I’m six weeks two days. Had a miscarriage in November. Weren’t really trying for this one. But still very glad I’m pregnant. How do I get over the fear of having a miscarriage again? I just feel like everything I do could cause one. I know if it’s going to happen, it’s going to happen no matter what, but still. I was just trying to get past my fears.
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Honestly I bought a doppler. Whenever I got anxious I would listen to his heart beat. Don’t panic if you can’t find it at first tho, takes some time. And I didn’t find his heart beat until 12 weeks.
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You don’t.
It’s unfortunate. But focus on building a support system and opening up to your obgyn.
I had two losses before my daughter and it never went away until she was in my arms.
Good luck 
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I am so sorry u have to go thru this big hugs I had a bad miscarriage 5 years ago I was 7 in half months pregnant with a identical twins girls God is always on your side I am still heart broken over mine u can’t never get over a miscarriage take one day at a time I am always here for u anytime my name is Crystal
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I had a miscarriage in March. I was devastated because we were trying and it seemed surreal to even experience. I got pregnant again in July (not trying, but not preventing) and refused to tell anyone except hubby until after my first ultrasound. I’m now 30 weeks with my second baby girl and I still get worried that something will go wrong. I don’t think you get over the fear. But the farther along you get, the more manageable that fear becomes. I always just looked forward to milestones. And called my OB anytime I was nervous.
Chill, your anxiety is not good for the vaby
Miscarriages are very hard! And nothing can prepare you for it… I had a miscarriage that was weird my levels would go up then go down then skyrocket… they thought it was ectopic but ended up needing surgery… and the baby came back being a viable pregnancy… we weren’t trying to get pregnant again but accidents happen and a month later I was pregnant again with a happy healthy baby came out of it in the end… but I was miserable my whole pregnancy with anxiety because I didnt wanna lose another but once I hit the safe zone I felt a sense of relief… honey you will get there dont give up
Raising you and your child up now in prayer 
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You won’t. You will be afraid until that baby is safe in your arms. Don’t let it overcome you though. Try to focus on the excitement and anticipation. I know it’s hard and it will seem impossible to do, but try.
I had 3 miscarriages and then got pregnant with my now 3 month old son. Idk if you’re religious, but what got me through was a lot of faith and a lot of prayer. Took it day by day. Good luck💜
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I went through 2. I blamed myself both times. I don’t know what I could have done differently to avoid either.
I had a lot of rest during my third pregnancy. I spoke to my doctor about my fears and he gave me medication.
I’m in the very same boat right now. I had a miscarriage back in July and now I’ll be 11 weeks on Sunday. The fear and being anxious is very real and so uncomfortable but remember just because you miscarried last time doesn’t mean you will this time. I was so anxious around the time I had lost the other one this time around my doctor let me come in to do blood work to make sure my levels were going up. When I got my results back(which my levels were perfect) he let me come in for an early ultrasound to check on baby(baby is doing fantastic and everything is right on time🙌) Now I have a hand held doppler that I use at home which I wasn’t able to find the heart beat until around 10 weeks but it makes it so much easier for when I start to get anxious again. If your doctor would let you I do recommend going in just to check how everything is going, it will definitely give you a peace of mind. One thing to remember is stay calm, rest of much as you can and sit back and enjoy this beautiful journey!
I don’t believe the fear ever goes away. I had a ectopic pregnancy years ago. When I did become pregnant again I was terrified. My dr was so understanding. The extra ultrasounds to make sure my daughter was where she belonged. The extra phone calls to vent my concerns. I found the most helpful thing was a support group on Facebook I had found and all the success stories after. I really believe it happens for a reason.
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I had a miscarriage July 2019 and had my son September 2020. I don’t think I stopped holding my breath until the doctor said we were all good at my 20 week appointment. I took care of myself and him but really withheld myself emotionally from the whole thing cause I was so scared of losing him. Sending positive thoughts your way. 
I feel like every woman has that fear regardless of circumstances. I was always worried when I was pregnant. Just breathe in & breathe out. God has a plan 
Stay calm stress and worry bad for you and baby good luck you got this
Just take a deep breath and relax. There’s a great app called Count the Kicks you can use later in the pregnancy. It helps you determine if the baby is kicking enough.
One solution is not to get pregnant.That easy.
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The fear will Never go away, I had to experience 11…yes 11 of them…I have 2 boys 20yrs & 13 yrs…I know that with support, love and caring you will be blessed with a beautiful baby…
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Don’t stress, I know its hard!! I had one may and it ended in miscarriage. and ended up with my rainbow baby in march. Just tell yourself that it will be successful and take your vitamins and necessary things prayers for you
I had three miscarriages between my 9 year old and my almost 4 week old…I was scared up til she was born honestly. Things that always calmed me down were my doc visits. That first one where I heard her heartbeat whereas the last three I didn’t even get to hear a heartbeat not once. So I can’t really say you’ll be anxiety free til the babe is in your arms but maybe get the whatchamacallit that let’s you hear the heartbeat whenever you want. I know that would have made me feel better. Just try to rest as much as possible, mind and body too! Think happy thoughts! You got this! I hope everything goes well for you and you find peace while the baby grows.
You don’t. I had 5 miscarriages and 6 kids. Every pregnancy carried the fear until the baby was born
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I took comfort day by day, everyday was a day I got to spend pregnant and it helped me through the fear of having another miscarriage (previous was missed miscarriage). I prayed daily, took care of myself, and reminded myself that worry would not change the outcome. I knew that if everything was going to be okay, I would want to look back on pregnancy and know that I trusted my body.
I now have my 2 year old boy and I look back and think WOW the human body is incredible. TRUST in yourself🤍
You won’t. I had miscarriages before my last two girls. I got pregnant again and thought for sure I was gonna have another one cause I had a healthy baby before! When I made it to 14 weeks there was a sigh of relief and we finally announced! I’m 20 weeks now, having a boy in June.
I’ve had four miscarriages. Three in a row while trying for baby #2. It’s hard. The fear will never go away. We tried for two years for this baby and finally this pregnancy stuck and I’m currently 30 weeks. I’m still terrified something could go wrong. Until he’s safe in my arms I will feel that way. My only advice is keep your mind occupied. I scrapbook and that helps me take my mind off things. Good luck.
I had one in 2018 and it was devastating and when I got pregnant in 2020 all the emotions flooded in again plus the fear of having another one. I prayed alot is all I can say.
I’m not sure the fear ever goes away. I had 2 miscarriages and then got pregnant with my now 7 month old daughter. I was so scared the whole time I was pregnant though less as time went on. It was somewhat better once I could feel her regularly kicking. Once she was born the fear turned into fear of sids. 
Try not to stress too much, and relax as much as you can! 
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I had a hard time getting exciting when I was pregnant with my daughter. Honestly, up until I delivered I kept telling myself, don’t get to attached after having 2 miscarriages earlier in the year.
I’m 38 and unless it’s a surprise, I highly doubt I’ll be pregnant again. I really didn’t let myself enjoy my pregnancy, and I regret that. It’s hard, but try to relax as you get further along, so you don’t rob yourself of the experience. I know it’s hard.
I had a miscarriage in late 2004, at 12 weeks 5 days(yes very specific but we were waiting for the 12 week mark because I was told I would never get pregnant or carry a child) a week shy of 5 month post trauma(as I call it) I found out I was expecting! I am not going to lie, the whole pregnancy I worried, so much so I didn’t want to find out if it was a boy or a girl. It is a normal fear, talk to your gp/ obgyn/midwife, tell them how you fell. My doctor did extra visits with the ultrasound and doppler. Breath and be mindful. Lean on your support system. Looking back i always say, I was sent an angel to prepare me and make me really appreciate what was in store for me. I lost my angle baby, had a beautiful, perfect rainbow baby( my girl) and even had a sunshine baby after her(my boy 2 and a half years later)!
I had two before I finally carried full term… I was scared every single day especially one day when I seen blood I cried and waited for it to all begin but it wasn’t a MC like I was thinking thankfully. He’s twelve now and I had three more healthy pregs after that one.
I was the same with my pregnancy after miscarriage. She is now a happy healthy 20 year old and 32 weeks pregnant. Prayers for u
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I had three before I got pregnant with my daughter. I was afraid every day of my pregnancy. but the fear wasn’t as intense as time went on. I can’t say it will go away, even after your kid is born you still have some fear of losing them. it just shows how much you love your baby. I wish you the best!
I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks in April… I blamed myself over and over but really it was outta my hands. currently I am 27 weeks with our rainbow baby & it worries me daily. Now that I’m starting to feel him it calms my mind a bit but it was the worse thing I ever dealt with. I feel like I will be worrying till the day I am finally holding him!
It’s one of the hardest things a woman can go thru but keep your head up! You got this!
You don’t get over it. I had a second term loss 6 years before I conceived my son and never got over the fear of losing him. Even at the 41 week mark, I still worried about something happening. When I gave birth at 41+2, I finally stopped worrying about miscarriage because he was in my arms. Then came the worry about sids or something like that taking him.
My best advice, find a good therapist and learn some coping skills for when the fear or anxiety gets bad.
I miscarried twice and only 8 months apart and the fear did not go away even after two years when I was finally pregnant with my daughter until she came out via emergency csection. Avoid overthinking & just be extra careful, eat right, follow your doctor’s advise, less stress & strenuous activities.
You will worry the whole pregnancy I’ve had 3 miscarriages, 5 live births. Then even after they are born you will worry about SIDS 
My second pregnancy ended in a miscarriage back in 2018 I got pregnant again in 2019 with my little boy an the whole pregnancy I was terrified it would happen again. Just take one day at a time and try your best to not think of the negative. I know easier said than done. But one day at a time is all you can do. I’m currently 31 weeks with our last an first little girl an even in this one it’s a constant fear. We just have to keep moving past the fear. Good luck momma an congratulations my thoughts an prayers going out to you:pray:
I had a miscarriage in April and now expecting a precious little boy in March. I had so much fear and anxiety I literally had to pray and keep myself busy that first trimester to not go crazy from worry.
Pray for healthy pregnancy and peace of mind. I was terrified with my first that something could go wrong. Just focus on the good every day
I had miscarried my first and when I got pregnant with my son 5 yrs later, that looming cloud didn’t leave me until the very day I had him. I was so scared to make myself vulnerable again my miscarriage just crushed my soul. Unfortunately we know and have experienced the reality of loss and grief is something that never goes away 
I always say our babies are all meant to live, whether outside our body or inside our hearts! What I can suggest is celebrate every achievement! 12 weeks to 18 weeks are very vulnerable, take care of your body and health and just find the time to relax. They say everything we feel our babies feel. Good luck Mama!
If it’s meant to be it will happen. Nothing you can do. Just pray
Tell your doctor. She or he can help with peace of mind.
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Think positively, if you start think in the negative, your body will react in the negative also. If you think positive, and don’t worry, your body will do the same. Positive Thought only
I’ve had 2 miscarriages this year-one at 9 weeks and at 6 weeks. I’m now 21 weeks with a girl and I’m still full of fear but I pray and give thanks to God every single day…It doesn’t help us any to stress over it, because in reality its all out of our control. For reassurance, I would get a doppler once you get to 10 weeks. That has helped alot with my anxiety… I’m very sorry for your loss and am sending you and your rainbow baby lots of prayers♡ hang in there.
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I dont think you get past that fear. You just learn to handle it. I have 2 rainbow babies.
I agree with Debbie Sharein, negative vibes pass along through the body and cause unneeded stress. That in itself could be the cause of another failed pregnancy. Happy thoughts and know- you’re doing everything right! Your anxiety is whats telling you otherwise.
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You’re never going to get over that fear when you’ve already had one. I’ve had 5. You just have to take it one day at a time
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I lost a baby June 7th 2020, I was 10 weeks, I am now 25 weeks pregnant with a little girl and I can honestly say I still can’t get over it and every day I fear everything. I’m on bedrest due to preterm labor and I’m terrified. All I can say is rest, don’t over do it and just have faith.
it sounds stupid but finding activities to keep your mind busy or a hobby, meditation, thinking positive about this pregnancy & just doing stuff you like. those helped me through my pregnancy after i miscarried & my rainbow baby is almost a year & 2 months old! i am not religious but if you are, pray to keep your mind at ease. best of luck to you❤️
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I’ve been through this too…pray !!! Take deep breaths or meditation, whatever works for you!
I had three miscarriages before finally having my boy. I think the greatest thing that helped me was therapy and also talking to my baby often. But therapy helped the most. My fears ended up becoming ppa after I had my baby and it was horrible.
You don’t get over it.
You’ll never get over it.
That pain will stick with you for life.
Just continue to be hopeful, it’s all you can do. Everything else is out of your control. Make peace with that and you will be able to release some of the anxiety.
Lean on your support systems.
Don’t feel ashamed for having these feelings.
You are strong. You know you are because here you are trying to create life again. You got back up on that horse, so to speak.
Perhaps you aren’t religious but I seek God for serenity in times like these.
God,
Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Amen 
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All I could do was think positive & take it day by day☺️
After two years trying, our first pregnancy was a miscarry. We conceived again pretty quick without trying, but I don’t think the fear ever really lifted the whole pregnancy. Every time I got to hear her heartbeat it made me feel better, but had to resist buying a doppler because I knew I’d only panic if it didn’t work right. After 20 weeks I was able to feel kicking, I’d still sometimes worry but the reassuring (and eventually annoying) kicks were a regular reminder that she was still doing fine. I also wanted to know the gender asap, because giving her a name gave me a sense of permanence.
We are expecting #2 in April and although I had the reassurance of one successful pregnancy, I still didn’t trust that this one would stick until we could give her a name and I felt kicking. Now at least when I’m feeling worried (because I still worry at 28 weeks) it’s only a few hours between movements.
Don’t listen to “bad vibes could make it worse” type comments, it only gives you fuel to blame yourself if things don’t work out. Of course you’re going to have anxiety over losing another one, that’s normal, and sometimes despite our best efforts it happens. Just do what is within your control to be healthy and try not to look for reasons to question the rest, humans are amazingly resilient - we still have babies during wars and famines and times of high stress. The amount of anxiety that a baby can handle, although perhaps not ideal, is more than we give credit for.
If you’re a numbers person - only 2% of women have two consecutive miscarries, and only 1% have 3+, so your odds are good. Many women’s bodies “figure it out” the second time around.
The best advice I can give is to keep yourself busy doing things you enjoy, remember to rest, stay hydrated and celebrate the small wins. I spent a moment just being grateful each morning that one more day had passed, starting the day with “We’ve made it this far” rather than “Will we make it today?” helped me a bit. Be forgiving with yourself, don’t expect that the fear will just go away. Take it one day and one success at a time.
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I miscarried 3 years ago with my son and I have a living daughter and am currently 8 months pregnant with another boy and I am still anxious and fearful. Take it day by day.
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Counseling helped me come to terms with mine, also I has bloodwork to confirm that i had fact v leiden, so if you have any medical history in your family with blood clots that’s worth looking into. Countdown to the 2nd trimester and occupy yourself with other tasks if you can. Worrying about it just adds stress and overall isnt good. You got this. Our bodies are capable of so much.
I was worried my WHOLE pregnancy. The fear never really went away for me. I had a miscarriage my first pregnancy in December of 2018. Had my first beautiful baby girl December 31st 2020! Just take care of yourself as best you can. Stressing about it doesn’t help any, I promise!
Extra ultrasounds and hearing the heart beat more than normal helped me the most. I still would extra worry but hearing and seeing her makes it so much easier to calm down. You can buy the machine to hear the heard beat but ultrasounds are a bit harder. You usually only get about 3 but you can go to those places like 3D-4D imaging places where they do ultrasounds of the baby and videos and they make it so comfortable and you can buy an animal with their heart beat. I don’t work for them, I’m not pushing for anyone to come in to them just saying its what helped me the most.
Honestly true not to stress I know that’s hard but the more you stress then the more stress you body will be under. True stay positive and maybe try a counselling session or see if there are any websites online with other mums stories. Im so sorry to hear you had to experience that but me personally and my family we never really dwell on the pregnancy under after the first trimester where your sort of way reassured and the risk of miscarriage is lowered so honestly girl just relax your doing amazing and youve got this!!
Stress less. Our bodies don’t handle it well. Meditation can help. When the fear creeps up on you, breathe and try to think positive you got this Momma 
Acknowledge that you are not alone, join a very large mom group and you will see how many other mommas are just as fearful as you are! I had 14 miscarriages in the course of 10 years before I was able to have my little miracle baby. I didn’t tell anyone until I was 20 weeks for fear it would jinx me.
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Pray about it and hold onto your faith with no worries and stress less focus your mind on positive thoughts the minute negative thought come to mind in the end god has the final say sorry for your first loss and I pray you make it through this pregnancy god bless 
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You don’t unfortunately! I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks and then got pregnant again 6 months later and it haunted me my entire pregnancy. Even now I have a beautiful 5 month old baby boy and I still think about the one that I lost. I think if I were to get pregnant again, even tho my pregnancy with my son was perfectly fine, that miscarriage will still haunt me. Time is the only thing that makes it bearable. Good luck
My son passed 8/29/2020 at 39 weeks (scheduled induction) and I’m terrified to get pregnant again. As much as I want to, I don’t think I could handle it.
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You dont get over it.
I had a miscarriage feb 2020 w twins.
Im 28 weeks pg now. The fear never goes away
You will always fear it, its something you will never get over
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I had a miscarriage almost 10 years ago and that fear never goes away unfortunately. I had 2 healthy pregnancies after my miscarriage but was terrified both times the entire pregnancies. I’m sorry you have to go through that anxiety but hang in there.
I’ve had a molar pregnancy and needed a D&C at what should’ve been 7 weeks pregnant.
Right after that, I had what they call an “induced stillbirth” because we had to end the pregnancy at 25 weeks. She was incompatible with life due to a genetic condition.
So, while it’s not necessary a miscarriage, I had to live with knowing there’s a 50/50 chance for all of my pregnancies to end that tragically. It may sound harsh, and easier said than done but how we dealt with the anxiety:
“Hope for the best, plan for the worst”
Always be prepared for the worst case scenario, but be hopeful that it’ll all go well.
You know I’ve never had a miscarriage but one thing that this makes me think about is how as mamas, we truly will always be fearful of loosing our babies. Even when you deliver a baby and start to raise them, the anxiety of what could happen to them and living without them is always there. It never goes away, but I do know a peace, that surpasses all understanding. That only God can give and place in your heart, a strength and a hope and a love that only he can provide. The more that I study the Bible and my Jesus calling devotional the better I am becoming at training my mind to focus on him and his goodness in all things and all situations. For he knows the plans he has for us, to give us a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11) meditate on his word and seek his face daily. His peace will displace all of the worry, anxiety and fear. He is a Good Good father
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I miscarried my second baby. Had a missed miscarriage and in the end had to have a d and c at 13 weeks. I had my rainbow baby in April of 2020 and I got sent for extra ultrasounds and went in whenever I was worried to hear the heart beat. I got a new doctor and recently found out I’m pregnant again… 6 weeks. She doesn’t want to send me for an ultrasound until I’m past 10 weeks and I won’t get to hear the heart beat until then either. I’m terrified that I have to wait that long just to know everything is okay. All she told me was to relax. I can’t just up and find a different doctor either as we are a small rural community. It’s stressful. I feel your pain
You are not alone! Had a miscarriage Christmas 2019 and another June 2020. I am now 30 weeks and it’s been stressful up until I started feeling the baby move. Now I drink something cold when I start to worry and the baby reacts with lots of kicks and punches. Try not to stress too much
I’m 27 weeks with my rainbow baby and I still have anxiety about it
Buy a doppler for at home then you can listen to the heart beat to help. It won’t take all the worry away but it might help
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Miscarriages are common and many many women who have had 1 end up having many successful pregnancies. Its just natural selection. Sometimes women miscast really on and never even knew they were pregnant.
Most of the time, its a very healthy bodies way of discarding something that wasn’t going to form or function well.
I know that sounds cold but for me, looking at it with all its bitter truth and logic made me feel better. I’ve had 2 in between my 3 kids. And all those successful pregnancies went easy and well.
My 1st pregnancy miscarried at 10 weeks and I was so distraught that I used that 6 week “don’t have sex you need to heal, you’ll be fertile” period as a way to get a baby back in my belly.
She’s 18 now. Took one try.
Try not to stress. To be honest. I was terrified every day when I was pregnant with my daughter. Went to the er mutiple times and was admitted 3 or 4 times. Just try not to stress. And my mind would tell me I wasnt pregnant I was making it up even though I had proof. It was weird. Do what you can. Take your vitamins, drink your water, eat healthy as you can, go to your appointment. Have faith in yourself. You got this!!
I got pregnant the following month after my miscarriage. Talk about terrified! It really didn’t get easier until the 3rd trimester for me. Really the only thing you can do is slow down, rest and try not to put stress on yourself.
sending you lots of positive vibes mama! its a struggle to not let your mind wander to those thoughts but just keep positive &do whatever it is that makes you comfortable:two_hearts:
Unfortunately you dont. I was scared to go to the dr until after my first trimester with my last daughter… but honestly you just have to keep being grateful that your are pregnant and soon you’re little baby will be born perfect like it was supposed to be
Don’t stress your body out with anxieties. Let go and let God
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Same i had a stillbirth at 24 weeks so the 2nd time I got pregnant I was a wreck just try and focus on the baby u are pregnant with and have faith what is meant to be usually is now hes 25 .good luck .
The fear never goes away, I was 18 when I miscarried at 11 weeks I am 34 years old now and 19 weeks 4 days and I was petrified until I had my 18 week US and seen the baby.
I have 3 healthy children and then I lost my daughter my 4th baby due to cord accident at 38wks. I didn’t know until day I delivered her there was not heat beat. I am extremely scared to get pregnant again. My fiance wants one more baby and I’m so worried it’ll happen again.
Put it in God’s hands,he knows best
I think it will be there until the same amount of time has passed. Just be aware of it but focus on taking care of yourself and staying positive. I can’t promise you a successful pregnancy but you can hope and stay strong.
I prayed a lot. I came to the understanding that it was out of my control. I just tried to focus on the good. Took it one day at a time. you got this mama:heart:
This exact thing happened to me. I was pregnant lady year in November and lost my baby and then got pregnant exactly after that!
It doesn’t. I wa honest with my ob about it when I was pregnant with our rainbow . Because I was high risk anyway he did extra ultrasounds just so I could see baby was okay. It’s okay to be scared. It will just make holding your baby extra special.
Just try to take it one day at a time. But the sad reality is it never really goes away 
I’m so sorry to hear you went thru that. I had a miscarriage last year as well. The mental weight of that is something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. My advice is to be as open as possible with your SO and Dr so they can help. I hope everything goes well!
you have to just remind yourself that every pregnancy is different. It’s hard, trust me I know. I lost my first baby at 8 weeks pregnant and for my second I was an anxious mess the entire time. When you get a little further along and doctors are able to find the heartbeat I highly recommend getting a doppler off Amazon or something. just remind yourself to take it day by day or in this case week by week. Rest, keep your body and mind relaxed until you’re in the safe zone. (For me that was when I was in the second trimester and I was getting more frequent ultrasounds) My doctor also checked my blood to make sure the baby hormones were still rising, so you could always ask your doctor to monitor that until you’re far along enough to hear the heartbeat! Prayers for you & family. This baby is going to be okay!!
Pray… talk to GOD… ask him for a beautiful full term healthy baby…try to breath & relax and trust in GOD… also be good to yourself…take it easy… rest… stay off your feet as much as possible…
Just take it one day at a time. It’s natural to be scared x
Im 8 weeks and 4 days. I have hypothyroidism and am at risk for preclampsia and low iron during this pregnancy (#4). I am so happy to be pregnant but i am terrified of loosing it. This will be my last one and i plan on getting my tubes tied during my csection.
It’s not a fear that you get over. I miscarried in July and now I am 9 weeks. I felt better after my doctor’s appointment and saw the baby and heard the heart beat. That bit of fear is still there not as strong but there all the same. I’m not sure if you are religious but I will pray for you and your baby.
I never got over the fear of miscarriage until I had my babies in my arms. 4 angel babies and 4 in my arms.
I’ve had many. More than most. I am currently about 6 weeks also. I wish I had comforting advice but I am going thru the same exact fears and stress. I just tell myself what’s meant to be will be
I hate to tell you but you can’t I had a miscarriage in 2015 then went full term with my rainbow baby in 2019. I didn’t tell anyone until I was past the 12 week mark because I announced my pregnancy in 2015 and lost the baby the same day. I didn’t want to go through with having to tell everyone I wasn’t pregnant anymore again. But I worried the ENTIRE pregnancy about something going wrong. I still worry something is going to happen and he’s 17 months. Just try not to think about it. Enjoy every little moment and do everything you can to stay stress free.
Youll get to a point in your pregnancy when it just ends. I bought a doppler for my rainbow baby pregnancy and at about 15/16 weeks when i could comfortably find heart beat it just disappeared.
Take One day at a time. Sending you strength and love.
I dont think you really can ive had 2 missed micarriges and on my pregnant with my 3rd child i will be scared until after birth and when he or she is in my arms.
I just try and think positive and everything happens for a reason!! Its such a complex process of cells multiplying and if its not perfect it not ment to be i dont know if its a right or wrong way to think but it helps me. Just rest a try not to worry 
Appreciate each day. Know that each day is closer to meeting your new little one. Enjoy it! Harder said than done… I had this same experience. Much love to you mama. Stay strong 