How often do you or would you let your teenager stay at their partners/girlfriend/boyfriend house on school nights?
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On a school night probably 9pmā¦however when I was a teen my bf ended up moving in with us due to things not being so great at homeā¦ If it were a situation like thatā¦ Iād do the same thingā¦if things happen so be itā¦ But Iād hope they play it safe.
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Never overnight and school nights be home for dinner time.
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Like hangout or sleep over?
Ummm thatās a HARD never for me!
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They are going to do what they want with it without a sleepover. I was always allowed sleepovers with my boyfriends and it was never an issue. I was on birth control at 14 though. Maybe get them on birth control 
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I was on sleepovers starting at 12, on the weekends. What is the big deal?
Not sure what Iād do as my babies are little and both boys, Iād have different rules if I had girls. However as a teenager I stayed at my boyfriends when I was 16, I was on birth control too
Make sure is on birth control and I would say whenever you want
They donāt need a sleep over to do anything naughty thatās just common sense. Hopefully you raised your children right and they will be honest with you, respect your rules and make good choices.
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Never over nights. Not any night. I think i was allowed until 8pm. My teens are usually at sports/ band and even school nighta may not get home til 9/10pm. It really irritates me how the after school activities take up more time during the week than friends.
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Spend the night? They can do it whenever they want when they are 18 and have their own place.
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Never? I certainly wasnāt allowed sleep overs and even when my one ex was tossed out and my parents took him in we never got to share a room. We were monitored.
I was never allowed to stay at his place, nor was he allowed to stay at mine, unless it was a holiday, Christmas new years, or a special event, and we slept on different floors.
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Depends on age as you didnāt state age are they over 16? I would rather the boyfriend stay at mine for protection if something happens if she gets hurts or upset am here they will do what ever they want regardless
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Never bc I kno what I was doing at 16/17 lol
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Like sleep over??? Never.
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I was allowed to on weekends, not school nights. I will probably allow the same.
This honestly depends on the situation and the age of the teen. Not to mention are the parents home? Are my teens responsible enough for this situation? Are their āpartnerā responsible enough? Why do they feel the need on a school night? Is their a project or test they need to prepare?
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It will depend on how responsible my children are at that age. My mom trusted me and I never gave her a reason not to. I didnāt stay on school nights though. I was staying with my bf from 15 and up. At my house my mom trusted us to be in the same room and bed. At his house his mom made us sleep separate. I never broke my moms trust. I have been with him 19 years in 24 and married for 14 of them 
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Never! What in the world???
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Like, the night? Would be be never in general.
Not any night unless they were married.
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She never mentioned sleep overs 
but I wouldnāt put a time limit on visits.
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Speaking from experience. Neverā¦thatās how they get babies in their high school graduation picturesā¦haha! 
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Thatās not for any of us to decide. Do you trust them? Have they earned the right to hangout for extended periods of time? Are they setting safe boundaries with one another and being open to you?
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Under 18? Never. Over 18 theyāre adults. Not much I can say at that point and I wonāt treat my 18 year olds like they are still children because all thatās gonna do is make them resent to me and want to move out faster and I am in no rush for my kids to move out just because theyāre adults especially if they are still in school
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Iām gonna say it depends on your childās personality and behavior. I stayed with my ex boyfriend constantly and my now husband stayed in my home a lot and also when he became without a place to stay briefly.
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Sleepovers never unless 17+
17 n they were engaged n she was on birth control
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What in theā¦?! Never!!!
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my mom let me go at 13 my bfs mom had to be there n strict rules we had to stay downstairs n bedtime is when i had to be home by
Thatās a whole negativeā¦ go visit and Iāll see you home at 10:30-11ā¦ you arenāt staying the nightā¦
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Never for sleep overs. Yes, if they want to they will find a way, but it isnāt my job to make it easier
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Iād say, never! If my teenager is in high school and or under the age of 18 they wonāt be having sleepovers with their boyfriend/girlfriend. Now once they are off to college, live on their own or work full time and are over 18 then they can come and go as they please.
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That will be asking for trouble. Allowing sleep overs at 16/18 still in school. Suffer the consequences thereafter.
Never - not at any time ! My daughter is engaged and is almost 27 . She is here for Christmas and she and her fiancƩ will sleep in separate rooms! Not until
They are married will they sleep in my house together.
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Never!!! When they move out they can all they want. But until 18 no. I guess Iām old school
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Never a sleep over. However my daughterās boyfriend was out my house 365 days of the year. Now after 7 years together they are getting married. My son was out his girlfriendās house every day.
Hmm. Teen pregnancy is real 
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Never. When theyāre 18 and out of the house.
I wouldnāt be allowing any sleepovers
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Depends on maturity, & the other parents perspective.
I think Iād be okay at 16, as long as theyāre not in the same bed at night. One on the couch one in the room.
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My mom let me spend as much time as I wanted. If she didnāt I ran away and didnāt come home for months; ended up a 14 year old pregnant teenager thou 
Oh we never played them games.
I know firsthand, thatās how you end up with grandbabies 
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I am of the belief that I would rather my children be in my home than out in the streets. My daughterās bf was allowed to sleep over at 16 (they lived 45 minutes apart) they stayed together 5 years and waited until they were adults to be intimate. I wasnāt naive though if thereās a will thereās a way and theyāll be in cars or other places doing their thing
Never. No sleep over for teenage love.
Not at allā¦ school nights are for homework.
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Never sleep overā¦and maybe towards end of the year or around the holidays ( when not much is happening in school) maybe 2 hours. ONLY AFTER Iāve met the parents, been to the house myself and done background checks on everyone inside.
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You mean all night? That would be never. Period.
At 15 I was allowed to spend weekends with my boyfriend (Friday night to Sunday afternoon). My mom wouldnāt allow us to be seen getting to school together either by bus or in the car rider line to help save me from rumors. I was also on birth control and knew about safe sex and did not give her a grand baby until I was officially living with himš most of my friends at that age were also spending nights and/or weekends with their partners and the only ones who ended up pregnant in high school were the ones whose parents absolutely wouldnāt allow that, which I always found to be a little funny (definitely not in a comical way, just odd how that worked out). That was 10 years ago though, I donāt know if parents are still openly allowing their children to do that, but prepare them for any potential rumors that may arise if you decide to allow them to do this because kids can be very cruel.
These responders were never teenagers themselves? Your parents too thought they had a handle on things then as wellā¦just enjoying the responses.
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Overnight? On a school night? Never.
If they arenāt 18 or over they donāt belong staying over night!
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This post never once mentioned sleep overs you guysā¦ā¦ Jesus
They are going to find a way to do what they want when they want to. Regardless of staying all night together. Donāt shame this mother. If I was her daughter or son I would actually come to a parent like this with more honesty than I would a stricter one when I was a teen.
Are we talking sleepover?? Or just go over there?
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They can go to each others houses till 6Pm but, never stay the night.
Never. Dating is an adult activity and not something a child should be doing. They have their whole adult life to waste time doing that.
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If they want to have sex they will. My boyfriends werenāt allowed to stay over but could come over and hang out until midnight. Guess what. We still had sex in the same house as my mom even tho he didnāt stay over. My son is 17 and his girlfriend lives with us.
Youāre trying to become a grandparent, arenāt youā¦
How about never?!? This canāt be a real question.
Never . Asking for trouble.
Umm never. Unless I was literally homeless.
I would never let my daughter but my son did and he was 16.
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Never. I was 15 when I spent the night at my boyfriendās house, that resulted in sexual assault. So, no. When theyāre 18 and can make their own decisions. ļæ¼
Excuse me, what??? Are you asking for a teen pregnancy? 
is this a serious question??? tf hell na never 
she aint even going over to visit ever
I guess Iām focused on the word Childā¦ Hell No. If your under 18 you will stay at home. Period. Even tho my youngest is 18 she knows she will go by my rules until graduation.
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Depends on the age. 13ā¦NEVER!! 18ā¦ maybe but better be on birth control. Thank goodness I have a son with autism.
Nope. Never. Not till she is 18.
Wouldnāt bother me as long as they was getting up and going to school and not being late.
I think it just has to depend on the situation and the kids.
Maybe she should graduate highschool before hooking upā¦ I dropped out and got pregnant grade 9 
of course my mum told me to abort itā¦ absolutely traumatising
NEVERā¦school night or not
You need to be a PARENT, not a pushover
Underage sex should not be condoned or facilitated by a parent, itās literally a crime on your part
Is your teen 13? 17? Teen is not specific. And the answer is probably, never.