How do you know when it's time to end a relationship?

Relationships
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Tell him to go live back with his mother since she did such a good job raising him and you take care of your babies you got this you don’t and won’t need a man to complete you

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Are you kidding me? You are 40 ! He is 30 ! Two supposed adults that know better. If he lives in your house, throw him out, he can go live with his mother. Otherwise, form a plan and leave. Take all important papers, some cash if you have any, a special toy that’s your children’s and LEAVE ! Call a hotline to assist you in preparing and leaving especially if he can become violent. This will only get worse. Then take him to court for child support and an order of protection if need be. What he’s doing is abuse to you and your kids and it will only escalate. I hope you do what right. No man is worth this !

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This is what your future looks like if you stay with him (them- him & his mom). It’s not going to change unless you do something about it. It’s only a matter of time before that verbal abuse is directed towards the children, or it escalates to physical abuse. Trust me, everything & anything sets off people with fragile egos like his.

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Take some advice and get out or the environment. Asap

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If I were you I’d run away from unhealthy baggage! Move on while it’s time

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Dump his sorry ass and run for it. You and your child don’t need that in your lives

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Why are you even bothering with him? You and your children will
suffer forever. Get out!

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Move on not worth it Now when your still Young

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I agree with others. We’ve got a 3 1/2 month old and there have been some extremely tough moments, but I can’t even imagine my husband calling me those things or a bad mother. So awful! Worse yet that you see MIL’s influence in that. I’d have a come to Jesus talk with him and if you don’t see and immediate change, I agree with others as hard as it is, it may be time to go your separate ways. I wouldn’t kick him to the curb just yet as you say he’s never said these things or behaved like this before. Is it possible he’s suffering from depression? It isn’t just the mommas that get this.