How should I handle my child being bullied at school?

I drive a school bus and I watch closely for any child that is being bullied and watch who is doing the bullying. I put a stop to it and watch closely. Not happening on my watch, or bus I should say.

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I may have handled it wrong with my step daughter. Called the counselor and spoke. Really nice. Said it needed to stop and they said they would “advise a plan”. Called the next week after another incident and found out the plan was to “alter the path the other children took to class”. I laughed and then told them that I was giving the day to figure out a plan that would stop it or I would sit her down and explain to her to not start anything, but if they place one finger on her, beat their ass and take her 3 days of out of school suspension and we would go celebrate. After the counselor said I couldn’t advise that, I explained to her that I would then sue them for being aware of the situation and being complicit in allowing it to continue. She said “I see you’re not the legal mom, so we can’t talk with you”. I again laughed and told her I was hoping she would say that because her dad was just waiting to make a trip up there and he wasn’t nearly as calm as me.

We didn’t have much trouble after that. But, we also filed charges for assault with the city and I got the judge to put a no contact in place and continue the hearing until after graduation before we would agree to dismiss the charge.

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My grandbabies have been bullied and let me tell you I go up the chain and I have threatened to go to the media. For me it is 0 tolerance. It was was for my 3 kids growing up as I was a single parent and I will back my daughter up :100:%. And if witness it with someone else I have no problem speaking up. Get involved. It’s not going to go away unless you put them in check.

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Tell your kid to stand up for themselves and fight back. It works. My daughter is now going to college to be a doctor. She was bullied bad in highschool. I always told my kids to defend themselves even if they got suspended.

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My husband and I have and will say something to the kid. It teaches your own child how to stand up for themselves. If it happened again we would have contacted the school but it didn’t. And now our daughter is 10 and has a black belt in Tae Kwondo!!

Constantly be at the school. Constantly call the school. That’s what I did. They knew who we were! Unfortunately I pulled my kids from public school. And I made sure the principal knew it was because of her and the schools fault.

My son was being bullied, they were hitting his food out of his hand and trying to make him eat it all covered in dirt. I spoke to the school counselor and principal and it hasn’t happened since, however we are very lucky that we live out country and it’s an area school not really that big for a primary and high school. But they handled it amazingly and have handled every other situation just as well…

I gave my daughter the chance she asked for to handle it herself. Gave it one day. Then I went to the school n threatened to press charge if they didn’t handle it themselves in a timely matter. My timely matter at that. It was handled before I left school grounds.
I don’t play. Bullying can go so wrong so very fast

My daughter was bullied in school. It got so bad that the little girls who were billing her, dropped her during cheerleading. My daughter could have been hurt or killed. It was getting out of hand. I went to the teacher, guidance counselor, principal, I finally had to go to the county. I thought, if that was my child, I would want to know. I thought I would go to the parent, the mother was horrible, I realized the child fog that nasty, and hurtful behavior from her mother. My poor daughter went through this all of middle and high school. The school system failed my daughter! We were the lucky ones. My daughter was strong, some families aren’t as lucky! This has to stop.

I tried having a meeting with the parents and when that didn’t help I notified the school. Nothing was done so nothing changed. So I removed them from the school. We now are in independent study. They are so much happier so they are learning more!

You want me to be honest honest? Its not what alot of ppl commenting on here. Let’s just say I’m a passionate mama bear and the school and ppl around me know me sooo gladly and gratefully this isnt an issue with my kids… but my neighbors kid a cross from.me got thrown, punched and beat by 3 kids at the crosswalk leaving the school. Let say that I found out who they were, yelled at some kids and then I went to the their houses and spoke to their parents. (Think passionate mama bear) and it never happened again.

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Man I had to do this for my baby girl when she was barely in KINDERGARTEN. She was in Headstart the previous year and absolutely LOVED it, so naturally, was excited for the next school grade in a bigger school. She loved her new school and friends, then few months later she suddenly didn’t want to go and I thought she was just tired. I finally asked her why and she told me about a little boy in the other class bullying her. She never understood why he was always picking on her and calling her names since she didn’t even know him. I’ve told her to let her teacher know but it didn’t seem to work. So I talked with this boys mom and let her know why was happening. Then she turns it around and says MY daughter + a group of girls have been bullying him and “kicking him in his balls” to the point where she’s had to check if “he last still fertile” like what??? She also said her husband was in the marine and worked in the law enforcement, which at that point, I felt like she was threatening me so I kept my mouth shut in case I needed to take her to court for a restraining order. The next day, I do a follow up with my daughters teacher since she overheard us and I told her everything and we both talk to his teacher as well. His teacher told me his mom is known for that so it wasn’t surprising, also she lied about her husband working that’s anything even remotely close to being in the law enforcement field, and how she ALWAYS pulls her son out for every time another parent has complained about her son and how he is also mischievous in class. So for now, for every instance that’s happened, I document every single encounter that’s happened (big or small), every call I’ve made to the school regarding the situation, and logging everything by date. I’ve even asked all the teachers/admins to document on their part as well. I’m sorry this is so long, but I hope this helps someone out there.

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My dad always taught us ( his 4 children) f we were being bullied go to the teacher. If the teacher wouldnt do anything go to the office ( yes you have the right to walk out of class without saying anything. If the office workers and principal won’t do anything defend yourself. Bullies now a days are fine with physically harming others and standing up fpr yourself when being bullied can give them perspective in life that they cant go around treating people the way they do. Someone defending themselves against a bully can sometimes benefit the bully in the long term

Tell my kid to punch yours in the throat that is- I most likely tried talking to the parents/school already and if they did nothing my kid WILL defend himself against yours. And if that means they’re gonna get their balls/throat punched its on them. Not me or mine.

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Listen. Teach your kids to keep they hands to themselves and not to bully peoples kids word up. Cause if they come after mine AND I see it… not only is your child gonna get their ass whooped, you as the parent will too.

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I tried to meet with the parents. Needless to say I learned why the girl bullies. Those parents blew off the meeting at their house by not answering the door I could hear them laughing. Then they spent years trying to make me look bad to all the other parents (I’m a young mom) accused me once in front of the entire grade, kids and parents of putting some sort of ‘note’ on their car…obviously it wasn’t me. Unreal. To this day 4 years later these parents still try to cause issues with me. I’ve told my daughter ‘look at how her mom and dad behave, she clearly learned it from them and her home life is awful. Let’s try to be forgiving and understanding of her tough home life’ the kid stopped messing with mine after I started volunteering at the school.

My granddaughters sister was being bullied last year and we let the school know in two different occasions. When they decided not to do anything about it, we told her to stand up for herself and should this little hit her aging to defend herself. Well the little girl hit her and she ended up punching the girl back and busting her nose…moral of the story, bully never looked her direction again and the other kids realized she will defend herself!!
The school wanted to suspend her but when we threatened to go public with our emails and the fact they did nothing about the bullying they did nothing to our girl but suspended the other. Always do everything by email too if you call

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Go straight to the principals office and demand to speak to them. See what they offer to do and ring the school every day to confirm that they have taken action. Please don’t ever approach another child. My son was walking home from school and a mother pulled over and got out of her car screamed in his face swearing and waving her cigarette at him. My son had not even done anything to her child. Now my son is scared to walk to or from school and is scared that this mother will approach him again so most days it’s a struggle. My brother his uncle was murdered in May by a complete stranger and my son has been struggling since then and has no trust for strangers. He was just starting to open up and get better and now we are back to square one because some mother took it upon herself to abuse my son while he was walking home.

I will talk go tk the school directly and if nothing is done I tell my daughter fight back if nothing is still done I have confronted the child and told them to leave my kid alone or I will contact there parents. It came to meeting a parent one time cuz her son pushed my daughter several times she asked him to stop and told the teacher and nothing so she bit him lol although I told her next time hit dont bite when the mom was upset I told her i would let my daughter do whatever means she feels if she feels unsafe and someone will not keep there hands off her🤷‍♀️ im trying to teach my kids the difference between bullying and standing up for themselves she will finish whatever she needs as long as she didnt start it

I would’ve said something to the kid and their parent shoot not my kid… and if it doesn’t get fixed ill give my kid permission to defend herself physically and verbally

I told my kids when they were little tell the teacher 3 times if she doesnt do anything WACK that bully n nomore bullying problem solved

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I taught my kids how to stand up for themselves. I put them in MMA and BJJ and told my son to stand up for himself. Even if he gets in trouble at school we will celebrate him standing up for himself.

I personally went to the parents of a few while we were in the car line and told them of their child breathed the name C****r and it pertained to my child, I would personally see them in court. :woman_shrugging:t3: That their child better not even look in the direction of mine or we as parents would have problems!

Well first I make them aware that if someone spouts off a “yo momma” joke on a one off occasion; that’s not bullying. Bullying is relentless and awful. But this is what I tell mine, verbatim.
“If someone is bullying you once, ask them to stop… NICELY. If said someone continues to bully you, ask them to stop (2nd tine) NICELY. If they they ain’t stopped and you don’t defend yourself, then you’re getting an ass whipping when you get home… BY YO MOMMA!”

And that’s how that goes. I also teach them to bring attention to someone bullying someone else. It is NOT your job to fight their battles but it IS your job to make authority aware of the situation!

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Whisper in the bully’s ear you fight kids too and they better leave your kid alone. :woman_shrugging:t2: Works for me. Ever seen a kid act a fool and public and all you have to do is give them that look? Seconds later they get some act right and straighten up.

Had a friend who stepped in and confronted the kid that was doing it and school called police and tried to file restraining order! Dont do that! :woman_facepalming: she said she just asked the kid why they were being ugly to her daughter and that it was not right and the kid told a teacher. :woman_shrugging:

Our 2 kids are both highly ranked martial arts students and could’ve knocked them out, but instead told me. I went to meet with the vice principal and warned him if it happened again, I’d allow them to defend themselves.

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I told my son to finish whatever they started. And, then when it finally happened, all 4 got a one day suspension. I took my son out for lunch and ice cream for sticking up for himself. After that, those boys left him alone.

I always call the principal. I dont waste my time talking go teachers because they always refer you to the pricipal anyways.
I was try to have a civilized conversation so i get better results.
A lot of kids are assholes and they have learned to get away with hitting people without consequences. My daughter never starts the fight but I told her she can finish it.

I spoke Right to the school, because that’s where it was happening, and they intervened right away

Handle it with their parent :woman_shrugging:t4: my hands are rated E for EVERYBODY​:bangbang: it stopped ASAP​:bangbang: :relaxed: also file a police report for EVERYTHING​:bangbang: So when they say theres no proof or documentation. Well there is. Watch how fast they take care of the issue

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I believe bullying happens because kids just havent taken the time to get to know each other. I would try to contact the other parent and try to set up a “play date” where both parents can meet up with the kids and let the kids get to know each other. At the end of the “play date” each child must say 3 things they like about the other. Either they will end up friends by the end or still not like each other. But if the bullying continues then I’m making my kid (if hes the bully) hang out with that kid every weekend under my supervision until he stops bullying. Either be friends or dont associate with each other at all.

My kiddo had a problem. I told the school they needed to deal with the situation or I would do it myself. The next thing I did was teach my kid how to defend himself. He finally stood up to the kid and wacked him pretty good. The principal called me into the office. I said well what do you expect??? My kid is not a punching bag. He is now going to stand up for himself because you can’t be bothered to deal with this. And he will keep defending himself so don’t bother calling me, I told him to do this. The principal back tracked pretty good. I said now that we have this straightened out, if this happens again, I will need to have a meeting between you me my husband and this kids parents because things are going to get ugly. My husband is not so nice and you don’t want him in here , trust me on this one.

I’d talk to said parents of bully … see if there’s resolution there n talk to the school so everyone is on same page

My son once came home with a huge bump on his temple. He told me his “friend” got mad he got a ball and smashed his head on the concrete window sill. The next day I went to the principal and let them know what happened and if they did not take immediate action I would not only go after the kids parents I would go after the teachers that were supposed to be supervising, the principal, and anyone on the school board that got in my way. I then handed them my lawyer’s card and walked out. They separated the boys into different classes. This was after my son had gotten in trouble for defending himself from the same kid earlier that year.

pull them out…there is plenty of online home schooling to do…I have always told my kids if they are bullied don’t put up with it but make sure that child swings first then they have permission to swing…I would back them 100 percent

I pulled my daughter because of the bullies and started homeschooling her 3 years now been homeschooling

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Go to the school if that doesn’t work, go to the parents. If that doesn’t work grab one of the moms by the throat, make sure their kid is there and make sure they know next time you won’t let go so quickly

I told my son to stick up for himself and if he got suspended for it, he wouldn’t be punished. So he did and the kid never bullied him again

Go to the school talk to the principal. If they dont do anything, then find out who their parents are. I dealt with it in kindergarten with my daughter. Someone was taking her lunch.

"Never initiate a fight, or throw the first swing, but don’t be afraid to defend yourself "

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My son was bullied by a littler kid. He did all the ‘right’ stuff, but it continued. I told him to warn the kid that if he was hit one more time, he’d retaliate
I also told him to hit once, but hit hard.
He told me he’d get in trouble.
I told him I’d meet him in the office and take him out for ice cream.
The kid continued. He finally hit back in the belly, hard.
Kid never told, and never hit him again. And yes, he got an ice cream sundae

Its a tough task. But you really need to teach your kid how to fight back. At first he won’t but after your constant counseling he will be able to do it.

My sons, who are adults now ,so a handicapped boy being bullied and they walked up to them ,one in front and the other behind and spoke there piece to them and they took off as my boys were over 6’ tall and 200lbs? They would watch the kid and he wasn’t bothered anymore…and they told the bus driver and that helped at that time but it seems to be getting worse…I was a victim of bullying and two of them were siblings and parents didn’t believe me of course one was the apple of his eyes as she did no wrong…my youngest always got sent to the principals office as he was a victim but he would deck them so I got to go to school a lot… I hate bullying…it’s a sad situation

I taught my kids to ask the kid to stop if they don’t then tell a teacher if the the teacher don’t deal with it try to tell one other teacher then if nothing is working then defend yourself

A child tried to choke my daughter in school luckily enough another kid reported it and the principal promised me it had been dealt with and they had had stern words with the other kids parents and warned then if the kid does something like that again they will take action. I’m still fuming now and have told my daughter is the kid does it again she is to defend herself and if the teachers tell her off then she can tell them that mummy said I could and that they can call me… No one will touch my kid and think its OK

Don’t let your child talk you out of going to the school.
I finally went to the resource officer at school and explain to him that it was going on at home and at school. It stopped that day. It went on for 2 years off and on. I could kick my own butt for not going to school when it happens.

The schools do nothing i taught my children to stick up for themselves and if someone puts their hands on them they have full permission to lay them out sorry not sorry

Depends? I could give you my stories but it may not be the same. Go with you gut. Talk to your child (not saying you dont). Be their voice of nothing changes? I feel like I’m not even helping. I will pray that it stops. It is not ok.

When it happened on the bus i called the school. My poor kindergarten didnt even know he was being bullied.

First I would contact the teacher, if there is no satisfaction that you have to go above the teacher’s head and request a meeting with the principal and the parents of the students. Now if it continued after I told my daughter she had permission to punch the bully right in the face. There’ll be no consequences from me because this is the way I see it once I’ve contacted the teacher and the principal and they have done nothing. Then the bully gets what the bully gets.

My rule is say something and if something is not done! Then do something about it. Bullies need to be stopped my daughter was in 8th grade when he was dared and called a chicken by 10th graders on the bus to play the choking game. So to prove himself to them he did it and he died from it! The school did nothing about this but offer emotional support for kids. This should not be happening with our kids. My daughter is now a senior and still keeps in touch with his mother. Kids can be rude but some kids are just nasty and don’t care about others well being by saying kill yourself and nobody cares about you. Parents need to nip these things in the but when they are told there child is doing this. Don’t say “Not my child” kids are diffrent when around friends than when at home with there family. Take action once you are aware to stop the cycle

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If I had the chance before I would it home teach and only allow him to go for gym and choir. But now I would teach him self defense and control and also ask the school to bring counselors for both families. Pray and pray

Good lord, with these violent parents no wonder there is bullying! My son has been on both sides and I’ve always taught him that violence isn’t the answer. I understand some kids need to protect themselves but most arent grasping that concept and end up using their fists for any disagreement. Stop whooping your kids and start teaching

Same as others said go school ask for right away action to be taken. If nothing done i waited on childs parents after school and had a talk with them. If they do not care i scared the child

Talk to the school get everyone involved. Been through this with my daughter. Talk with the principal, school councillor, talk with my child. I let the school handle it letting it be known that it they didn’t do something then I will have to take matters in my own hands.

I would take my baby out of school all together & homeschool if that is a posablity . If not put them in a private school . If you can’t afford that I would have my child removed from that class & trasnferd to another class . I would also get a restraining order no contact filed with the police department on the child that is being a bully . Then the bully wouldt’t be able to attend that school district becauae of the restraning order . Go talk to the teachers/ principle & make them aware of whats going on . Talk to the counselor at the school . Have a parent that has lost a child due to suicide because of bullying come talk to the student’s about the dangers of bullying . Get the message across to each student . Sit down & talk to your baby & let them know that your different becauas God made you just perfect & there is nothing wrong with them . Get them in a suport group with other kids in the community that are all so getting bullyied . Never give up keep fighting !

It happened to me once I first went to school and since it didn’t stop I went to the parents house problem solved

I was sick of listening complains from my son that the boys physically bully him at school.
I complained to school administration so many times and got the replies, boys are like this.
Atlast i had to teach my son to punch back. And after that day, he never had conplains.

Yes it is wrong to teach the child to be violent, but self defense is important as well

Call the police! The schools have rules. They dont always follow. Call the police, press charges! Laws are laws. The schools hands are tied most of the time. The police are there to help. Use them!

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I’d go confront the other kids parent and if they don’t address their kid I will and if they have a problem with that I’d probably beat them up

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So when my son was in the 1st grade, I had walked him to class because I had to speak with the teacher about a project they were doing for class. When I went to leave I hugged my 1st grader and told him I loved him. As I was walking out the door, I heard two boys laughing and calling him mommas boy and hahaha your mom loves you :flushed:. I honestly felt bad for these kids like does their mom not tell them she loves them :pensive:. The teacher was doing something and did not hear it, so i brought it up to her. She said okay, I’ll handle it. My son came home from school and asked me if I could please not walk him to class because at lunch it got worse. I showed up the next day walked up to the teacher and told her what had happen and she said " oh I know, I spoke with your son, and told him to not have you walk him to class anymore. Obviously you did not listen." It took everything in me not lay hands on this women and smack the sense into her. I stood in front of his class called the two boys out in front of everyone and demanded they apologize to my son. I then arranged for a meeting with the principal and the boys parents. (Which they were glad to meet) and when I talked with them. They had no idea what happened at school because the school never said anything to the parents about it

My kids were always taught not to start it. My son was about 14. This kid had bullied him for a few months. This finally come to a head and he hit my son
Mu son just punched him straight back in the mouth and the bully fell to the ground. My son and the bully got suspended. Thats the rule at the school. Mind you the kid wont come near him now.

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The best way is to take legal action file proper reports hire a good attorney and involve as many organizations as you can. The best way to fight a bullying child and or their parents is to do it with the law on your side

I’m sorry but my boys are 13 and 17 if it would happen I already told them kick the bullies butt if we don’t teach them nobody else will the school and the other parents isn’t going to do nothing I seen this happen…

My eldest got bullied and he somehow got used to it. :disappointed: We have no choice but to transfer him to a different private school. It sucks to listen to his stories about his classmates getting his stuff in return of them talking to him. He’s just too soft and kind. :disappointed: hays.

My daughter was bullied mercilessly. I did talk to the school and the teachers and they definitely did their share, but it was what happened OFF school grounds that was a million times worse. The school has no control over that, and when the parents don’t care (which was my experience), not much can be done. Doing homeschool since the beginning of last year and it has been a god send.

Very easy. Its called Taekwondo. You are not just having your child learn to fight in fact they are taught to try other ways to try and calm the situation. However if that doesn’t work they are taught self defense. So basically if my child is bullied he will try and avoid fighting but if need be he can take care of himself.

If I witnessed it? You’d better believe I’d be talking directly to the children, and then going to the principal immediately after as well as the parents. If it continued to happen, I’d be going to the district and depending on what’s going on- file a report with the authorities. :woman_shrugging:t3:

Im so thankful ive never had to deal with bullying at my children’s school. But my nephew did. In jr. High my nephew was jumped on by a group of boys in the locker room. Turned out the parents found out that my nephew had 3 older brothers in highscool and the parents were concerned about their boys’ safety. Yes, they weren’t apologetic about what their boys did to my sister’s son. So the parents and principal met on campus and my sister was shocked when she understood that the parents were scared for their boys who beat up my nephew… and rightly so!! But none would look at my sister. They weren’t there to address their sons bullying. Doesn’t that just boggle your mind? Anyway, my sister eventually pulled all 4 of her boys out of school and had them homeschooled till they graduated.

Now, I was bullied in 6 th grade. I finally beat her up. We got suspended. And my dad, at the dinner table, said, “ellen, now, next time, this is what you need to do.” And he and my step mom were showing me moves if I should have to defend myself again! That was so cool.

We had the same problem, the school never took any action. Alot of international schools here are only keen to make money. The fees for foreigners is higher than what locals pay. Therefore if your child is a local who is being bullied, the school rather lose the fees paid by a local student and keep thr foreign student and protect him/her even if its them who are the bullies. We have also opted for home schooling.

I called the school and the parents. Bullying falls under the no tolerance laws in my state.

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You step in. Go to the principle. If they dont want to do anything, go higher(B.O.E/Superintendent). There are bullying laws for a reason. Don’t give in/back down.

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When I was in elementary school (20 years ago or so), I was bullied to the point I was considered “borderline terets”… at home, I was told to “tell the teacher” and not to hit people. So that’s what I did. But the teachers and even the principal did nothing. It took me years and several meds daily to take back control of myself, and still to this day I suffer with extremely high anxiety and mood disorders. My advice on bullying is to teach your child to stand up for theirself, ask questions often and make meetings with the school and the other childs parent if needed, whatever you do dont let it continue.

You gotta tell the teacher and her the principal involved. They do peer mediation and sometimes the parents can speak and work it out too.

I show up at their parents house with my child and figure out the situation and if it doesn’t get fixed I’ll be back to beat your ass🤣 I’ve done this multiple times and it has fixed the problem for me.

I would schedule a meeting with the principal as a first step. Maybe include the parents of the other child or children.

No one should tell you how to be as a person, as long as you follow your kindness rules and own space, if they come at you, lay em out. Period

From experience… go talk to the school and the parents of the bully if possible. It’s the schools responsibility to make sure it stops. Remind them of that

There was a girl in my school who bullied me terribly. My Mother had enough and went to her house and spoke to her, she stopped her nonsense lol

Tell the school…if nothing happens… file a restraining order against the bully. Go to the police. Protect your child however you can.

I once went to the school principal about my daughter being bullied. She admitted to knowing about it. I told her to FIX THE PROBLEM OR I WOULD. My daughter never had any problems with those girls again.

I went to the school they did nothing and so I went to the mom she got mad and cussed me out so I cussed her out she went to the office and I was kicked off school property. So I couldn’t answer this question

I would be at school and the principal & I would meet head on like I had to go fight for my boys when they were in school dont give up parents got rights

Tell your kid to give it back or ignore it. If you handle it it makes it worse and the kid doesn’t learn to take care of themselves.

Well in California no one is really in school in general I wouldn’t tolerate bullying and I would homeschool my child school ain’t as safe as people think

Taekwondo classes work wonders! The school could not prevent. Durham bus service could not prevent. He had to learn to protect himself.

Go to the principal and meet with that child’s parents. And if nothing is done tell them you will sit in class everyday and get a news station there.

If you go to a bully’s butt,usually they will leave u alone.Even if you don’t win,you will get there respect.In today times,you need to be able to defend yourself.

I would just be happy to send my child to school with out the risk of dying from the freaking plague

If I witnessed it then I would follow the kid to see who the parents are and confront them or go to the principal.

I spoke with the teacher and the principal. My daughter’s treatment turned around overnight

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This one’s a hard because it depends weather Its primary school or secondary school. If it’s primary go take up with the head and things will get put in place hopefully and keep a diary of things that happen to your child. If it’s secondary it may take alot more than that (hopefully the school isn’t like mine and they don’t care) if it carry on speak to the parents if you feel you can if not wage a war so somebody listerns I hate children who bully other children

Our county had a Juvenile Detention Officer. He put a stop to it, after we met with him.

I’m just wondering where school is physically in session :thinking::thinking::thinking::thinking::thinking::thinking::fire::fire::fire::fire::fire:

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I called the school when that didnt work i went to the parents my damn self

Empower your child - it’s their best defense. Don’t be fooled into sticking up for them - you won’t always be there

I give my kids three rules. Never let yourself get bullied, protect those getting bullied and to never become a bully. People are gonna talk about you till the day you die. It’s up to you how you handle it. The more you let it bother you and show them it bothers you the more they keep doing.

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I taught mine to hit when they feel threatened. Self defense. Alot of schools have the no bully policy. So my kids tell a teacher and after that they gunna hit

Absolutely fight back 100%. Only thing wotked for my son.