100% cheating !!! If he doesn’t think it is, ask him if he’d be happy with you receiving the same type of thing from a male ???
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Um… see if he thinks it’s cheating when he finds you getting dick pics and videos…
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To me that is definitely cheating! I’ve only been with my husband a little over a year … and since I’ve been pregnant with this baby I haven’t had a sex drive at all. And he gets really horny. But he doesn’t like porn and he most definitely wouldn’t talk to other women, or cheat. He understands. We have been having sex maybe only once a month and I feel super bad about it. I want to want to have sex lol. But don’t have the desire … I know it’s difficult, but maybe just try to have sex once in awhile even though you don’t have a sex drive … 
and maybe you need to find a new doctor because there is most definitely ways they could help … not sure if you are taking any medications but that can be a side effect of a lot of them. Also, he really should acknowledge that what he is doing with that girl is wrong … hopefully you guys can get past it, but if she has sent him nudes and shit maybe they have hooked up already …? 
In my opinion that is cheating.
Turn around and get the same type of pics and videos (if you are comfortable) and see what he thinks about it.
Would be best if you just left his dumb ass. As this situation isnt going to get better. He will use what ever he can to justify his actions. He will leave you feeling crappy.
Cheating=anything I wouldn’t want my partner doing
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This is a trigger post…
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That is most DEFINITELY cheating 
Definitely cheating! But if you’re not giving him any, he’s gonna look elsewhere🤷🏼 not sayin it’s right what he’s doin, but you’re not doin your part🤷🏼
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That’s cheating and he’s attempting to manipulate you into thinking otherwise.
That is 100% cheating. And if he can’t handle the way you are he can go fuck himself
Find another doctor who specializes in low libido or a sex therapist. Your current doc isn’t doing you any favors. Could be hormone imbalance, your meds, something else.
Go to a marriage counselor together and get your relationship sorted out. Find out what each of you want and need. Maybe you can reignite things, find a compromise that works for you both, or decide its time to separate and reflect on the relationship.
Good luck!
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You both need to change! You can’t just keep denying him his needs…you guys are in a relationship you’re not just roommates. It’s not what he signed up for so don’t force it on him to be in a sort of relationship he didn’t want. Make days where you PROMISE to give him some. No headaches, no “I’m too tired”…just do it. The more you do it, the more you’ll want it. He also needs to stop his nonsense and make it up to you and gain your trust again. You both need to work at this relationship or you’ll lose it!
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Cheating straight up! He could have watched porn but decided to chase another female instead
If u feel like you have to hide it from ur SO than it’s crossing a line into cheating or close enuf to cheating. If u feel like u couldn’t do it in front of them than it’s probably best u don’t do it behind thier backs. Im sry ur going thru this. I know how much it hurts
It’s cheating. Anything you would not share with your SO would be considered cheating.
Unfortunately this happened to me and my own Mother. Being sexually or physically attracted to anyone other than your spouse, is cheating. Hope this helps. Throw the whole man away. If he did it once, he’ll do it again.
Def cheating. But he is seeking that out because he isnt getting it in his relationship. I know you arent actively denying him just because. I would definitely talk to a doctor. I dont know your age but could be early menopause, could be, as someone mentioned, a mental thing, could just be something with your libido. Either way, it is important to address that and let him know you are trying to work on it so that you teo can be intimate again. But that if he continues to seek it elsewhere, it isn’t going to work.
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We made a very hard line for what cheating was when we started dating. We consider that cheating.
Yah, not cool and should not be doing that. I dont care if you only have aex once a month, you dont go looking elsewhere by chatting it up with other women and looking at their nude pics.