How do I approach my cute neighbor?

So I have this new neighbor who is really cute, i don’t know how to go about it and let him know but don’t want to step on toes if he has a gf. I was thinking of putting a note on his truck with my Snapchat on it and tell him to reach out if he’s single! What to do?

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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. How do I approach my cute neighbor?

Don’t. That’s just rude lmao.

Just go introduce yourself and have a proper conversation and find out that way. You’ll know in the first 7 seconds if you are still attracted to him

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Bake some cookies or brownies go over introduce yourself start off that way then you can ask if he’s single​:wink::wink: good luck

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Welcome to the Neighborhood introduction

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I was also going to say take some baked goods over and introduce yourself

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Lol that sounds creepy. Just go introduce yourself :woman_shrugging:t2:

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Bake him some cookies or brownies and welcome him to the neighborhood.

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I would just bake some cookies and give them to him as a nice welcoming gift. I’d introduce myself and ask some questions. Like… "how do you and your wife like it here so far? " Not creepy. To the point.

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Bring him homemade muffins

Do the bend n snap works everytime lol jk :rofl:

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Girl grow some balls and introduce yourself and go talk to him. Hey I’m so and so. I’m your neighbor. Nice to meet you. If your shy type does he have a dog. Ask to pet the dog then introduce yourself.

Get undressed in front of an open window and see if he looks? :joy:just go over and introduce yourself with a lasagne

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After reaching out please let us know the outcome :wink::wink:good luck :crossed_fingers:

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Iv played this game and then he left me for the other neighbor. Don’t do it. Cause then your stuck watching it :joy:

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I would just say hi like I would any new person regardless of looks. But then again this post is proving to me that I’m getting old :weary:

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New neighbor? Lol just friggin introduce yourself like a normal person :joy:

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I’ve been out of the dating pool for awhile. But I’m pretty sure that might be creepy :joy: I started conversation with my s/o by asking if he had a screw driver or something stupid so I could fix my cupboard handle. It was fine but ya know, started a casual conversation with no stalker vibes.

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Food is the way to a man’s heart! :sparkling_heart::sparkling_heart: Welcome him with baking and pray he’s not a gym freak :sweat_smile::sweat_smile:

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Introduce yourself make same talk an ask keep it simple

Just introduce yourself. I wouldn’t give Snapchat to any man,likely won’t take you serious as is used to msg the masses. I’d just talk drop in conversation is he single live alone general chat.

Do you have a manhole on your street? :joy:

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Well if his your neighbor wait that moment wen you both go out at the same time and say hi to him slowly so he can get to know you then you can see if he’s a cool person to even say that to lol some can take it the wrong way like a woman would

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I would just introduce yourself and start up a conversation

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Why not just bring baked goods and greet your new neighbor? Then be like hi I’m blah blah I wanted to introduce my self to you and your miss’

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Keep it old fashioned and Ask him in person….straight up if he’s single. If he says no, say thank you n walk away.
If he says yes, tell him he’s cute n you’d like to get to know him more. What’s the worst he can say? reject you? If so it’s onto the next!
Good luck n let us know how it goes.

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I’m an extremely awkward individual so I’d be the crazy lady who put a note on his car

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Now if you do it that way and if he has a girlfriend and she finds that note, you’ll make yourself look crazy as well as him.

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God no, just say hi and go from there

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Just go and introduce yourself with some cookies!

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i mean if you’re an adult, why not approach him like such? :joy:

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Nope…how awkward it will be if it goes awry?

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I introduced myself to my neighbor. 9 yrs later here we are with 6 kids (he had 2, I had 3, and we had 1 together) and I still say it was the best decision of my life. Good luck :heart:

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Jim: Pass him a note at gym class. Make sure you fold it 32 times so it looks like a origami.

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Omg it sounds like Peter Parker and Mary Jane…… I was just in the neighborhood :joy::joy::joy::joy:

Omg…dont be easy to get .if u have d looks that makes hin turn his head and say hi☺️ feel sorry for you making d move and you might not be so adorable in his eyes😜

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Do not use Snapchat🤦‍♀️ I just had the conversation with my 17 yr old, that it is a horrible way of communication. Grow some lady balls and say hi!

Just wait and try and become friends first lol

Walk over and say “Hi welcome to the neighbor”

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Don’t approach him!! He’s your neighbor!

Say hi and don’t be shy

Invite him for coffee get to know him looks can be deceiving

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Say this: hi, my name is ____, I just wanted to welcome you to the neighbourhood. If you’re free some time, would you like to go grab some drinks with me?
*just an example.

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Get to know him as a friend and new neighbour. He maybe cute but coukd be a reet twat lol. If you throw yourself at him without getting to know him a little, then find alls not as lush as you thought, it’s going to make for awkward living. At least if you learn a bit first, you’ll know if he’s single, gay or straight, and generally a nice person

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Yeah nah. Don’t shiat where you eat. This applies to neighbours and or work colleagues.

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I remember back in the day when people left each other numbers … now your all leaving your Snapchat’s …. And on top of trucks … I mean … I don’t know if this is just creepy , or something kids do , or if it’s just weird :joy:

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Haha be “the girl next door “ wear skimpy outfits around the house where he might see you lol make it fun

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You could try simply telling him.

Be direct and there’s no room for confusion. :man_shrugging:

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Seems childish. Walk over and chit chat, feel out the situation and if you keep an eye out you will see if he has a gf. Certainly she will be there sometimes.

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I spotted a cute guy before, decided to casually oogle him from a distance for quite a while. I waited and then realised I had a mutual friend in common with him and sent him a message saying I was making friends :sweat_smile: did he want to add. Long story short we have been together 12 years this year. Sometimes you just gotta go for it.

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This page sometimes makes me giggle :joy: I’m curious as too what some of these posts have to do with “Mamas Uncut”
for example this one right here Lol

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Don’t. I dated a neighbor and it was hell :sweat_smile:

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Just say hi and introduce yourself, talk face to face and get a connection that way.

In my past I called myself the neighbor snatcher, it all starts with skimpy outfits in the summer. Every time. Good luck!

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No just go ahead and block him now.

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Leave it a few weeks to see if a woman shows up.

You could like start by saying hi

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just talk to him. it’s not hard, “hey, are you single?” if he says no then leave him alone. if he says yes, then tell him you’d like to sit on his penis.

I don’t want to be rude, but leaving notes like that is what children and teens do. Just go say hi and ask if he would like to get lunch sometime.

So you can live next to a guy that it didn’t work out with. dont do it

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Break out with Call me maybe :rofl:

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Lol I’m pregnant to my neighbour

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Is just saying “Welcome to the neighborhood. I’m so-n-so, I live next door with my (kid, dog, cat, etc.). Just wanted to say hi” not an option for opening a convo.?

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Just say hi and introduce yourself as his next door neighbour, just remember you have to live next door to him if ot goes tits up.:grin:

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How about just saying hi first How old r u??? 14 like real question.

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Snapchat LMAO fck are you 12 :smile:

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Better to just get to know him, say hi how are you doing…

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Snap chat is something my daughter would ask for an she 14 so I know she has done it before I’d go with making a dish an welcoming into the neighborhood

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Be an adult and talk to him you sound so childish offering your Snapchat

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I’d wait and see if he appeared to be single first.

No snapchat. That’s like putting your email. Slip him your number and tell him if he is single to invite your out

Snapchat? Lmao, at least be a grown woman and put your number instead :rofl: slip him my snapchat

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Get outside where he can see ya… walk the dog, work in the flower beds, water your flowers…wash your car…if he likes your looks, he will make an effort to introduce himself…

make him food and bring it over. :sunglasses:

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I’d say wait go outside where he can see you, casually say hi. Let him approach you.

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Seriously who is punking us with these questions . … :roll_eyes:

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DONNNNNT DO IT ! I wish I could support or give better insight on this but I dated a neighbor and when we broke up omg !
An if that dont work and u find someone else thags cute causes so much problems

How old are you? Some of these questions should be banned, especially the “Am I pReGnAnT” questions. Get a grip.

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Be bold! Say hi and go from there!

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That’s a great approach, if you’re both 14.

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Sure if you wanna look like a stalker. Lol

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Orrrrr you can be an adult and talk to him :woman_shrugging:

Please do not “slip him” your snapchat :woman_facepalming:

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If it happens good if not ok too don’t be an idiot

No no no no…
Be outside and let him come to you.

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Just strike up a conversation… The note on the car thing sounds juvenile as hell.

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What’s his name and ur name I’ll tell him for U… hey bruh the girl next door be peeping on ya package how does tht sound

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Go up say hi
Ask how’s he’s doing.
Build a friendship first

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Bake a cake/cookies and welcome him to the neighborhood .:roll_eyes:

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Say hi and take it from there

To me that seems a little childish. I would just try to strike up a friendly conversation next time you run into him. Maybe ask for his number if the conversation goes well. Either he gives it to you or he says thanks but I have a girlfriend. No harm no foul.

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What’s your Snapchat? Just incase I know your neighbor. Lol

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Grow up and get out of middle school first

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How about, since you’re both adults, you just start a conversation? :woman_shrugging:t2: You learn a lot about someone by actually talking to them.

Nah. Give him your OnlyFans instead.

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Just ask if he has a gf

You sound young, probably best to just let him be.

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By you saying cute, it tells me you aren’t ready for this man. How long you are you guys being neighbors? Do you see anyone coming in and out of his home?
Do you have a job because how do you know he doesn’t have a GF? What if she comes while you at work? Is he really interested in you, he will do the chase. Men are chaser. Just be cordial and say hello and go from there.

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If you’re usually on good terms with your other neighbours, just pop round to introduce yourself and say welcome to the street😌 strike up a neutral conversation and feel out the vibes!
You have to live next door to him so don’t be too hasty and make it awks :sweat_smile:

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