pack up and leave ! sell the house if u own it. do what ever u need to do but obviously what ur doing now isn’t working , ur enabling his behaviour.
if it’s really this bad pack up and move u and the kids to your own little unit and get on to child suppprt . look at your nearest women’s. center
Just snitch on his ass
Put him out and when he comes back acting up call the police and let them know u are not safe.
TPO and eviction. And prosecute when he breaks it immediately.
If you don’t have a job and he doesn’t pay bills who’s paying the bills in your house? Is this a house you own or are you renting? You’ve allowed him to live there so you need to legally evict him. Why isn’t he paying the CS he’s court ordered to pay?
Wait until he is at work and sit his stuff outside on the curb. If he goes to tear your stuff up when he comes home, have him arrested 
Get a plan and some short term goals then do something every day to hit your goals . Request he have a plan and goals and he either moves tward his goals or he moves out .
Kick him out, if he’s been there longer than 14 days you have to serve him because now you’re his landlord. Take pictures of your home document the bills that he hasn’t paid and you can call the courts about him not paying child support. Remind him whatever he breaks he will buy period. He’s only taking away from your children you were being nice and he’s grown
Who is paying the bills? If you own thr house you have to legally evict him. Get a job to support you and your kids and get those bills paid.
Document EVERYTHING, the unpaid bills, the threats, go file for an eviction on him and a personal protection order. Once these things go through have police be there to escort him out and make him leave. Change locks immediately.
They get away with it because we let them…put your foot down…get police involved so he knows ur done with his shit…it’s a hassle but what’s your peace of mind and mental health worth to you.x.
Your house,why is he there.
Either get a job and save up or go to a shelter.
Get a restraining order.
Go to court to get him to comply with support order. You don’t need a lawyer. Just fill out the paperwork for “non-compliance if support order”. You’ll get a court date. Just bring copy of the original court order for support.
Give him notice
Get police to remove him!
Get a restraining order specially if he has harassed and broke things in your house
Kick him out and rent his room to a paying guest!
Depends what state you’re in if he hasn’t given you any money for rent he needs to leave when you say so. Change the locks and put his stuff outside.
Tell him to leave if he doesn’t call the police to remove him.
Toss his shit out. Change your locks. If he don’t leave you alone call the cops
Get the law involved. He must go.
Change the locks and call the police 
I’m in the exact situation.
Go file an exparte. Destroying your shit is a form of abuse. Just got one myself.
That’s all your fault cause you allow it.
Restraining order and look for assistance within your county!!
Document it all. And idk what the laws are where you are but if he’s owing child support, if he gets behind to a certain amount he could go to jail over it. But you gotta take control of the situation.
Restraining order!!!
Maybe reach out to a local domestic violence group that can help you or even mentally support you. You know what needs to be done. I understand it’s a rough road to get there. You need to stop allowing this behavior around your children. 
good luck! 
Restraining order. Also, can you get a job so that you can start saving money?
Change the locks and when he shows up destroying stuff you record it and use it as evidence to get a restraining order.
Kick him out and when he tries to come back call the cops and have him remove from the property. Fuck him
Restraining order!!! That’s what has kept mine away and if he keep showing up, call the cops and just have him arrested
This is your home…yet you have no job or money…I’m confused…he pays no bills…so how are you paying these bills?? Any way…go to the police department and get a restraining order… drawned up… change your locks on your doors…and lock all windows…meet him at the door of your home with all his belongings in a bag and tell him…it’s over… we’re done…go away…have your phone with you to call 911…be brave and stand your ground …if you really want him to go away…make him go away…
You have kids…he has a job and gets child support…he pays NO bills and doesn’t help out generally…you have no job and no money… Who is paying the bills? Who is buying food to feed your kids? Who is paying for gas/electric? Who is buying clothes for your growing kids? How much longer can the situation go on for when kids are involved??? You own the house, get a lawyer/police/courts involved, you are not married which will make it easier to get him removed from property!
kick him to the curb
Get ahold of your local women’s aide (you can find those #'s at the wic office and a few other places). They should be able to help you.
Call a domestic violence hotline, a women’s center, join a support group and follow advice to keep you and your kids safe. They should be able to walk you through the steps. Borrow money for a lawyer if you have to to get him out and ensure he pays child support. Garnish his wages & have the money go to the court first so if you move to get away from him he won’t have your address. If you don’t want to go for sole custody based on his violence and neglect, make sure he has only supervised visitation at the courthouse. That way he has to be clean and sober to see them also (not sure if that’s part of the problem).
Record on audio, video, or in writing his bad behavior and keep copies in a safe place.
Hopefully you will be able to create a “family” for yourself from work colleagues, other support group members, people on this forum who live close to you (or not! Sometimes an encouraging phone call can keep your spirits up and get you back on track), moms groups and neighbors. Build your “village” to help you raise your child. I always had a very small family but had lots of pain my life “related by love.” My ex had the same thing even though he has a big family and our kids grew up with lots of “aunts” and “uncles.”
It’s hard, yes, but take baby steps and make some progress every day.
Oh! You can seek friends with online services too, but be very careful. Look under “looking for friendship.” You can always seek out friends on neighborhood forums like Next Door, etc. Be sure they are good, trustworthy people before you give them all your info or introduce them to your children. Always meet in neutral, public places until you get to know them.
If it’s your house then call the cops to get him out
Go to court and have him evicted
Follow eviction process in your town . It’s gonna take 4-6 weeks but then it’s over. If he still bugs You get a restraining order. Still won’t leave you alone, move in the middle of the night. Good luck ,much love !
Sell your house in silence and disappear
Rent a room and bring around someone he can’t stand lol
I got a boat. Take him for a ride to no return?
Get a job start saving
Tell him he needs to leave and his things will be packed for him by the time he’s done work and they’ll be on the porch. When he shows up to get his things DO NOT open the door. If he tries to get in without your permission, call the cops. If he comes back, call the cops again and file for a restraining order. Also take him to court to get your child support. If he’s working and not paying support, the judge will take it from his account
He’s stuff on the curbside
Legally you have to evict him thru the court system just like a landlord would evict a tenant. Then if he destroys any if your stuff you can have him arrested. Do you have child support at up thru the courts? If so use them to enforce it. They can arrest him after he so far behind.
I’m not sure what is going on here, pretty hard to read and follow. How do you own a home with no income? I feel like there is WAY more to the story here. If you don’t want him there you need to follow the laws of eviction in your area. If you are afraid of his reaction then see what your options are. You can always pack his crap and change the locks while he is at work, there will be consequences to that decision though.
Call the cops and find a lawyer. There is no excuse for his behavior!
Charge him rent he will soon bugger off
You legally evict him and change your locks. By rods to keep windows from being jimmied open. Get a restraining order.
Get motion activated cameras or a Ring so when he destroys stuff, you call the police and get him arrested.
You change your number. Let neighbors know he isn’t to be here and to call the police if they see him. Make sure the school knows he isn’t to pick up the children. If he tries, they are to call the police and then you.
And, my recommendation for all females…
Go to a range and learn. Take has is self defense. Hell, watch YT vidoes to start.
Take back your life girl. It’s yours. Not his. Don’t let him control you.
Is it your house? If so KICK HIM TO THE CURB. You don’t owe him one bit of kindness. BuhByeeeee!
Put your stuff outside and change the locks on the door
Restraining order and if he breaks it he goes to jail. He sounds like a big loser to me. Get a backbone girl and get his lazy ass out of there immediately
If he destroys your things then get a restraining order and evict him !
Get a restraining order from the court kick his ass out
It is not too late to sit down and write out a budget
and a Chore List -
Why is he living with you
AND
you obviously have one more child than you think you do …
Do you know how to dial 911??? It’s very simple!
Kick him out when he shows up call the cops
Sounds like you are letting him do these things to you so now he has taken you for granted. I think you know what needs to be done!
Go through the process of legally evicting him also possibly a police report for a order of protection if he’s destroying things