I am so annoyed at my sister in law, she was supposed to come over two hours ago and still hasn’t come she keeps telling my husband she will be here in 5 mins mind you we are neighbors. And i passed plans with my father today so she can come over and we are still waiting when i still have a lot to do like food shopping and im dealing with a cranky four year old asking for her aunt. I am so annoyed and my husband doesn’t say anything to her
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For goodness sake, stop waiting for her and continue with your day and responsibilities!
Or … and i know this advice might be a bit scary but you could always fucking walk over to her place since its literally next door.
Is the question in the room with us?
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Leave the child with your husband and go on with your errands 
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Then go do your grocery shopping and leave your child with your husband and he can deal with his sister when she gets there. Stop making it a big deal. is it frustrating she’s taking forever yes but is it something to be this mad about no it isn’t.
Go do your shopping and you’ll see her when you get there if she shows up. And if you have her number then text her and say hey I have things to do and I would like to if you’re still coming over because if not please let me know asap.
Just cause it’s your husband sister doesn’t mean you can’t say something to her. You’re an adult and can tell her yourself
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Go do your shopping and if she calls to see where you are tell her you’ll be there in 5 minutes and go back much later
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Well you sound delightful
Go do what you have to do. don’t wait on people. 15 mins maybe. But 2 hrs. You are putting yourself out now
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I’d go and do what you have to do and tell her never mind and that next time if she doesn’t plan on being on time to tell you cause you passed up other plans today.
Why do you have to be there ?
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I’m assuming you have a voice of your own? Use it. 
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Don’t wait on nobody! Go do what you need to do and if you’re available when she is then so be it and if not then move on. Plans change and if you choose to sit and wait then that’s on you. To prevent child from expecting her to visit I would suggest not telling the child she’s coming and get their hopes up incase it doesn’t happen. If child asks just say they’ll see their aunt whenever she is available to visit. Leave the child with her father while you run errands incase she pops in while your out. It seems there’s a few solutions here or more to the story. Pick and choose your battles.
Your sister sounds like my son. He says he’s coming over at 2. Hell probably be over around 5. The whole time texting me “give me 5 minutes”. Some people just can’t tell time.
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Does she have ADHD? Might be something to have checked.
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Why are y’all waiting for her? I would wait max an hour and then I would be on my way to do what I needed to do and that would be the last time I invited her over.
You should of just left😄
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I would of left an hour and 45 min ago
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Just go and do what you need to do. Your life can’t stop just bc she isn’t managing her time well. And just don’t tell the kiddo let it be a surprise when she does bother to show up and not a let down when she doesn’t.