How to open up to my boyfriend? Our culture is different than yours

Relationships
1

My question about is that we live in another culture not in west, sorry english is not my first language… we are not open to our boyfriend/ husbands openly like you peoples are… my question is that my boyfriend is not long lasting he finishes too early… i cant get pleasure i feel that if i will talk to him about this his ego will hurt and might our relation ends. so i am afraid of it what is the best way to convey this message silently being telling him… need your opinion. we are not old we both under 30

6 Likes
2

Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. How to open up to my boyfriend? Our culture is different than yours - Mamas Uncut

3

Maybe try to get him to keep up with the forplay for longer? Get your rocks off before the big show :wink:
This is what my husband and I have had to do because he has the same issue.

2 Likes
4

I find being on top is the best way as he needs to be on top to finish so i always go first. A different position might keep him going longer.

5

Can you get books, (or a book), on tantrum sex? Maybe open a conversation about learning new ideas?

6

Just whisper “slow down” seriously. Any language can understand that.

7

Be STRAIGHT to the point. HONESTY is key.

8

Dump viagra in his drinks lol

11 Likes
9

He might have low testosterone.

10

Try finishing just him first, then go again for you. He won’t be as sensitive the 2nd time and it will last longer.

1 Like