my friend left the state she and ex lived in since she moved away it was on her to get the child back to dad no matter how it was slit up he still gets child on the days they agreed to at the start
The justice. Is criminal. Rights for the children.
Depending on the state ā¦ he can tell the courts that he dont want his child to move that far away or she pays air fair and someone to travel with the child on his visits because she is the one choosing to move ā¦ and in most cases the courts will honor which ever way he chooses.
Maybe leave it up to the childās parents to decide whatās best.
I live in Maryland with my son, his father lives in Florida. We both share legal custody but I have sole physical custody. Our visitation is up to me, & our schedules. My son sees his father during the summer break and at Christmas. I wish he could go down more but his father doesnāt make much of an effort to see him. Christmas doesnāt bother me, Iām a military brat and we learned very early on, Xmas can be anytime, itās all how you make it. You have to be positive about it, and my son is happy that he gets 2 Christmasās.
I donāt agree that people are telling you that your brother should stop her from moving. Maybe she is trying to get back to where all her family lives. That is her support system & the your nephew has grandparents. Why limit that?! If your brother wants a good relationship with his child, he can have one. He just has to make the effort.
Stay in contact with a cell phone & video chats.
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For very good reasons ( DV) I moved from New Hampshire to Nebraska. But there were no court orders and we werenāt married. If we were married or had a previous court orders I would have been in trouble. So if there are no orders and they are not married he needs to get a lawyer and court date asap
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She would have to go thru the court and get that move approved to leave the state, if she doesnāt she can get in huge trouble. Hmm itās up to the judge Iām sure heāll figure it out something that works for the both of them wether she flies or travels back to weāre dad is living but something like that would be the agreement. If heās a good dad and in his life, pays his cs on time, etc, he has a good fighting chance to kinda have things on his terms.
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Legally idt she can even do that if they both have equal custody, move out of state that is. But Ik living far apart people sometimes do staying with one during school and the other during summer
In my town in Texas the parent that moves over 150 miles is responsible for the travel to get the child to the other parent. My ex husband is military so I did a modification from the original split travel to he now pays full travel no matter where he moves , he pays to and from full travel and chaperone
My husbands kids mom just moved to Florida. Which is 10 hours from us. Our visitation is. The entire summer. Every school break. And one weekend out of the month. She is responsible for transportation because sheās the one that left.
I moved 1k miles away. My sonās father comes up 2 weeks a year to see himā¦ Most do every other xmas and summersā¦ My son is medically fragile and can no longer travel hence why his dad travels and stays a week at a time for his 2 vacay from work. Really you can work it anyway that both can agree onā¦
The kid goes to the other for school holidays
She canāt just up and move the child out of state. The judge has to approve. And most custody is a parent canāt live more than 100 miles away without prior consent from the courts. My one friend has that approval and her custody is six months with her and six months with dad. Or every other week and they have to meet at the half way point.
I know here in michigan the other parent can go to court and stop them from moving to another state if he is a active part of the child life. I got stuck here when i couldāve made a better life for me and my children
He needs to take it to court and deny her move. If she wants to move she can give him custody.