Okay moms please give me your advice on some thing I am trying to tell my friend that the girl he is hooking up with is acting weird First off she comes over to do laundry at his house and then accidentally leaves two bras underwear two pairs of booty shorts which was weird but Ok also her cups and is writing her name on things in his house…. Is it just me or is this werid? They have only hung out a couple times…….
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she marking her territory in case there’s another woman in the picture… trying to sly eliminate the competition. He isn’t going to listen to your advice anyhow if he’s getting what he wants. Yes, it’s “too much” but……
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Marking her territory lol
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Is it any different than a guy marking his territory? If she was a girl he didn’t want seeing anyone else wouldn’t he do the same thing?
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Sounds to me like you have a crush on your friend and you are jealous
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It’s really none of your business. Most men don’t listen to women anyway. Leave it alone. Makes it sound like you’re jealous.
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That’s kinda your friends business. If he doesn’t have a problem with her, leaving belongings there than it’s perfectly fine
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I mean this isn’t psycho behavior, normal girl stuff
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She is marking her territory … very common. It’s so he is reminded of her when she isn’t there. My advise is stay out of his love life if you want to remain friends he will pick up on the tension between you and he will always choose her over you since you don’t like him romanticly
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Mind your business! You sound jealous!
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She’s actually marking her territory aka your friends house. She wants it well known that it is her man and if any other females go over there they’ll know.
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She’s definitely letting it be known by any other female that enter his house (probably you lol) that he’s seeing someone. They know eachother well enough to hook up and do laundry so no I don’t think it’s weird, if he didn’t like it he’d tell her.
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Yeah, that’s creepy as h*ll, if they had only hung out a couple times…if that was a guy, that would scare me to death…
… even if they had actually gone on an actual date twice… yeah he needs to run…
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You sure you don’t wanna root your mate?
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And it’s your problem why?
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So you are wanting to date this friend then? That’s the only explanation for this behavior from you🤣
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Yeah it sounds weird to me but if he has no issues with it, let it go. He’s a big boy.
One word, jealousy. It’s not about you and who he’s dating or hooking up with. That’s your friend and you leave him alone. That’s if you still wanna be friends. Perfectly OK for her to let it know that’s her man and if any other females interfere, she will take action.
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Dont you remember being young and in love…you over thinking
Definitely weird. He’s going to come home one day to a boiling bunny on his stove. lol
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Why do you care? You need to mind your business you sound like you jealous and hating. Not like she buried a cat in his kitchen.
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Depends on the situation:
If your friend is okay with it let it be just tell him in a joking way ‘wow she is marking you as hers’ and have a conversation after that. With the usual questions:
. Are you dating
. Is it for fun’s
Depending on the type of friendship you have.
If he is concerned, upset or doesn’t know how to bring the subject up to her then, talk to him about it in that way.
But, let him be. He can make his choice and if he didn’t like it by now he should have told her.
I think you should ask yourself why you’re so bothered?
She’s definitely trying to “mark her territory”. Let him know the mind of a woman and let him decide if he’s going to roll with it.
It’s not weird. It’s the process of starting a relationship
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Ya she’s likely letting YOU know that it’s her territory. You sound jealous of her. It’s not weird, it’s actually quite common. Humans do it, animals do it…just in different ways.
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When my husband and I were first dating, I would leave my hair in his car, like the hairs that fall off and get stuck on your shirt lol. Now my hair is literally on everything of his, we don’t wash our clothes together but I find lots of my hair stuck to his shirts. His way of marking his territory is farting 
. If she’s doing all that at his house then obviously she really likes him and wants any other females who might come over to know that he’s already giving his time and attention to her. We leave things around our man’s house and car so if he secretly has another girl or girls come around that don’t know about her then they will find their stuff and at least become suspicious of him.
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Reason #1 She is staking her claim…reason #2 if he dumps her this gives her a excuse to come over again