have a 1 yr old and I’m kicking my sons father out. He’s Cheated numerous timestimes. He supports us financially. My 1 yr old Doesnt sleep Still and i have No family here to help me. I am about to struggle with my kids alone paying outrageous bills alone. I know i can do this! But I’m considering letting him stay here so I can survive until I can make it on my own…has anyone done this and did it work?
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Maybe. Does he help with the kids? Have other redeeming qualities? Would you trust him with shared custody? Is he likely to be violent or vindictive? What sort of jobs could you do? Could you move back with or near family?
Don’t say anything to him while you plan, plan, plan. Get reports/paperwork on all assets so he can’t drain your accounts. Talk to a lawyer and figure out what’s possible with finances, housing, etc.
Would you be eligible for housing subsidies, food stamps, Medicaid? Can you grow your “village” of helpful friends in the absence of family? A women’s center might have helpful information for you also.
And look online and ask your pediatrician and librarian for techniques to get your baby to sleep longer.
Get tested for STDs. Good luck and I’m sorry.
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