How would you feel and how would you go about handling if your husband was receiving good morning texts from his BM almost every dang day.?
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He’s definitely entertaining it
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He has to set boundaries with her unless he likes it then you need to set boundaries
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I talk to my ex almost daily, and about things beside our child. However my husband can read the messages whenever, and 99% of the time he’s right there when I’m messaging so he knows that’s going on. It may be something innocent. Talk with him and have an adult conversation.
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Communication is important for both the co co parents and partners should, speak with him let him know how u feel and let him explain himself as far as what exactly is being said.
Depends on the conversation.
Is it the kids texting him?
Cannot break away only if children not involved
Communication is key. If he has nothing to hide it will work out. If it crosses the line then you have an issue to deal with.
Just be mindful of that. I had this happen and it turns out that she still wanted them to get back together. We definitely addressed that issue but I put a stop to all that. She was married at the time.
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He’s obviously feeding into it.
Wouldn’t be my husband much longer
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I talk to my ex and his gf both just to be friendly really and I was friends with his gf before they even got together
If it’s about the child , leave it alone. If it’s anything else ask him why he is entertaining it
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There wouldn’t be none of that if your husband wasn’t entertaining it.
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If they got kids there’s a reason. Both my kids dad’s n I talk almost every other day. Some parents like to check up right in the morning. If it’s just what you say they r saying i think your over reacting. If they start legit flirting n meeting out without you knowing then I’d worry. Now if there’s no kid involved just leave
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He’s obviously entertaining it, because if not, she wouldn’t be texting every day. 
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Now you know why hehere! ex!
There are a lot of people in here that have zero faith in their partner and that’s scary. Have you tried the good fashion way of finding out? … you know asking him why they talk every day? Raising kids and co-parenting means communicating often and it’s good for kids to see their parents that aren’t together being civil and friendly. It teaches them that even though they didn’t work out in a relationship, they can work together where it counts. If the child is struggling with academics, behavior issues, medical issues - that communication between them is even more important. Focus on your communication with him-is he hiding it from you, is he being strange, is he being honest, do you have any reason not to trust him,etc. You don’t need the internet to fill your head what “what-ifs” and creating problems that might not even be there.
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UM I talk to all of my ex and their significant others have no problem with it. Matter of fact one sends me good morning text every morning. You do know people can break up and still be friends after.
Throw the husband away. If she’s continuing, and he hasn’t told you and shut it down, he’s no good.
I text my ex husband’s phone when it involves my children but daily nah and when my youngest son is spending time with me n my husband he texts his father from my phone…each situation is different doesn’t mean she wants her ex …but if no kids are involved that’s a problem…me n my ex husbands current wife talk from time to time.to each their own
Um i’m not understanding what the problem is… i text my kids dad almost every day and no i don’t want him… we have a child we raise together and there of things to talk about 
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Depends, if it’s concerning his child, I’d have to be understanding and tolerant. I’d certainly lose respect if he’s not tending to his child.
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You need to investigate that. There is nothing they should be talking about unless it is about their child.
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A good morning text or just a text regarding kids or something
If they have children I’d understand HOWEVER, it shouldn’t be about anything besides their kid.
Is it the mum or the kids? We call or text my sons dad every morning on the way to school because that’s what my son wants, it’s about him, not us. He doesn’t have another partner but even if he did it would be the same. Nothing inappropriate, we have a child together, there’s always going to be an ongoing relationship. Talk to your partner, ask him.
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Could be innocent if he has a child/ren with her. It may well be them txting dad. Ask him
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Sorry but unless it was about the child I wouldn’t be putting up with it,there’s no reason for the ex to text every morning yes it’s good both parents can co parent good but really this sounds like it’s not completely over or she is hoping to get back together
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The only context she gave was “he’s saying good morning to his baby momma”. She
Over the kids? No issue. While being friends with your ex is unusual, it’s not unheard-of. Find out why she’s always reaching out and have a conversation with your hubby. YOU are is focus and center, not her anymore. Do some digging and have a heart to heart talk.
yea no shut that down fast
If he’s allowing it he still wants her in some point of mind
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Well she’s dead so I’d be creeped out lol
If hes feeding into it is the problem and could it be a child since i read baby mama. Because he has children with this woman i would frown upon blocking her so further investigation is needed to ask yourself if its worth a relationship to continue. All conversations with her should strickly be about the child in some way and if a child is texting him with moms phone? But definately his reaction to these texts are key. More info needed.b
A good morning text is a big fucking Nope. There’s no reason mama needs to text good morning just because she’s the mom 
. And he’s 100 percent in the wrong for not telling her it’s inappropriate.
nope! wouldn’t deal w that!
and if she’s doing that, chances are he’s welcoming it.
I can understand stand it if they have kids together
How do you know its the ex
Could possibly his kid
Messaging him
If she’s texting every single day, he’s answering. No one continues to text daily with no answers.
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Do they have kids together? If it’s about the kids then ok but just to randomly say hi is odd. If they don’t have kids why doesn’t he just block her? Or even if they do have kids does he respond to these texts? What does he say about them?
Oh no if i rit how i felt id be barred from fb send him bk to her
Pist at both her should of stop this
Sounds like YOU need to block her. She’s an EX for a reason. OR he could have another EX soon.
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My ex and I make better friends and we randomly send eachother stupid stuff but I know I wouldn’t feel comfortable ever texting him good morning texts and I definitely wouldn’t like it if he was sending them to me every day either. Unless it is a daily “good morning, the kids have this going on today” text, I would definitely tell him it makes you uncomfortable
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There is NO reason exes should talk to each other UNLESS it’s about their kid and only about their kid. Good morning / night texts/calls are never needed. Just say “hey so and so wanted to know if he can come over” or “hey so and so is sick” or etc. If it’s about the kid, cool. If not, tell him to stop or you’ll leave. Borderline cheating if he isn’t already.
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This page has probably broke up more relationships than help them… stop looking for answers on the internet about what is going on in your household…if you can’t talk to him about it and find out the reason why , you are also the problem.
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Its all about the child, you do not want to be the one to drive a wedge in the communications with what would be perceived as insecurities, clearly they “didnt work” as a couple but are trying to as co-parents, if you get insecure about that you risk landing in that “didnt work” column yourself
Is this really a question?? No not at all is this acceptable! Other than kids no communication at all. If he’s tolerating it get rid of him.
I have 2 kids with my ex and 2 with my husband.
My ex and I talk every day about our children. Pretty normal I’d say.
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Texting him daily about his kids would be one thing. Good morning texts are personal. I would be upset!!
I would want to know why he allows it, and I would want to know why she thinks it’s okay?
I personally would say something to them both if my husband didn’t handle it after mentioning it to him.
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I would feel a certain way. Why is she texting him at all?
Why is she only problem , he is the problem to for allowing it!!!
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Wouldn’t happen in my house
Did this start recently or has it always been this way? What does your husband say about it? Did you find out by going through his texts or does he try to hide it? Without these answers I cannot give an honest opinion.
Put a stop to that quick smart
If they have children together abd they have a great relationship then nothing wrong with it why don’t you get to know her etc its important for the mum and dad ro Co parent and have a friendship etc and if that means they stay in contact quiet alot then so be in remember she kids mother she will always be around and is part of the family…
My husband’s ex used to call him shit faced at 2am…lol
My baby daddy and I are best friends. Haven’t been together for 7 almost 8 years. And we talk shit back and forth daily. Honestly it depends on the person you’re with, whether they’re insecure or not. Or whether they’re okay with the coparenting system. Most people these days don’t like when you coparent well, because why? It’s not normal? It’s what’s best for the kiddo. I’d rather my child grow up in a healthy, loving home, between 2 homes, vs growing up knowing both parents hate each other. That’s when adults need to be adults and know what’s best for the kids. It’s not THEIR fault things didn’t work out. People need to stop being so insecure. Show the children what a healthy relationship is and not a toxic one. They grow up seeing the toxic, then they think it’s okay.