I asked my husband if he was 100% sure about his vasectomy we have scheduled, his response was “unless you plan on leaving me, I would go for someone younger and if they wanted a baby I’d have one” I was honestly shocked by this response so I asked a question that I can’t remember anymore and he restated “she would be younger”
I got upset and he back tracked saying it was a joke and now hes pissed at me for being upset. Saying he said it was a joke and I’m crazy.