Whenever you want to have one! Usually after you find out the gender it’s a little earlier gift wise but, that’s completely up to you. I plan on having mine at maybe 7 months. Many mommas are tired if it’s too close to the due date and end up not enjoying it as much as they should.
I would do it like a month before your due to pop, just so you dont have to stress over it.
Between 32 and 35 weeks. You never know if she will go early and you want her to be prepared just in case!
I never had a baby shower for any of my babies. But if one was thrown I’d want it late second trimester, esp if they know they gender.
I ended up choosing to do my first a couple months before my due date because my husband was scheduled for transplant surgery. Good thing because he barely recovered before I went into labor early. I will probably have this one around 30 weeks to give myself time.