What would you mamas do if you had a parent/sibling/or grandparent move in and continually talking about your family to every Tom dick and Harry?!? Me and my fiancé are very private people and keep to ourselves well recently I had a family member move in with me my children and fiancée we don’t allow certain people in our home because of the lifestyle they choose to live we don’t want that around our children even if it is family we’ve cut ties with them well this family member doesn’t respect that and talks bad upon us because we want better and strive for better. They have brought these people to our home after being told not to has trash-talked my fiancée and me to said people and after being asked to stop continued to do so what would you do ask them to find somewhere else to live I just want what’s best for my children and am so confused this person moved to my house to get away from these people to so I just can’t understand why it’s a problem I don’t want them in my house or our names being talked about
It’s time for them to move out.
Tell them get out. You said you didn’t want people like that in your life and that’s exactly what they are doing. Time for them to go.
I would kick them out! My house, my rules
Time for them to go.
Kick them out. Respect the home and the occupants. Regardless of family or not. Bye felicia
Put.Them.Out!
If you don’t have peace anywhere, you have it in your home.
Tell that person they need to move out
Seems like a pretty simple solution 
So is there a reason they are still living with you? I’d be kicking them out I wouldnt allow anyone to talk poorly on my husband and completely disrespect yalls kindness for letting them live there by having people you very clearly stated you dknt want there and comments. I’d be done there would be no warnings I’d have their bags packed and doors locked/change Locke before they get home.
Make them leave. Easy peasy! 
You’ve already cut ties with family that set a bad example. Time to move your roommate to the same list.
Tell em bye bye. Only way your going to get that privacy.
Lay down the rules and the consequences. Make it known you are serious. Then do what you said if necessary.
That family member would have to go.
Kick them out. Running their mouth to everyone after you kindly let them live in your home is disrespectful. Tell the person to go live with who they are running their mouth to.
Kick the person out point blank period and tell them they are no longer welcome in or near your home and children.
They need to go. Family or not, toxic is toxic. Your little family comes first now.
I would tell them it’s not working out with them living there
U love them but not working out n need find other arrangements
Move them out let no one move in again!
If you have communicated what you expect and they aren’t respecting that, they need to move on.
I actually had to kick out my own father because he had a bad effect on my son and wouldn’t stop his behaviour. He treated everyone like crap constantly and was constantly trying to put his nose in where it don’t belong. At the time I was 34 and 2 kids and one on the way. My son was in the middle of them starting his official diagnosis of autism and my father had behaviour that constantly made my son not a happy camper. And then I had to kick out even more family members because of boundary issues and to this day I still have a hard time being around certain family members and I am better for it in some ways. My father has now changed said behaviours now that he is in his own place and our relationship is better and he sees his grandson 
boundaries are healthy you just got to do it healthily and if they don’t change then I would kick them out. My own family is what I have, they will be there after my parents/siblings deaths typically so I invest more in that now than external family and now I’m just starting to do my own traditions with my little ones it feels great
Time for them to move. They may never stop talking about you but that’s because they are probably jealous of you and your family. Cut ties
Show him or her the door if your better half will back you, otherwise pack your bag and move on! You don’t have to listen to that crap!
So what is the lifestyle…if it is drugs that is bad …but gaY or trans and that is messed up
Girl you chose to keep your children from that exposure. No offense but now u are letting that exposure in to run your life making your biggest fear your everyday reality. Id say tell then to respect or leave
Kick them out and cut ties.
One of my favorite sayings is " Thsts not my story to tell " your mom should adopted this .
I went thru this.
I have to tell you, they have to move out.
They don’t respect you. They don’t respect your home or your kids.
Stop being a record player and put your foot down, they ha e to move out.
Now.
I waited and shouldn’t have. It lead to cutting everybody out of my life for my sanity.
Game ender. Put the on the road. Now! If bf takes their side, out him, too. He can find another woman,but you are your son’s only mother.
Give them something to talk about. Kick them out
Tell them they have to move out
Even at that you constantly worry wether this person is respecting you while your not present. The hell with the mercky business. Growing up who was we all learned the bad stuff from? The distant yet close relative. You got this girl think of only protecting those babies
If they are living with you they should have more productive things to do with thier time like working and saving money to be able to move on . So they need to move along now .
Kick them out. You are allowing it at this point and it will continue until something is done
Yep. Time for them to move on out!!
Your house your rules kick them out
Tell them to get out
Invite them to find a new home. Tell them your home is now off limits to them. Perhaps those that you do not want in your house will take them in! Pack their bags, out them by the door and call them a taxi…buh bye!
If they aint paying your rent… their opinion dont matter… tell them to shut up or get out…
Well personally I don’t think you should turn family away if they do certain things you don’t like just ask them to respect your wishes enough not to do them at your home or in front of your kids . As for the person living with you I would certainly tell them if they can’t abide by your wishes to find another place to live because that is your home and you should be able to set the rules in your own home and other people should respect you enough to follow them
Show them the door! Your house your rules.
Girl you need to put them out out out of your house not good not good at all
Kick em to the curb. Don’t bite the hand that feeds ya.
Kick them out. If they don’t comply get a 30 day eviction notice to make it official. I don’t care if they’re family, they disrespect your house they don’t deserve your charity. There are homeless shelters that will take them in.
Kick them out and cut this person off too!!!
I’d tell them they have 60 days to find a new place to live, mark a date on the calendar and stick to it.
One long, run on sentence.
Tell them to shut their mouth 
They can go stay with the people they’re trash talking you to!
I’d tell them it’s time to find somewhere else to live if they continue to be so ungrateful and disrespectful.
As the person is at my house talking trash along with the person living with me, I’m packing their stuff so they can leave with them since they’re so close! Hayyyyyyy!!! We will holler at ya!! I want nothing but positivity and love around my kids! Too much is going on in the world today, the place you should feel tranquility is your home 
Obviously they aren’t someone you need to tell anything personal to ever again. Oh and they would be getting out of my house too.
Why is that person still there.I cant believe you dont know what to do and have to ask social media.
Very vague. What lifestyle are they choosing? Swingers?
Let them find somewhere else to live now
We let our niece move in and she began speaking very poorly about us to extended family who we have cut out of our life’s because of the poor lifestyle they have chosen to live. Well, she has been asked to leave. I will not allow that type of behavior around my kids especially when we are doing her a favor by providing a roof over her head when we don’t have to. So I would ask this family member to leave as they clearly don’t respect you.
Do whats best for your kids! If they cant folliw the rules and respect you and your family, then its plain and simple, they need to go!
Nothing wrong with that, your house your rule!
This is why i dont tell nobody nuthin!
I would tell them to find somewhere else to live and not allow them to stay.
When you stay at someone else’s house you don’t talk about their private home life to others. You either move out if your not happy or you accept it.
I’m sorry but they would be having there bags hit them as I threw them out the door ,u have invited this person to stay at your home and it’s your right to have your personal business kept just that and they have no right to be opening there mouths about stuff that is nothing to do with them and inviting people into your house without permission that’s a big no no for me just because u have invited them to stay doesn’t mean they can treat your home and family whatever way they want at the end of the day they are a guest and it’s your home and your rules if they can’t follow them show them the door
Well U know what to do put their ass out your the boss.
Send her packing. She really doesn’t want to change at this time.
Limit what you say in the future. Show em the door!
Hell yes, get them out! People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. If there’s no consequences for their actions, they have no reason to change.
Pack up all their stuff and sat it by the door. You won’t have to say a word and if they try to act stupid you day I packed for you and you need to leave before I go to bed. Had to do it several times before I learned you never let anyone move in, too hard to get rid of them and in some states if they have been there for 3 days or more the law says they live there and have rights. Have to go to court to get rid of them !!
Well you opened the door so… not really all that private are we?
My mom moved my grandmother out of her house 55 years ago. I went to borrow a garment bag from a shelf above my head, I brushed an ice pick down. It fell between my feet and the point stuck in the parquet wooden floor. That, my mother told me, was the fourth ice pick that was found. My sisters were ten and six years old. My grandmother stayed only four weeks and had been gone for two weeks.
Tell them to go. Now. You don’t owe them anything and need not give an explanation. They know what they’ve done and thats that. I understand wanting to help but draw the line before it gets worse. Do whats best for your kids.
I’d kick them out. 
Kick them out! Don’t let the door hit you in the butt on your way out!
Kick them out. They obviously don’t respect you.
Show them the door if they can’t respect your wishes
Tell them they have violated your rules and your trust. Give them a date by which they must clear out their stuff and leave. If they drag their feet, pack up their stuff, put it out of the house & change the locks. See about contacting the police ahead of time as a heads-up if you expect any trouble.
If you have a rental contract with him/her, it may be tougher, but doesn’t sound like they are paying rent or signed anything.
Sorry you have family members who act so miserably. Good for you for protecting yourself and your immediate family from them.
Get rid of them if they can’t respect ur rules they gotta go
Good bye, tell them if they wish to be disrespectful then you wish them to move out
send that person off, they can’t respect you, they don’t need to be around.
Kicked them out they don’t respect you and your family I know you my feel like it’s heartless but it’s not
Your home, your sanctuary. Your rules. If they can’t respect that then they need to kick rocks.
Time for that person to leave
Kick them out. I’ve lived through this with my mom and my brother. It’s not easy but you’re responsibility is to your babies not the family member, that after you were gracious enough to let them live with you won’t respect your wishes about your house and your family
she or he needs to move sounds to me she or he is not through with anyone of them an this person you are allowing to live in your home has no respect for you or your children or your boyfriend. make them moved
You said it. Tell them they are no longer welcomed!
Remove that drama from your life!!!
Lived this. Remove them!
Give them notice that they are going to have to move since they are not following the rules of the house you set when they moved in
Stop telling them yours…
Tell them to get out!!
So why are they still living there?
Put your foot down and ask them to leave.
It’s your house…kick them out.
Your house your rules they should respect that if not there’s the door
Tell them to move out. Your house, your rules.
I have people doing that now.
Start the LEGAL Process to EVICT THEM! If I were u I’d consult with a lawyer or police department some source of legal council and find out the correct way to get them OUT with NO BACK LASH on u. When they ask y simply tell them ASK YOUR PEOPLE THAT ALWAYS HAVE MUCH TO SAY ABOUT EVERYTHING
For starters, if you didn’t marry them or birth them, don’t take them in!! Second, you gotta remember not everyone is filled with the same amount of kindness!! And lastly NO respect from them should equal NO help from you!
First off its your house your rules. If they can’t follow the rules they are not to be in it. I have heard that my entire life from my parents actually my house my rules you dont like it get out.
Kick them to curb…
Keep your mouth shut???