We have a neighbor in the back who listens to their music way too loud. Sometimes we have to turn our t.v or radio off because their is so loud. How can we ask them to turn it down without causing friction ??
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Put a stereo outside and put some gospel music on on full blast gets neighbors every time
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id just go over and say hey could you please turn it down a bit its too loud! thank you if that doesnt work or you dont want to deal with that call the police and make a noise complaint
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My next door neighbor is part death and used to do night shifts, I guess his sleeping patterns fucked as his TV keeps me up most nights, and I have to stop myself going round there 
itโs not fair is it, is there anyone you can report the noise too??
Just ask nicely. It doesnโt matter what time of day, other peoples noise should not penetrate your household so loud that you canโt even watch tv! People suck. I am sure you have a noise ordinance where you live.
Invite one of them in for coffee while the other one has music playing .
If its all the time just knock the door and ask them. Failing thatโฆcall noise pollution or the police โฆ They dont give your name .
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Why do I feel like this is a Karen 
learn to like music other than country .
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When I had neighbors like this I was very passive aggressive. Which is petty, Iโll admit it. I moved my massive speakers to the door and blared Cannibal Corpse. If youโre not familiar is extremely heavy metal and sounds like pigs being slaughtered. I told my good neighbors about my plan prior and they were all for it because they were tired of it too. After about 2 hours of torture I turned it off. Never had a problem since.
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Just turn your tv up.
I want to know how THEIR stuff could be so loud you have to turn your stuff off instead of up
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I have a neighbor who blares their music the base shakes my house! Police told me I can ask them to turn it down but if it isnโt after noise hours or before there is really nothing I can do or they can do! So I asked if lasted a week they still blare it!
Good luck! I texted and ask my neighbors 3 years ago to please turn the music down as i was trying to get my daughter to bed for school the next morning. I was told too bad. It could play until 11pm. I consulted the cops and they told me to call them anytime. The next morning I woke up to being tagged in a Facebook post telling me to buckle up and that it was going to get louder. She lost her job because it negatively affected her job. She blamed it on me and it snowballed after that. I worked for the police department at the time so she knew I had her!
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Well technically if itโs inside the noise ordinance laws thereโs really nothing you can do. So if itโs between 10 pm - 6 am then just call the cops you donโt even need to give your name they can just go talk to them 
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From experience when I kindly asked my neighbors to turn down the music they assumed I was being a b*tch and instead cranked it up louder all hours of the night so then I really became one and they stopped lol
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Our neighbor was like this. At the time our daughter was a newborn. My boyfriend just knocked on there door and asked them to turn it down. They did and havenโt had to much of an issue since. They were literally blaring it for 24 hours one time. We could hear it in our bedrooms even with our fans on. Sometimes just turning your stuff up doesnโt work. Especially if itโs music with a lot of base.
I love how people wanna call this person a Karen because they want to live a calm respectful lifestyle. I have the neighbors from hell and I absolutely report them and they get fined every time. Normal noise or noise that is even just a tad bit loud or you have a party here and there whatever. But every night etc is just ridiculous๏ฟผ
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Depends what time it is. You have to turn yours off? 
smfh thatโs a first.
All yall saying report them and they get fined are wrong. Unless its between 10 pm and 6 am the police wonโt do anything. Even then all they do is tell them to turn it down. Dealt with it for months with a neighbor till they moved out.
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Iโd try to approach them and say you just wanted to let them know itโs affecting your peace. A lot of times that will be enough
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How close do you live dat u hear it too loud
Iโve banged on doors and told them to shut the shit off 
if they donโt want to listen then call the cops until they do something.
I would honestly just go ask. โHey Iโm so sorry to be that girl but can you please turn your music down just a tiny bitโ but to be honest it really depends on if itโs all the time or just here and there! Also music to me is soul healing and refreshing so I donโt think id mind, but with kids and all that I could see how it would get annoying
Just ask calling the cops can cause more peoblems most people will turn it down and not say anything about it
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We didnโt. I just went on my porch and blared country music as thereโs was metal. They have kept down wver since.
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I think if they pay their rent or mortgage they can play their music however loud they want. If itโs after sound curfew you can call the police, apart from that mind your business. Itโs not your choice to decide what volume people play their music at, some people are just inconsiderate a$$ hats.
Call the police and they wonโt have to know it was you who complained.
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Invite them to sit & try to hear your tv in your place while their music is cranked.
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Learn what hours they sleep. Then invest in a good LOUD speaker. Play your music loud. Also, may I suggest the song Baby Shark?
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1st Take the appropriate approach and be a neighbor and kindly ask them to turn it down donโt need to be rude about it.
If there is a noise ordinance in your area, you could contact the authorities about it. If not, maybe write a polite note and leave it on their door.
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And this is why Iโm glad Iโm love in the middle of nowhere. Our neighbors are our relatives (donโt get me wrong thatโs itโs own set of problems) and all our other neighbors are far enough away that of they wanted to blast music they could and we probably wouldnโt here it
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My neighbor does it out of spiteโฆ he tends to do this around 11pm and 2/3 am talking doesnโt help call police/bylaw for noise complaint
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Just be nice. Maybe bring them a peace offering so they know your intentions arenโt to be a bitch.
Iโve been your neighbor though, and my neighbor was hella rude about it so I got more obnoxious and had parties until 10pm. Cops never did a damn thing either. The more rude they were the worse I got. When they left me alone I stopped.
I had another neighbor in a different neighborhood be really nice and we are very friendly even though weโre not technically neighbors anymore. We each had no problems turning our stuff down for each other.
So just really think about how to make your first impression because it matters the most.
Go knock on their door and kindly ask them if they could turn their music down a bit and explain the issue to them. If theyโre nice people, you wonโt have issues.
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Vast majority of problems in the world could be solved if people would learn how to properly communicate.
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If itโs in regular daylight hours there isnโt really anything you can do. You could approach them and say hey your music has been disturbing us during thr day but they donโt have to turn it down. What Iโd someone is there thatโs hard of hearing?
Mine like to play 90s rave and tecno tuesday until friday night until about two am tweaking or singing karaoke so when I see there car home during the day I bring my speaker out back and jam to tupac or Upchurch playing with the chickens and dogs all day doing yard work. And none of the other neighbors mind because well karmas a bitch when we all have toddlers trying to sleep and the whole block canโt because there music rattles everybodyโs windows. Here and there during the day sometimes other neighbors will bring there kids out front and play music to annoy them too. Weโve asked them to stop multiple times and they wonโt. Here when you call for noise they have to tell you who called how do I know? Because theyโre the reason I had to get rid of a rooster Iโve had for two years when no one else complained. They moved in a week later code came and threatened me with a $500 fine a day. When I told them about the music they said call the sheriff whatโs the point when they turn it down when they see them coming down the road on there cameras and then turn it back up when they leave
Be a neighbor - go over and politely ask . โ love your neighbor as yourself โ
I would just approach them and be like Iโm so sorry if I come across as brass because I donโt mean to but if you could turn your music down just a bit because weโre unable to hear ours clearly. And point out you actually donโt mind their music or choice of. Itโs only being able to hear your entertainment of choice. And also maybe get to know them so eventually you could maybe text and be like, โLower. A little lowerโฆ perfect!โ Some people get in their own zone & font realize it until itโs pointed out to them.
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Most times I find ot to be best to be really honest ,just knock on their door and be like excuse me im not here to cause any issues im really not .but did you guys know that your music is louder than our TV. Chances are they arenโt even aware of it .be sincere and most of all you need to be nice no matter their attitude. You get more bees with honey than you do with lemon
Just make some cookies and go talk with them 
old school best schoolโ:wink:
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If it were me i would grab some treats from the store and go over and and talk to them and mention the music being a little loud. I know i love loud music in my house but i dont want to disrupt my neighbors having fun in my house
Maybe your neighbors are partially deaf? probably are by now lol
Chap the door and politely ask to have it turned down do it 3 times then 3 letters then the police times 3 before ripping up hell and doing it yourself permanent with a hammer
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Uh you call in a noise complaint.
Or if youโre my husband you go beat on their door 
My son learnt to play the sax. Iโd get him to practise outside on the loud music side. Thereโs really no killing out wrong notes from a sax. 
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Do you have other neighbours in the same situation with this guy? Talk to them and put in a group complaint
If itโs during the day, do nothing. If itโs after 10pm, ask them kindly to turn it down.
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l get paid over $125 per hour working from home. l never thought Iโd be able to do it but my buddy makes over $16880 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
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Iโm extremely hard of hearing. I know my tv and music are loud. Often all the way up is not enough. I plan on a possible surgery or hearing aids soon. Not everyone has that option though. There are wireless earbuds and headphones available but they may be costly to done also. I use subtitles also but itโs not the same experience if you donโt have some sound to go with it. Have a conversation and see if there is a way to compromise. Even a rearrangement of furniture may help out some.
Just say it in a kind way
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It depends on the time of day and noise ordnance
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I would approach them nicely. Than if they donโt comply than go to your land lord
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Just go over and talk to them
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Turn on your music, play it even louder
Just ask them to turn it down if they wonโt call the law
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Report to the police. Noise ordinance
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All you can do is ask and if they donโt make noise complaint.
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Call the non emergancy police number with a noise complaint. They dont give your name.
Just go over there and ask if they could please not play there music so loud and if they donโt respect your wishes then get the law involved
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l get paid over $125 per hour working from home. l never thought Iโd be able to do it but my buddy makes over $14103 a month doing this and she convinced me to try. The possibility with this is endless.
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I currently deal with this. Weโve reached out to our landlord and nothing has changed. We can hear it outside with their doors and windows closed. It vibrates our floors during the day. If we make any noise at all they beat on their ceiling our floor. I cant do anything before noon and even they still complain. I literally tiptoe through my house. They also make noise up til the wee hours of the night. Thankfully weโre moving soon anyways.
My neighbors are always listening to loud music. Even if they donโt like it. LOLโฆ
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Police are the best and they donโt even mansion your name or house no
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Ask nicely and explain why their music affects your family!
Call the cops. Anonymously
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I would call local police office an make a complaint.
Saves any issues with them in case they donโt like being told
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Do like what my neighbor Janet does, scream at them for an hour straight.
Seriously my neighbors throw parties on Sundays, playing beer pong and loud speaker until 1am or laterโฆ Im tempted to get a sprinkler system and have a few of them shoot over the fence. Or grab stink bombs and toss them over too.
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We used to do this to our neighbour. We were the ones listening to the loud music. We would stay up drinking and partying on our deck and their bedroom was right next to it. They got us back by blasting their music at 4 am outside our bedroom window while we were hung over we soon settled down and realised itโs not nice. Feed them some of their own medicine
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Save some drama, let the police handle it with an anonymous call.
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Maybe give them info on headphones, โTV Ears,โ other devices they can use if they need the amplification. Hearing aids might be too touchy of a subject though. If you can afford any, make that their next Christmas/Hanukkah/Kwanzaa/birthday/Easter/Passover present.
If itโs between the hours that noise is allow you can do nothing.
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Universal remote? You get peace and your neighbor gets a poltergeist experience. 
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Pay their rent so you can dictate what they can do
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Donโt call the police. Approach them nicely, introduce yourself and ask them that they play the music loud in another room not connected to your walls or during certain hours. Be cool, be polite tell them how it affects you. If they are rude and continue; record it. Then call your landlord first and explain the situation. Iโve been there and police ainโt the way to go- they are being a nuisance not committing some heinous crime. 
Hire a ROCK BAND โฆ throw a huge party in your back yard. If they complain, invite them over. Talk about their LOUDNESS.
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Call the policeโฆ itโs the only wayโฆ and theyโll get the messageโฆ if they retaliateโฆ take them to court and ask for thousands of dollarsโฆ
I wish I knew, I came home from my cousinโs house last Saturday night and my neighbors were having a party there was cars all up and down both sides the street if I wanted to have company there was no way I could. There was no place for anybody else to park. So I went and talked to them and they got kind of passive aggressive about it and the next morning I woke up, guess what??? they had all kinds of trash in my freaking front yard. Mind you they are renters and I am buying my home. Isnโt that great?