How would you feel about your partner subscribing to OF?

How does all my ladies feel about your man paying for OF content?

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Doesn’t matter how anyone else feels. It matters how you feel.

It wouldn’t happen. Seriously if you have to deal with a man who needs to do this find a new one

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I would feel disgusted - consider it cheating, and leave them out of my own self respect.

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That’s a hard NOPE for me. Definitely not ok in my books

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I wouldn’t love it. Watch the free stuff online. Paying for it is another level up that I wouldn’t be comfortable with.

Depends on if it was a boundary or not

If that’s the case I’ll send myself a couple hundreds and break up with him :blush:

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My man can pay ME for a show

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I would become single real quick.

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Disrespect in my relationship.

Wouldn’t be around to hear the excuses.

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If they’re hiding it I’d be upset. If ii was discussed before they subscribed I wouldn’t care unless it became too much of a problem

I’d encourage him to enjoy his subscription and all his free time on the site seeing as he’d be single so it’d be none of my concern.

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Everyone is going to feel different depending on what they are comfortable with. You have to answer it for yourself, are you comfortable with him doing that? I personally would not be and that would be enough for me to end a relationship with someone.

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Pretty sure it goes without saying

Everyone’s different but I’d be upset. Paying for it is too much for me not to mention the ability to contact the person and stuff that crosses my line. I’m cool with other corn just not that, personally.

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I consider that cheating imho. Or in the very least disrespectful.

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Personally unless it was hidden from me I wouldn’t care. But every relationship and personal boundaries are different. If you aren’t okay with it then do not accept it.

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How did you find out that they subscribed

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I wouldn’t mind but it depends on your relationship. If porn isn’t in your relationship thats your personal boundary

I’m 100% okay with porn , but not OF that’s someone personally and there options to chat and ask for customer things. And often someone they know, that’s hard no for me. Watch something free if you need to

It’s a no from me he would be gone

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I’d be pissed. Watching porn is one thing but to be paying for it. Nope.

I would only be mad cuz we don’t have money like that.
But every relationship is different

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He’d be single and could enjoy paying for it

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deal breaker 100% that would never fly with me. It wouldn’t even be a discussion

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I think that’s the wrong question, and most women ask it. The question is, does he know if you’re okay with it or not? If he doesn’t bother to ask, or if he knows you’re not, then it is disrespectful to you and your relationship and he is in the wrong. That’s called a boundary.

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If he don’t got money like that then it’s a problem

I’d start my own and share the same kind of content he’s subscribed to :kissing_heart:. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander sweet cheeks :peach:.

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Wouldn’t be my man anymore.

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That would be a no for me

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That would be an instant divorce for me🤷🏻‍♀️

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I don’t think porn is cheating. But if he’s paying money to see potentially someone he knows or you both know that’s a little different in my opinion

Massive no no
It’s personal as you’re paying specifically to see more of an individual person.

I’d be like ‘you wanna see the show or be the show?’ Let’s get earning!

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Depends. If it was hidden, I’d be mad. If he was completely open with me about it and open with me about what he’s doing on there, I’d probably be ok with it

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I’m so sorry you have to deal with this

Shiiit. I used to advertise my exes OF on a t shirt. She never had a problem with me subbing to others as long as I kept it respectful. It’s no different than paying for it anywhere else. It’s up to y’all’s dynamic tho and how comfortable y’all are with each other

Nope wouldn’t put up with it.

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Nope. I’d divorce him real quick. It’s disrespectful AF. Be happy with who you’re with and quit drooling over others. If he ever pays for anything sex related, he’s out the door!

Ya, big no. He should have some respect… and you should to :wink: I would be gone so fast his head would spin.

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To pay for this content I’d be very upset. Because it’s free everywhere else. My guy can look at porn for free I don’t care. We can watch it together. So yes I’m be furious losing our money to this

I personally would be absolutely furious xx

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Watching free porn is one this. But paying for this kinda stuff is weird for someone in a relationship.

So long as the bills are paid and what not idc

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Absolutely NOT.
I’m fine with other material and things on the internet, but never ever that kind of thing. Especially if it’s paid for.

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Paying specifically to have access to one or several persons is a no for me. I’m fine with :corn: (*orn) as long as it’s stated up front. Some people don’t like their bf’s watching it. My bf and me have watched it together but I feel like it should be an enhancement to the relationship or in certain cases like when you don’t have alot of time or just enjoy “self love” it should be more about u then who or what you’re watching.
I personally wouldn’t be okay with my man paying for pics of another girl/guy

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The difference between corn and OF corn is that with OF you can personalize the experience therefore making it more than just a quick guide to assist in blowing some steam. Personally, you should be your husband’s OF and and vice versa. If he’s wanting to buy content, find out why you aren’t his content and work together to make each other your content.

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Its a no for me, not even if i know. We dont have money as it is and if im not enough then get the f out my house. Im not watching it.

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Watch all the :corn: you want. Paying for it is where I’m like :face_with_raised_eyebrow:nope.

Does he likes he’s balls attatched!?

Well if hes subscribed, make one, imagine his disbeleif when he came across your account :rofl:

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He wants me to make it… So I wouldn’t care

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Nope nope and another big NOPE!
Normal corn yeah I wouldn’t have a issue because you can’t actually contact and speak to the cornstar
But OF nopppppppe, if you wanna contact other women for content you’ll be doing it SINGLE!

Just don’t lie about it, and I’m not on a back burner.

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Wouldnt even discuss it with him id be done & grossed out by him​:nauseated_face::nauseated_face:

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You need to address and tell him to shut it down it’s inappropriate! What is the purpose of doing that it’s weird

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I would never pay since there’s too much free chaturbate.com all I need

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I’d be more embarrassed than anything lol. A man that pays for corn ain’t no man of mine :joy: :clown_face:

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Nope. I don’t care if it’s paid for or not. I don’t want to be with somebody who is doing that.

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This is… hmmm. This is how I got my man :rofl: He subscribed to me. He doesn’t pay for OF anymore to anyone. It was a “requirement” for us to be together. I don’t care if he uses hub or whatever (I do too), but if he pays for it, its wrong in a relationship level. But it works for us.

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Sounds like a waste of money to me. Lol

That’s cheating period strictly monogamous over here. Lusting after and especially paying another person is a huge no no.

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Porn no big deal but paying to see a naked broad is stupid to me , I wouldn’t be happy about that.

Everyone is different but that’s a hard NO for me.

If we didn’t need that money I wouldn’t care. My husband is my rock. If he needs a tug and I don’t wanna do it, so what? I’d rather it be in his palm than some other woman :woman_shrugging:t4:

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I would be pissed. We don’t have the money for that. There’s too much free P0rn in the world to be PAYING for it.

My husband would never do that so I don’t have to worry, but if he did I wouldn’t be happy. The man won’t even masturbate without me so. :woman_shrugging:t2:

Paying for things like that, would make me feel he isn’t happy with me. That he’s willing to pay, I wouldn’t be happy

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I would feel like drop kicking him right in the forehead is how I’d feel :joy::joy: it’s just so embarrassing :sob:

Porn is whatever to me, you wanna watch it go ahead, but OF is where I’d draw the line

I would suggest if he’s so interested in that industry, then I guess I need to make up for the money he’s spending and make my own OF…see how that convo goes​:thinking::joy::bowing_woman:

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Dear God, Let This Man Be Taken By The Geese

Eh. Depends on the subscription. As long as it’s not the one on one chats, just basic images or videos, I’m fine with it. And as long as it’s not money we needed for bills lol.

This happens on a regular basis behind a lot of womens backs. As someone who works in the industry it’s disgusting how much people hide from their significant others. :roll_eyes:

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Make your own and see what happens…

Never in my opinion…even porn is very addictive and unhealthy for the mind. Sets unreasonable expectations and once they start getting off to certain things…it wont work/he wont get turned on by you. Ive dealt w it personally. Its extremely toxic.

Absolutely not. Paying other women to see their nudes is a HARD no for me

Oh hell no. As far as I’m concerned, if you feel the need to see other people naked, paying or not, you don’t need me. If you feel the need to be naked for anyone else, you don’t need me. Adios Amigo.

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He wouldn’t be my man anymore.

If he can pay for other girls , guess who is signing up and spend that money on myself?

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I’d sign up for a dating app and show him all the messages that I receive :joy:

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My goofy ass sitting here like wtf is OF???

Show him the free sites where he doesnt have to pay for them hahah #hotleak

I couldn’t… would be so fucking pathetic :rofl::rofl::rofl:

Yeah that’s when someone should be showing the door

The answers gonna be different depending on everyone’s relationship dynamic. I’m the odd one out in these comments. It’s not cheating by any means. I wouldn’t take it as a disrespectful act. I’d have a conversation with him, not the internet warriors.

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Does anyone else’s opinion on this really matter? What are YOUR boundaries?

If my man pays for only fans he needs deliverance from our relationship bc I can’t do a lustful man

I don’t care about my man watching FREE porn but he better not be paying for it. :woman_shrugging:t4:

It’s disgusting and cheating

Absofreakinlutely not. A. Why does he need to pay to see content, he has me ready and willing. :smirk::roll_eyes: B.If he needs additional stimulation (ouch, there goes my ego) then there is free porn. What we are not going to do is waste money when there are alternatives for free content. That’s paying to see a specific individual and nope not okay with that. :woman_shrugging:t4::woman_shrugging:t4::woman_shrugging:t4: But mostly it is C. The fact that he’d have access to contact the person. That would put it in line with infidelity for me. The ability to connect one on one, etc. pushes past visual stimulation which is bad enough, in my opinion, and hinges on cheating. So, absolutely not okay with me.

With all the free p*rn out there, I’d be disappointed if my man PAID for it lol

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If it’s a well known person I don’t think I would care, but dumb chicks that live in our city!? Oh I would have a problem!

I mean just don’t hide it … maybe we can watch together lol. I guess it depends on what exactly is going on on the OF cuz there’s some odd stuff out there

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That’s a no for me! I don’t even like the woman he follows on tiktok and fb!

I feel like he could watch po** hub for free so he better not waste our money…

I’d be ending the relationship :woman_shrugging:t2: regular porn is one thing. Porn where you can interact with the creator and request things? And then you’re paying to see a specific girl naked/getting fucked? Yeah, no.

Id kick his ass to the curb