You know if your that scared you CAN have an abortion? There is no shame in it.
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Stop getting pregnant if you’re not married lol. 
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We have 8 kids. It’s only hard if you make it hard.
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Admin. These nasty comments need to be deleted. ASAP. Those users should be ashamed of themselves.
It might not be the appropriate page to post her question but people still need to have some common decency.
You could choose to be the hero for one of the thousands upon thousands of infertile couples who are praying & waiting for a child to love. #adoption
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Unfollowing…I thouggt this waa a nail page 
did u use birth control?
Well should of use birth control !! It’s going to be hard but God makes a way always at least you keep the baby. There’s always adoption or finding someone who will give that baby a home a great loving family. You will be fine get you’re tube’s tied after this then np ever again.
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Yes it is hard…it will always be hard…adapt and conquer…and this is coming from a woman in ur shoes…I now have 3 beautiful children and my 2 oldest have special needs and I am the most single mother ever there’s like no coparenting at all and ohhh yeah some days are gonna be a little rougher and tougher than others. But in the end and at the end of the day you can tel yourself I DID THAT! I’M DOING THIS! I GOT THIS! and there is no greater feeling than that I reassure u!!! And what confirms it is seeing your children happy. When your children are happy with full tummies clean clothes and a nice warm bed you WILL know you are doing something right! YOU GOT THIS
Yea I’m off this page. Scroll through it and I can’t find nails like anywhere. Yall stay on the literal advertisement page if you want 
Do u have any help/support from the new baby’s father or maybe his family?? (That would be a huge help and hopefully u get it)
It may be hard at times. Probably the kids will help a little…but will be oh so,worth it. Don’t be afraid to ask for help…family/ friends/ local churches.
Omg…in this day and age, I guess you were not thinking of consequences.
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Find a birth control that is reliable and follow Diane Mathiew’s suggestions.
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There is something like a BIRTH CONTROL ON the market, maybe you should try them sometime.
Any time you bring another child into a home it will be an adjustment. Make sure to give the other kids one on one time with you still so they still feel loved by you.
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Do the best you can ;”) nobody is a 100% perfect parent so don’t worry n feel guilty!! Just love them n take care of as best as possible;”) hunny we’ve had ham sandwiches for Holiday meal n watched movies on t v , played games n it was great ! Other times enjoyed little more had more, 31…21 kids are n grandkids we still have good n great times!!
Going from 2 to 3 I found the third one just fitting in, obviously it’s gonna be an adjustment to the other children everyone has to get use to a new one in the home… Also single mum I have 5 kids, u can do this never underestimate yourself I’m not saying it’s easy but U can do it…
Kinda late to worry lol 
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Should have thought of that beforehand???
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I’ve got a Question I been taken away by aliens and I think iam pregnant as my bowels have grown and it moves 
Your best bet to talk about this stuff is in a mommy page they’re all super supportive there. I’m in a couple
My mom was a single woman, who worked hard to provide for us after our father died; she met a guy who she thought was going to be a good man. Unfortunately he was a huge liar, and my mom was pregnant with our brother. We saw her for who she was, the toughest woman who is a hero of mine, and we helped her raise our brother because that was our family. We were raised by a wonderful woman, who taught us to be strong, work hard, and the value of family, and now we show our children the same.
You got this. I’m a day late, but happy Mother’s Day.
Keep your legs closed
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Being a parent is always hard and having more children always changes the relationships with current children .
If you want the baby then you’ll always find a way of making it work 
you’ll find a new routine that works for you all as your family grows and as they all grow your relationship will change anyway as will your routine so what’s best for you and your little ones and good luck x
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It’s called BIRTH CONTROL learn how to use it!
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None of my kids were planned I gave birth to 3 and have a step son so I have 4 kids total, you will have days where you want to pull your hair out and you will cry but it will all be worth it. As long as you love your children everything else will fall into place. I was a single mom raising two kids and then got back together with my daughters father added a step son and then just two shorts months of being back together got pregnant for our youngest. It’s hard whether there is two parents in the picture or not. Just have faith in yourself and know that having a bad day is okay. It’s okay to cry it’s okay to feel like you have lost your mind. The important thing is that that you know your children love you!!!
Moms have been working it out for thousands and d years. Their is no shame in asking for the help that you need.
That said, adoption can be an option. Lots of good loving couples can’t have children of their own and would be excellent parents for yours. You can tell your children that you love them so much that you decided to share that love with people who can’t have kids.
As for your family, whatever you decide tell them you have to do what’s best for you & your children. If they can’t be supportive then keep their opinions to themselves. Good luck.
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Good grief people!! NO birth control method is 100%. Quit being so judgmental. If you don’t Jane something constructive to say just keep scrolling.
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Should keep your legs closed … You end up preggers… It’s YOUR job as a mother, to take care of that child and introduce them to your other children. They will adapt. He/she didn’t ask to be brought into this world. It was your negligence. If you decide to put him/her up for adoption… Be expecting a knock at your door, years on down the road, asking “why”. If you choose to abort… That choice will follow you to the grave.
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First off, regardless as to how you got here, you are. No one has any right to criticize the situation. The only advice you need right now is to stay calm. Be the mother you want for those babies and ignore the negative. Smile often, but don’t be afraid to ask for help.
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Ask Biden for more cash, free health care, free child care, free college tuition you shdn worry ta dummcrats are gonna take care of u
It will be hard but you have raised 2 children already! You’ve got this n don’t worry what judgemental people say xx
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Having 2 as a single parent is hard enough. Adoption is an option.
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For all of you Judgement Judys, she NEVER asked how to NOT get pregnant. If you’re not answering the question at hand, why bother commenting at all???
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I am a Single Mother of 4. No its not easy and yes its a lot of work. But as a Mother you just adjust and make things work. But seeming as you are already pregnant you can’t turn back time. If I were you I wouldn’t read what all these hateful people have to say because the last thing you need is that kind of negativity in your life right now. Enjoy the time with the two you have now and take care of yourself and that baby. No one knows your whole story and you don’t owe it to anyone to explain.
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Ummmm, birth control ?
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You have options. Considering your situation, you have two choices: keep it and hope you can support 3 kids on your own or make an appt.
All u a@@ hats saying birth control or adoption… how dare u??? Did it ever occur to any of u that maybe she told the baby daddy she was pregnant and he said fk off ?? It’s pretty common for men to not want the responsibility of raising a child!! Seriously!!
First of all congratulations and second of all I’m proud of you and you got this dont allow Nyone to put you down you made it with your first and second you will do great with your third stay positive and keep your head up everything will be great for god bless you and yours
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You’ll be just fine!! You got this!! 
It will be tough, but reach out for help and get a good support system… DO NOT listen to these negative people!! They have issues within themselves to be so cruel. I’m a single mom of three. Yes it was rough. Yes I was scared. But guess what?? I did an amazing job!! Of course I made mistakes, cuz that’s life!! You will get through this! Take in one day at a time!! 
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I’ve been on birth control since i was 17. Im 28 now & still no kids!
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So many judgemental people on here. She sounds like she needs a friend not people throwing dirt at her. I think youll be fine. One extra kid will not be that bad. Youll have to make sure you get it all together n do what you gotta do to take care of you n the babies but the babies give us all the strength and motivation we need. A mothers love is endless n can move mountains. Praying for you!
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You will adapt and no it won’t change your relationship with your other kids. You love them all.
I’m not getting into any of this but if you expose things like this your exposing yourself to trolls and bullying.
I would hope you laid with a man that is willing to do his part even if y’all can’t live together or make it work in a relationship he should still take part to help you and at the same time you should give him the chance to do the right thing and not hold the child hostage as a bargaining chip over his head
Doesn’t matter if u have 1 child or 6 its always hard but in 20 years you’ll never look back and regret havinh your children. I have 3 kids as well. 7, 2 and 8 months. Its tiring but then when u see them all playing and giving each other kisses its all worth it
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Good lord people… I was a single mom of two boys - BECAUSE MY HUSBAND WAS KILKED IN A CAR ACCIDENT!! Have a little compassion for Fuck sakes
It’s amazing what our will to survive can do. You will be just fine like you were with yourself other two. You totally got this but it will be a life changer
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I’ve heard the hardest transition is 1 to 2 but 2 to 3 isn’t that bad. Hope this helps 
congrats on your third miracle 
rock out single mamma
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If your asking strangers, you already know…
Stimulus check times 3 plus the child credit, food stamps, WIC, housing, Medicaid, have another one and get more money
So birth control doesn’t always work. I have a 1 year old that I conceived while on bc. Also you can Google it. A lady gave birth and her child was holding her iud.
But any who… you’ll do great. And your other kids will do great. And reach out to anyone u trust for help if need be. No shame in asking for help. You got this!!!
Mmmmmmmm, have you heard of birth control?
Really cruel comments to someone just asking advice. I’m out of here as so far out
If you already have 2 you are good. I have 5 all together. I was a single mom at 19 then I met my husband about 5 years later I had 3 more in 5 years and he was stationed overseas all of their little kids lives. So I raised them all by myself then I had my last one still to him about a year and a half ago
Everything will be ok! Do what YOU feel is best for u and ur kids. I was in the same boat, even took morning after, still had the baby alone, still single parent. Hardest things I’ve ever chose to do, but our family wouldn’t be the same without her. Even though it’s hard to see things for what they might be in the future, know God has a plan and a purpose, even in heart ache, even when it feels like nothing is going right! It won’t be easy, Ull question why did I choose this, it’s unfair. But most days ur heart will be filled with so much joy & love the hard ones will make u feel like super woman!!
Oan: I totally support your right to choose that it might not be best for ur situation for ur life, I’m not in ur shoes & my story is not the same.
I Raised 1 son after my marriage split up he was 7. He was 21 in Nov. No financial emotional or Physical help frm my Ex altho I still seen to the Contact btween him n our Son was always kept…I know how Difficult it is raising 1 child on ur own . So I Tip my hat to U Raising 2…But ur only human …3 kids Is A helluva Handful even for Couples together …
It will be difficult but as long as you teach your children to have a strong connection to each other and you you will all be able to keep each other up lifted through the tough times keep the love strong and it’ll be ok
If you do what you always do…you will get what you always got. Wise up
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You choose that life you have options but that is entirely up to you
Another child will be a blessing, always remember their is adoption. Praying for you.
Take responsibility… There is a lot of birth control…
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I had my 3rd pregnancy in 2018 and I split with the dad when I has around 12 weeks.
Going through pregnancy alone was brutal and I would not want to do it again. Yes I had my gorgeous baby at the end but I was just so sad all the time especially appointments where I’d see happy couple.
On the flipside doing it alone was 100% better than being with the dad but boy oh boy was it hard!!
I was a single mom of 3 and then 4 before I met my now fiance. I was scared too. It did not hurt my relationship with my kids. Focus on creating a support system and who will help with your 2 children while you give birth. You’ll do fine!
You might be surprised at how much your children will be a help.Let them snuggle and bond with baby. Let them hold the bottle.Talk to them about being a family. I hope you have support through it all.You are a strong, capable woman.
Its always scary at first cause you dont know how you’ll do it. Then it happens and without even relaizing it, you start doing it. And before you know it, it’ll just be normal. I just had my 3rd baby 5 months ago. Im still trying to master it but we get through everyday, even the days where it seems like there’s no end in sight.
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I always say a child is a blessing. Most kids come when we least expect and when we aren’t ready but they are a blessing. Look at it this way, you already have 2 and rocking it so 3 isnt so much more than 2 . You’ll do great.
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Include the others as much as they want. Being a mom isn’t easy but oh so worth it. Just love them and be there for them. You will be ok.
It will depend on the ages of the other 2. Parenting isn’t easy and single parenting is definitely not easy but it can be done. You will love your children equally, you don’t love the others less when you have a new child. Only you can decide what is best for you and your circumstances while it can be a shock to find out it is also a blessing! I wasn’t expecting my last child and I realized after I’d come to terms with the pregnancy it wasn’t my plan but Gods. I couldn’t imagine my life without my children. This is a choice honestly only you can make as you have to live with the decision you make no one else.
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There’s always adoption and abortion if you don’t wanna have the baby. Don’t feel forced into keeping it if you can’t handle it m
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I can honestly say its hard being a parent in a couple or a single parent. I was a single parent to 2 until I met my partner, now I have a 3rd and am with him, sometimes I think how much easier it would be if I was on my own, no arguing over parenting styles, or over how we think money should be spent, what schools to apply for etc. Having a 3rd baby has been the hardest thing I’ve been through but I can honestly say I wouldn’t change it for the world. Its hard but they are so worth it. Don’t give a though over negative comments those people in “perfect” relationships make. This is your baby, you deserve it as much as anyone else couple or single, yes it’s going to be hard but you won’t regret one minute if it
I was in the same position as you. My 3rd was born with my best friend as my coach. It was hard. But that baby was the happiest baby that I have ever seen. (He’s a pretty awesome 11 year old now.) He brings us all so much joy! And when he was 1, I started dating the guy who I ended up having more children with and marrying, and still makes me happy 10 years later! There is a whole future ahead for you! The hard parts of life are part of it.
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Maybe this baby wasn’t in your plans , but it was in God’s. I’ve been in your shoes. So many emotions but stay strong and believe in YOU!
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I found going from 2 to 3 was easier than going from 1 to 2. U got this momma. And if u feel u can’t ALWAYS consider adoption
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We preach team work in our house.
It’s really helped to create a stronger bond for all of us.
You can do this!
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Single mama of 3 here. My youngest turned one this past Saturday. I had an IUD, and still got pregnant. I found out by going into have surgery and they come to tell me I’m 9 weeks pregnant and have to postpone the surgery. I was overwhelmed. Scared. Afraid that my other two would become jealous. Especially my middle son, he’s attached to my butt cheek at any given time, I was worried how he would handle it (he’s almost 4, was 2 when the baby was born) but honestly, we have our days where they’re wired, I’m exhausted and the most I can handle is making sure we eat and stay alive lol, but it’s been an easier transition than I thought it would be. My oldest is 7, so I had her and her brother be involved in picking stuff out for the baby, once he was born and came home from the NICU, I found ways to make them involved so they didn’t feel left out. They now see that he cannot so much for himself so it’s mommy’s job to take care of him, and I explained how I did the exact same when they were born. They are absolutely in love with the baby, and I couldn’t imagine it going any other way. I think wether we have 1 kid, or 2, or 5, the worry that you have will still be there. That’s just the mama in us needing reassurance that it’s all going to be okay. god doesn’t give us more than we can handle. Sometimes it feels like we can’t handle much more but we still push through and do it every day. I work full time, because I don’t get help from their dad in any way. It takes a village to raise kiddos, find your little village and support, and it’ll all be okay mama.
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It will be hard. But only you know if something you’ll be able to handle
It’s not going to be easy
Hard? Is it not hard with 2 already? If you managed 2 you will managex3.
You will be fine. I went from 1-3 within 14 months, and then my ex husband and I split when I was pregnant with baby number four.
You got this, I promise
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That happened to me except I went from 2 kids to 4 kids because baby number “three” was actually babies 3 & 4. (Twins! 
) It is hard but it’s worth it! As far as your kids, there will be changes but not all bad… I dealt with a little jealousy at first from my older kids but now that it’s been a couple of years, they love having toddler siblings to play with! I hope you have a healthy pregnancy & good luck!!
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I did it!!! It’s dumb…you already know that but it is what it is and you can do it!! A baby is a bundle of joy. Hard at times but totally worth it… I looked into adoption. I’m thankful I kept him… We have a blast and we are such a great team. You got this doll
I enjoy being a single parent to two kids actually.
You don’t say how old your other kids are. Have you spoken to them? Wouldn’t that be a place to start?
No different to having 2. Comes down to routine