenager and a toddler is a looooot
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After having my twins honey I knew that was enough for me😆 child birth isn’t no joke low-low.
They were all worth it and then some but one time of that pain of all pains was enough for me💜
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We decided to be done having kids once we had that complete feeling. I always knew I wanted 3 kids. We had 2 kids back to back and waited to even consider a third. But after having a miscarriage with a third, we had an emptiness still. My third baby is now 8 months old and I know in my heart I have all the babies I was meant to have. There’s no way to describe it aside from feeling empty.
I wanted 2 but was only able to have one. Fortunately, my sister was 6 months when I found out I was pregnant. We both had girls so they’re close like sisters.
It was simple for me. My mom passed when I was 24. Family never reached out to check on us. All I had were my siblings. I knew when I had one, I would definitely have another. If something ever happen to me or to their dad, I wanted to make sure they always had someone there for them. I knew I didn’t want more than two for a very long time.
You’ll know when you’re done. If you’re still on the fence, I wouldn’t make any permanent choices. Get a long term birth control in the meantime.
I always wanted 4. I had one, then twins, then didn’t want to chance THAT again and stopped at 3 