How many women are out here knowing that their husband or boyfriend is looking at talking to other women?

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Social media everyday and pictures with each other but we still remain faithful because we have no intentions or even feel the need to look at other men or talk to other men what's the point if we're not going to meet up why talk to each other that what men refused to see is that they have a good one by their side but one day we will get set up take note we know just because we don't say anything or you lie every time we ask you we know
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Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. How many women are out here knowing that their husband or boyfriend is looking at talking to other women?

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My husband has in the past multiple times. I finally got fed up and told him to leave. That was a year ago. We did manage to work things out and he decided to do away with all social media. I told him I wasn’t comfortable with it since he used it to kill our marriage. He chose to keep me and do away with it. Of course there are still trust issues we are working through. I have several self esteem issues and depression from not only that, but other things that have happened as well.

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I don’t tolerate any of it. They can have me, or a roving eye, not both.

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I’m sorry, are you implying that when in a relationship, you shouldn’t ever even look at or talk to another person of the opposite sex? That seems…healthy :woozy_face:

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Intuition…trust it!!!

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I am truly grateful and blessed not to have these problems.

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There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. Once people find out which they have for their partner, things will be more clear.

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My boyfriend isn’t. He doesn’t have social media accounts. He hates the internet besides Xbox amd COD. But my ex husband was like that… and hes an EX for a reason. I mean I don’t care if you like a girls picture thats cool, go to the strip club thats cool also, watch porn thats cool too but to go out of your way and message someone or flirt message with them is just wrong.

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Can you be more clear on the looking at men/women? And talking as in hey you are fine as hell? Or talking as in how is the family doing?

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This is so true, for so many. Know your worth and don’t put up with less. :upside_down_face:

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Talking to or ‘taking to’? Because he’s definitely allowed female friends. I’m bi, if he’s not allowed female friends, I guess I wouldn’t be allowed to have friends. I’m more inclined to look at other women than he is. I mean, I don’t touch, although he would allow that in our relationship. It’s about trust, I have no desire to control him nor to be controlled. People have lives, people have histories before we meet them. Love isn’t finite. It’s important to have your own interests.

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It’s one thing to look but to go out of your way to talk to someone else is blatantly disrespectful.

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Don’t vague book and don’t normalize cheating. It’s not a gender based behavior. Just as many females cheat as men. Maybe you need to find someone that has their priorities a little more in line with yours.

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I’ve seen all kinds of women being cheated on by their husbands, I don’t even like them so they look silly coming to me

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Looking is one thing WE ALL do it from time to time…some more than others…but messaging and secret conversations… nope.

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I’ve been married 18+ years and have no desire to ogle men, I’m not interested in looking or even entertaining any kind of conversation.

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Honestly you will feel so much better if u spoke with a therapist :heart:. We only have opinions and this is a sad and touchy situation. The fee of not trusting him after that if u don’t get help now u will be forever depressed and blame yourself at times. Break the cycle :heart::heart::heart::heart:looking is an issue if he knows it bothers u

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