Sounds kinda creepy with your idea to be honest. Wait until he comes outside and talk to him
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Yes do the Snapchat note and before you know it yall will be raising your Tamagotchi pets side by side.
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That would be thirsty
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He’s probably got a glass box in his basement or something. He sounds cool 
Get a wooden fence and talk with him thru that
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Just talk to him girl lol. This is how my parents met! Married 28 years until my dad passed. They were neighbors and my mom had a major crush lol good luck!
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That’s kinda crazy, but you do you!!
My recommendation is to NOT do anything. Let your neighbor be your neighbor and don’t make it uncomfortable for him, he just moved in. I had this very same thing happen to me shortly after I moved in and my next door neighbor made a pass at me because he didn’t see any guys around and saw it was just my son and I. Needless to say, my neighbor is simply not my type at all and it has made things extremely awkward between us since he has done that. It doesn’t always go how you think it will, just saying…
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Dating neighbors is like dating someone at work. Don’t. Don’t shit where you eat.
Well first of all how old are you?
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Why don’t you just TALK to him. Knock on the door and say “hi my name is XYZ and I’m your new neighbor!” I find the best relationships spring from friendship.
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This whole post makes me think of “Desperate Housewives”
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Just admire from afar for a bit. He may have a gf or wife. You’ll notice soon enough. Don’t make him feel weird like your a stalker
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Don’t do it!
I dated my grandmas neighbor briefly ten years ago. I broke up with him and he has never left me alone. Moved in 2 years ago to be my grandmas caretaker and him and his best friend neighbor have tried hard to make my life hell.
At this point it doesn’t bother me and it just shows the major disrespect these two have for their wives but if I could go back I would have never gotten involved.
April will be 8 months of court battling these guys.
If it goes south you have to see them all the time.
Don’t do it. Plenty of fish in the sea where you don’t live.
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I say just watch for a couple weeks see if you see any woman coming around or not, and if you dont introduce yourself. Not everything is so serious.
You sound like a creep
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“Hi I just want to introduce myself. Im your neighbor . here’s some scrumptious cookies but if you want some even better come see me” 
Good luck girl. Id probably do something like that lol
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Just be friendly, maybe go take him some baled cookies and be like “welcome to the neighborhood, reach out if you would like to have coffee”
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How about just casually introducing yourself in passing? Don’t be so forward right out the gate. A good dude is gonna see that as thirsty and might be turned off.
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How about a good old fashioned face to face conversation if you pass each other outside. 
technology is literally taking away any social skills that some have left
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You have to live next to him. It’s kinda like don’t date a co-worker
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Just be NEIGHBORLY! & Definitely do it in person, don’t leave a note. It doesn’t have to be in a romantic interest type of way. Just be yourself, introduce yourself. Maybe invite him to a community event? Such as church, a parade, etc. Let him know you’re there if he needs help, give him your number…don’t come across that you “want” him. Let things flow naturally. You never know what the outcome could be, you could gain good friends even if he’s not single.
I befriended both of my neighbors. One of which I checked on frequently because he was elderly and his son would text and ask if I would check on him & I’d take him food occasionally. He passed away in October. The others, I’ve had a lot of good times with them with their horses and hanging out. It has become like having extra family that looks out for you especially when I’m gone for the day or vacation & I do the same for them.
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Thirsty. 
Just be neighbors for a while. Be seen but don’t be desperate.
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Babies are cute
I would refer to an adult as handsome
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Snapchat?? Is that what people are doing now?? 
write your number down. Wth
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Make some chocolate chip cookies and take them over and introduce yourself. put your number on and tell him if he needs anything to call. That’s respectful and The neighborly thing to do.
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IMO: most men that are single and interested usually make the first move. But you can introduce yourself as the new neighbor. No harm in that, but I wouldn’t go off right away with trying to hook up(he may get the wrong impression) I’d just watch and see if he has someone visiting and if not then try and make casual conversation.
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Will agree, just talk to him. If you see him, just say ‘Hi, welcome to the neighborhood.’ And hopefully he goes on from there
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Don’t shit where you sleep 
What if it get weird…. 
You don’t want to step on toes if he has a girlfriend??
But you’re gonna drop that Snapchat???
BEFORE u find out he has a GF??
Advice: Do NOT date/hookup with Neighbors, coworkers…
introduce yourself but don’t be dropping no IG/SnapChat… 

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Don’t date your neighbor.
If it doesn’t work out, you’ll still see him all the time.
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Snapchat tells me you want one thing because a normal thing would be your number.
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Lusting over neighbors…maybe get to know him.
My ex is handsome and has the worst kind of baggage. Imagine me sitting here tryin to figure how to warn girls like you he’s a predator. Get to know the guy…you are leading with lust
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Dating is so weird nowadays. Lol
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Honestly, he is your neighbor. To me the same rule applies to neighbors as co-workers and other business associates. It’s a no-go zone. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if you really want to pursue him, just walk up to him and talk to him. First find out if he has a gf then go from there. Please don’t leave a note on his car, that’s creepy. I’ve had someone do that before and there is nothing more unsettling than realizing someone maybe you never noticed has been watching you.
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Do NOT date your neighbor, I did and it was the worst mistake of my life lol
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Quick wave to start the interaction would be fine. If he wants to talk he will.
- Never date your neighbor.
- Don’t be a homewrecker.
It’s really not that difficult.
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Well if there is a girlfriend and you want her to hate you immediately, go for it. why not just introduce yourself like a normal person. Why would you leave your Snapchat and not your phone number? That’s weird. You literally just like how he looks. You know nothing about him.
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Leave it alone. He’s in a relationship.
Yea and if he IS taken, that note is a terrible idea. That could potentially stir up a lot of issues. Maybe just knock on the door and introduce yourself and say something like “you and your wife should come over for dinner sometime” his response should let you know if he’s taken or not. Or if you’re too scared to do that maybe knock on the door and make up something like your cat or dog got out and you were wondering if they’d seen it? Lol but my vote is definitely no on the note and Snapchat 
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I would definitely just approach it from a friendly neighbor type of thing because while my husband and I were engaged, due to work(I was opening an office in another state so I was gone for a while) he actually moved into our house a few weeks before I was able to. So keep in mind just because you don’t see someone coming around doesn’t mean he doesn’t have somebody.
Also like several other people have pointed out you don’t know anything about this person so just be friendly and neighborly and if anything develops from there it happened naturally
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“Hello I’m your neighbour, welcome to the neighbourhood”
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Crazy idea here lol but why don’t you just go over there introduce yourself and welcome him to the neighborhood and get to know him/them first and find out more about him and if he does infact have a gf or not before you try and give him your IG/snapchat.
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If someone left me a note I would throw it away. Guys like confidence, so strike a conversation
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How about walking over and saying " Hi I’m so and so, I live next door. I just wanted to introduce myself, if you need anything or want to chat feel free to stop by."
Start a genuine conversation that leads to others. Then you will find out if he’s single/ gay/ if he has red flags or not.
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Snapchat? We aren’t 15.
Strike up a convo. Get another couple to come over and then mention you are having some people over to socialize and wanted to know if him and his gf want to join. If he says he had no girlfriend then yay! If he does then pretend to be sick day before get together and then you know lol
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Leaving a note with your Snapchat is completely immature you need to get to know him face to face right now you just like how he looks what about the sound of his voice his personality you can’t tell any of that in a txt conversation! Honestly if I were single I would not date a neighbor if it goes wrong you either have to move or deal with them living next door.
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Just go talk to him and introduce yourself to strike up a conversation
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Are you 12? Take over a plate of cookies or something like a grown-up
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Yeah, that’s weird. Just go introduce yourself.
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Introduce yourself…. Small talk…. Feel things out. . Leaving a note with a Snapchat is for teenagers.
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Why not introduce yourself, spark conversation, be real about it instead of leaving a note or through snap or whatever… If he does have a girlfriend and she sees that note, ooooh man, that’s the #1 way to create some attention/tension I’m sure you don’t want.
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Just introduce your self and invite him and his spouse for dinner and his response will let you know. Or have a conversation with him, invite him for coffee or something
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I always make sure I’m noticed and wait to be approached. I’m old school, I don’t like to make the first move. I’d rather be pursued.
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Do not do that… go introduce yourself like an adult
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When you see him leave, knock on the door and see if someone answers! Probably not the best advice but idk
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Cringe…… please don’t give him your Snapchat. Just introduce yourself when you see him. 
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Most neighbors go over and introduce themselves and welcome them to the neighborhood. Just simply so that. The Snapchat thing would creep me out lol. Just be casual and introduce yourself, welcome him, ask him about himself, etc. Just a simple conversation can lead to you figuring out if he’s single and if he is, offer him your number “in case he needs any help” and point to your place and say he can always stop by if he needs anything as well. Just please don’t do the Snapchat thing lol.
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Give him your number not a media site that is easy for cheating
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Bake or make him something or go buy cookies or something if you don’t bake & go over to his place, knock on his door & say hi & welcome him to the neighborhood. Start by having small conversations. I think a note on his car would definitely scare him off.
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Be normal just go over and introduce yourself, ask where he just moved from… etc
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How do you know he’s not an ex-con or a pedophile? I’d let him come to you!
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Walk straight up to him and ask him if he’s single? We are grown women and don’t need to leave our Snapchat usernames under peoples windshields
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Bake him some cookies! And take them over!
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I just waved at my cute neighbor one day, and we’ve been together 12 years now 
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Hope Stephi Campbell
Do your self a favor and don’t pee where you hang out.
In other words grow up.
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Look keep it simple ,just go over with some baked cookies and belike welcome neighbor i made these for you and your wife .he be like o ty but I’m not married then you say o well heres my.number ( have it ready Ritten down ) just incase you happen to need anything at all …then wait patiently for him to call .o ya before you take him the home aide cookies MAKE SURE YOU MAKE THEM ON A HOME GLASS PLATE .THAT WAY HE HAS TO BRING IT BACK. …see you got this duh
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As someone who has gotten notes on their car, don’t do that. It’s creepy. Talk to them personally 
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I agree with everyone don’t do the note with snapchat info. It says tacky to me. You can do the baked as goods idea. Use a nice storage container or plate. Put your name and phone number on a mask tape label on the bottom if the container/plate. When giving it say “…my info is on the bottom, you or you wife can call me when you’re done with it.” A good, simple discreet way to bring up spouse and give your phone number.
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Maybe a number? Snapchat seems like you just want to have fun
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This is so adorable, I love this! Though, not a fan of the Snapchat part.
Bake something or do a handwritten letter. I’m an old soul though. This new age stuff isn’t for me.
He’s a neighbor. If he’s not interested is it going to awkward?
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