I suspect you won’t break it off, despite the advice given here. You will be hoping it’s a one off amd he’ll apologise amd say it will never happen again. But deep down, you don’t need to ask for advice, you already know what you should do. I hope everything works out for you
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Possibly an early red flag on his actions. I would think long and hard about what you feel, what you think and what you want with this new information. Take your time.
Following…call it off…shows he likes younger girls, prolly not his first time doing this
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Call off the wedding. He probably does this when you’re not around.
A drunk man is a sober man talking, you know what you gotta do, you’re maybe just here to confirm it. This is not “in a committed relationship” behaviour 
just my opinion. Wishing you well!
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I wldnt marry him he’s a future divorce
I would call it off. He violated her space and clearly made her uncomfortable not to mention he disrespected you & yalls relationship. Being intoxicated is not an excuse. At 28 he should know how to respect his limits
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You need to leave now. I’m sure he will be very sorry with all kind of excuses. You question his behavior and you saw it with your own eyes. Time to leave!!!
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My ex husband had some red flags similar to this that I ignored before we married. It did t get better it only got worse. He was overly flirty with other women and some people though we must have an open marriage. We did not! He also was an alcoholic but would never admit he had a problem. That only fueled his behavior. I would call it off. It won’t get better. I’m sorry this has happened to you.
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Definitely do not marry this man. There are some underlying issues at play.
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That’s a red flag if I’ve ever heard one. He did that literally in your face. It would make me wonder what he’s done behind your back.
Call it off. I was with a guy like that and always brushed it off. He ended up cheating for years without me knowing. Not worth it!!!
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If he shows that much disrespect now it will only get worse after the I does
I’d 100% call it off. When someone shows you who they are, believe them. 
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This will happen again. Don’t let it slide.
Drop him like a hot brick/! Or that will be your life!!!
If he did that in front of u imagine what he’s done behind your back!
Yeah. If this is what he does infant of you with a bit of alcohol yo lower his inhibitions imagine what he does without you and with the alcohol
Way not cool. Big red flag! Put an end to it before it’s too late
If he can’t handle the alcohol, then he shouldn’t be drinking. PERIOD!!!
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If that happened on your first date would there have been a second date?
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Done deal. No doubt. No questions asked. 
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If he’ll do this in front of you…it makes you wonder what he does when you are not around???
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obviously doesn’t know his limits.
Call it off when already showing cheating signs
umm if you seeing it now and you guys are engaged i would call it off because he gets a chance he will go further no matter who its with. If he had the gall to do it in front of you and others then he does not give two craps about how it makes you feel. its all about him… If it was me i would tell him hasta la vista baby.
HUGE red flag and he’s already doing stuff like that. Not to mention how inappropriate it is
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Call off, totally disrespectful
Kindof a red flag?? Whether he was drinking or not, he should of had more respect for you than that. I’d call it off now. Save having to pay for a divorce later.
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Get rid of him now. If he does this in front of your face, God only knows what he will do behind your back.
He’s a heater call it of now
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He’s gonna cheat if he hasn’t already.
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He sounds like he still has some growing up to do. Def call it off.
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Ouch. Yeah… there would definitely need to be a hard talk before I chose to continue the relationship. For 1 simple reason he is an engaged man! There’s no reason he should be all up on another women especially in my presence and after I’ve asked him to chill out.
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True colours can be shown a lot easier when a person is intoxicated
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Huge huge red flag. I’d absolutely call it off.
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oh wow. go with your gut feelings. they are always right
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Yep I’d at least postpone if not call off all together! Imagine what he does when you’re not present if this is how he acts in your presence! Complete disrespect and inexcusable
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Run! People are 100% their true self when they are drunk!
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It’s a sign,telling you what his like
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Yes, that’s a red flag. Thank goodness she wasn’t alone with him. And that was proof in front of your eyes he will mess around on you. Find someone else.
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Get rid of him. And the alcohol.
Woah, something similar happened to me while I was engaged to my now x husband. Please trust yourself and avoid all the heartattack you are about to embark on! Sorry momma
if you can’t figure this out for yourself…I’m sorry that is sad, You do what you feel is right. No one can tell you 
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Call it off now. No matter how much he begs it will happen again and again!
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If he was comfortable enough to do that in front of you, I’d question what he’d do when you’re not around?
I’m a guy and I can see that’s a red flag. Just imagine what he’s like when you aren’t around.
Ewww how tasteless!!! Leave!
You deserve love and respect! He ain’t got either going on. Kick him to the curb and raise your son to be respectful and loving to his partner.
Your soon ex will loose interest in both of you. It won’t get better by wishing it will.
Call of wedding and end relationship.
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Im so sry you had to go trough that, but its better to call it off cuz that means he doesnt love you completly when he is drunk but good thing that you knew before making that big step, i cant imagine how you feel and its exactly why you deserve better!! Good luck sweetie and allthe best cuz u sure know whats the right thing to be done! 
curios what he had to say for himself the next day?
Listen to your inner voice it speaks truth every time.
That is beyond a red flag… that is like very concerning for any young woman that enters your life for any reason
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Yeahhhh, this is weird. Call it off.
Walking away now is so much more less complicated than a divorce later.
Sounds like you already know
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In my opinion, if he’s doing that in front of you, what’s he doing behind your back.
Girl, that red flag ain’t just waving, it comes with a loud ass battle cry saying…get the EF out while you can! Run for the hills. If he acted like that in FRONT of you I would hate to know what he does behind your back.
That is very uncalled for so but he should of never actted that way drunk or not, I think I would be having a long talk with him then if he doesn’t apologize to her I think I’d leave him!
Um yep he’s a cheater,just think what he would have done if u weren’t there. BIG RED flag cheater cheater
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A huge red flag. ! If he does this now what will he do after your married ? This will only get worse. Call of the wedding now. Because he is a guy that is prone to running around on you.
He is obviously a sleaze with a drink… boot him out and buy a chihuahua they are loyal to the core
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No excuse for his behavior
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Literally something similar happened and I didn’t trust my instincts. Call it off. Save your self a $5k divorce and possible shared custody of children.
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Yep call it off. That was wildly inappropriate, drunk or not.
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Call it off and RUN , if you let him get away with it. He keep on
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Yeah I would to that’s so inappropriate of him
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I’d definitely call off wedding. He showed his true colors
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Then call it off 
This is boy not a man.
Do not marry him and MOVE ON asap. Save yourself.
Talk to him about it. From there you will know what to do
Call it off. Do you want to worry about him and other women? He was disrespectful and disgusting. You can do better!
Call it off. Good to know now rather than after the wedding
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That red is being thrown at you. RUN before you’re tied to him legally. If he’s doing this in front of you then he’s likely doing worse when you’re not around. If he tries to use drinking as an excuse, don’t buy it. He’s shown his true colors.
Definitely reconsider marrying this guy.
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HUGE red flag. She’s barely legal …call it off
He can’t respect you when ur around… I can’t only imagine what he does/going to do when ur not around.
listen to your instincts. It also depends if this has happened before while intoxicated (I’m assuming he was). When drinking does he always get loose?
I learned from experience that when a person displays certain behavior while drinking, it’s normally the part of them self they are trying to tame or hide. Listen to your instincts. Seriously.
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Not ONLY was he sloppy drunk and out of hand BUT he was blatantly displaying PREDATORY BEHAVIOR right there in front of You and everyone close to you without any regards or remorse. “Being drunk” is NEVER an excuse because all alcohol does is lower someone’s inhibitions about thoughts that are ALREADY IN THEIR HEADS. I am so sorry for your ruined life and loss of expectations But that man IS a PREDATOR deep in his core and may very well be a Danger to you and society as a whole. You Need to get away while you can and put safeguards in place because chances are he will 1) apologize all over the place 2) blame it ALL on the alcohol 3) deny, deny, deny 4) promise you the moon and stars and then 5) get angry and NOT give up
Get Away and Get Help even though in your wildest dreams you cannot imagine needing it EVER
Call off the wedding and leave him… point blank he doesn’t respect you get out now!!! If he’s going to do that when your not married what will he do when you are…
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Women got wife written all over them but they with someone chasing bedbugs - call it off…
I like Sharon G. Comment very much - we (most of us) are all going to tell you to hang it up - I wonder if any of those people were ever in kinda the same situation. Because now I know better I would also say the same - but in my younger days I didn’t listen. What do you want to do? What do you think you should do? You have to decide.
Yea I’d call it off as well… that’s not only inappropriate, it’s gross and disrespectful to everyone!
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If that’s how he conducted himself in your presence, what does he do behind your back? Be wise… Don’t throw the rest of your life away… Once you’re married, it’s an open playing field for him cos he will think that if you accepted his behaviour whilst engaged then u are prepared to live with that behaviour for the rest of your life.
Say goodbye immediately and count yourself lucky to have had this dreadful experience pre-wedding. He’s unlikely to make good husband material any time soon.
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Not just the fact that he did it in front of you, but to someone so young and visibly uncomfortable that a 3rd party had to step in. How does he act with a woman when he’s drunk that doesn’t have anyone to come to her defense? I’m getting predator vibes with this one.
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Big problem hope you figure it out
Call it off . If he can do that right in front of you, this is not the end of it . It won’t stop once you’re married . If you go thru with the wedding, you’re asking for trouble .
Say adios ! It doesn’t get better honey , only worse !
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Yes. Leave. Red flag. Ten years and two kids from now you don’t want to be saying I should have left him when…
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The fact you planned a dinner and babysitter for a night should of been more appreciated. Drunk or not itll happen again.
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Follow your gut! You know what you saw. Don’t talk yourself out of it or make excuses for his inappropriate behavior.
Call it off def red flags not ok
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As a woman who suffered my husband’s TWO affairs only to have him dump me on my birthday a year later… probably for another woman. All I can say is…run.
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As a woman, fiancé you should never have to experience something like that and he didn’t even stop after her sister got between them! Hell no, you deserve so much more respect - clearly he doesn’t respect you and anyone else.
If that was me, I would have definitely called off the wedding!
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If you marry him-in 5-10 years you will be on here with basically the same question or worse. Except by this time you will have a couple kids & feel like you are stuck. Make your decisions wisely. And know your worth.
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Drunk actions are true colours… bye 
Drop him like a hot potato. You deserve better and I think you know it.
Call it off now. You won’t have to go through more crap with him because of a divorce. So sorry but better now than later.