am literally so bored of my life. I have no friends, single mom, I hang out with NO ONE, my bf is nonexistent at this point. I literally feel so alone 99% of the time and wonder what is the point. I am so overwhelmed being a single mom like idk what else to do.
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How can you be bored and nothing to do but overwhelmed?
How can you be a single mom with a boyfriend? Maybe he heard you calling yourself single and decided to make you single.
To relieve boredom be a mom. Spend time with your kids, cook real meals for them, play games, spend quality time, etc etc. Or, tackle the list of what you say overwhelms you.
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Find some other moms and schedule some play dates. Find some clubs that you can join. Our library is always doing activities with the kids where you can go and meet other adults. You have to put yourself out there.
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So get rid of him. If he isn’t bringing you happiness, why do you want to keep that around?
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I have the same life but I absolutely love it and thoroughly enjoy it.
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Are you possibly developing depression? Sometimes we get in such a rut, we feel nothing can help. Go to one activity where your kids can be entertained & you can meet other moms. Libraries are good. Perhaps find a church to attend. You’ll meet many other SAHM
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Get screened for depression. Call the 988 number (mental health hotline) if you are in the U.S. Get outside and go for walks with your baby in a wearable pack or stroller. Do fun physical activity like putting on music and dancing with your baby.
Join something where you will meet people. Playgrounds, parks, libraries, religious institutions, swimming pools are all great places with parent-child friendly activities. Your local hospital may offer parenting programs or activities.
Look for online neighborhood groups and reach out to meet folks that sound compatible in real life. Meet your neighbors. Knock on the doors of those who seem nice (regardless of age), introduce yourself and offer cookies. Is there a local Parents Without Partners group near you?
Go to community events—free concerts, parades, meetings, dedications, etc. to meet others in your neighborhood. Chat up people in the grocery store, drug store, wherever.
Good luck! It’s gotten harder to meet people what with us interacting with screens more and more, but maybe a neighborhood groups like Nextdoor would give you some possibilities.
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There’s lots to do.Go out to walks,play games with your kids ,do some DIY projects so much more stuff
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Learn how to be your own best friend and enjoy your own company
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