Saturday night I planned a date night for me and my fiancé. His sisters agreed to baby sit our son for me and I decided on a restaurant I love and I paid for everything. I got drinks for the house and invited some people over. His sisters who baby sat, his brother, my friend and her sister. My son was asleep when we got home, so we all just hung out. After about an hour my fiancé got extremely inappropriate with my friends sister (he’s 28, she’s 19) he kept staring at her. It was weird, I said something jokingly. We all laughed it off. Then he was like hugged her. And all in her face trying to talk to her. I could see that she felt uncomfortable so again I say something. My friend (her sister) stepped between them. He just kept on until he fell asleep on the couch. I apologized to her over and over but I still so embarrassed. I’m considering calling off the wedding. As a woman, a fiancé, I should never have to tell my fiancé to get off another woman. I feel so badly for my friends sister because we only met her twice, she was there soley as a DD for my friend.
Do NOT marry that creep!!
Wowwwwww. He has no respect for you doing that in front of u. That’s so low and embarrassing. Leave him …save yourself the years of worrying and heartbreak.
Call off your wedding. He just showed how much he respects you as the mother of his child. Thank your lucky stars this happened before you married him. You deserve so much more.
Red flag, I’d call it off. You can do better.
He clearly lacks respect for you and himself. Call it off. I wish you the best my love. You ain’t gotta put up with that. 
That’s a no from me, I’d call it off and leave him.
If he behaves like that in front of you. What goes on behind your back? Life’s to short to be with someone who doesn’t respect you when you’re around, and makes you question things when you aren’t. Move on girl, know your worth cause it ain’t him 🩷
Call off the wedding.
If he will do that right in front of you, imagine what goes on behind your back.
You can do better!
I think it’s fait to say you know what is best.
I would absolutely call it off, not only is that a red flag for his respect for you… but the age of the girl makes it extremely inappropriate.
I could only imagine his behavior at his bachelors party without you there…
All I have to say is, if he can drink and lose control IN. FRONT. OF. YOU. What would he do behind your back?!? You shouldn’t marry someone you can’t trust. Even when they’re drinking.
Yikes, I’d have to call it off. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this, as much as it’s wrong of him to have this kind of behaviour I’m sure your heart is broken thinking of having to call off your wedding / split your family. Take care of you and your son.
Call off the wedding and thank your lucky stars that this came about before you got married!
Call it off quick girl!! Run!!!
Well I definitely would put more thought in it
I’m Glad he did that in your face because a title doesn’t change anything. Sending hugs and love mamma
If he is acting like that IN FRONT OF YOU imagine the person he is when he isn’t around you.
You know what you need to do, run Forest run!!!
everyone is saying it!!! Call it off!!!
Huge red flag! There will be more to come!
Step put of that! Be thankful you found out before the wedding.
You were pleased to see this now! Before you get married. Be grateful and move on.
Go with your gut!! It’s always right
If he did this in front of you imagine what he does when you’re not around CALL IT OFF you’ll regret it if you don’t maybe not right away but def down the line
I’d call the wedding off - he does not respect you - that - in itself - answers your question 
- Move on & find yourself a Real Man 
Oh hells no I would’ve called it off ! That’s so disrespectful especially not giving a eff when there were people around especially you that is a red flag who knows what he would do if it were another gathering I wouldn’t be able to trust him let alone marry and have to live in stress of how or what he’s doing I’m glad you saw his flaws I’m sorry you went through that that is embarrassing you deserve so much better! Kick him out the way so your real future hubby can find you 
If he’ll do that in front of you what is he doing when you’re not there?
If he’s going to be like that right in front of you what will he do behind your back?
Bye Felicia! Id walk. If he did it right it front of all of you, what does he do when no one is around?
If he does that in front of you, what will he do when you’re not around?
I would have kicked him out that night!@! Just saying!!!
You man was all over a girl that was almost 10 years younger than him .you basically had to tell him to back off not once but twice when you shouldn’t have to tell him at all …if he is this disrespectful in front of you than you know in your gut what he does behind your back and dont fool yourself by saying he never had or won’t because his actions say otherwise and don’t blame it on drinking
Honestly I have a long line of alcoholic family and this so seems like someone that has a problem. I only have this small amount of information, but does he drink often? Does he get drunk often? Have you seen him act out of character while drinking before?
If he behaves this way in front of you, just imagine what he does when you aren’t around! Get rid of him.
If you have to question it, you already know the answer unfortunately 
you jus need to hear it from someone else. Follow your gut and listen to your loved ones, run
Better to find out ahead of time. So much easier to call it off now. You deserve better and a wedding won’t change that.
Beware! Guys like this are going to give u a song & dance how sorry he is, he loves you, it’ll never happen again. What kind of influence will he be for your son? I think you already know the answer however I’ve seen this happen in so many friends lives they believe the sweet words & being conned into how much he loves you. Don’t fall for it!
Big red flag! Call ot off
Disrespect at its worst! Call it off!
Imagine putting a ring on someone’s finger intending to get married to this person just for them to go off and do some foul s*** like this. I would definitely call the wedding off and don’t look back. You deserve better than that girl. 
Imagine what that’s like when your not around. If I could go back 18 years I may have made a different choice too. I say call it off. Find a man who cherishes you.
His boorish behavior will not change. Move on and find someone who will be respectful to you as well as friends.
Nope , I’d flip . You deserve someone all about you! He shouldn’t be acting like that with any other woman . That’s so sad
Thats not a “man” to marry tbh be thankful you seen it before it was too late, there’s nothing you can do bar apologise you never knew he was like that, but will you leave him over his perverted behaviour
If he’s doing that now, he’ll do it again. Call it off, be glad he showed this side to you before you signed paperwork.
If he will do it blatantly in front of you, can’t imagine what he may be doing behind your back.
Better to call it off! Go with your gut!
Throw the whole man away and start over. If he would do it right in front of you, imagine how he’d act behind your back.
Take it as your sign be done with that now
I would def do it. that’s wild.
That’s not the first time he has done it … that’s pretty common behaviour from someone that isn’t committed. You both need to sit down and talk about where you go from here. He needs to be committed to you and respectful throughout your marriage if he can’t then let him go he isn’t ready for a committed relationship yet
Definitely a big red flag if he’s doing that in front of you wonder what he would do when your not around hope your ok
Always listen to your gut. Call it off. It can wait.
If he did that in front of you imagine what he does when your not around 
Call it off. What if you weren’t there to intervene?
I’d be so embarrassed. He’d have to go.
What will happen the next time he’s acting like this and you’re NOT there? As so many people have said, you deserve better than that!
That’s a HUGE red flag!! Unfortunately you need to break it off, its gonna be hard, but do it for yourself it will save you from heartbreak down the road!!!
Deal breaker. And right in front of you!!!
How considerate of him to show his true colors before you marry him
Call it off, it’ll save you heartache and money later!
People always show you who they are. I would call it off before getting into a marriage that would probably end bc of infidelity later. Save yourself
He’s got to go. You will be fine without hiim. Don’t feel bad about losing him. Count your blessings. He is going to be a real problem for somebody. Don’t let it be you.
If I was you, I would break up with him. His behavior is a major red flag. That’s a rough one since you have a child. Good luck
And that’s why I’m not married
Big Red Flag there He doesn’t deserve you xx
Call it off. What’s he do when you’re not around? That’s embarrassing and completely unfair to you. Anyone in a relationship should respect their partner. His sister should also be ashamed of him. 
Call it off, have a big freedom party
He stepped over the line.
If that’s how he acts around you how is he acting behind your back…
You have a child so you’ve known him awhile. If you’re not gonna leave, then you’ll be hurt married or not
You’re not even married and he’s doing that. You deserve way more sis. Let that man go.
Call it off. When you get a sign that big before, save yourself the trouble and heartache later on
It won’t get better… That is a guarantee. If he does this in front of you what does he do behind your back! Run!!!
We would be done. Thats disrespectful in so many ways…
All I could think was ewwwww. Total red flag. I would nope right on out of there. 
You’re not even married yet and he’s already acting like that! Imagine when you’re five years in and have more children and are touched out, is he going to stay for that and be faithful when you’re struggling to mom and keep up with his needs? Once the trust is gone for me, it’s gone. I couldn’t do it.
Sober words and subconscious truths
Drunk man’s words/actions are a sober man’s thoughts! This has served me well for years!
I’d call it off, don’t make excuses for him cause he will do it again in time. Sorry you’re hurting💯
Leave now you should never have to worry about that. Also if he can do that in front of you you wouldn’t ever be able to trust him away from you and that wouldn’t be fun to deal with.
100% call it off. If he will do that infront of you, he will do more when you are not there. And if you stand by and tolerate that now, it will oy get worse.
I’ve never heard of someone regretting calling off a wedding. You have your reasons, that’s enough.
At the very least postpone it and insist on one on one therapy and couples therapy. If he agrees, make your decision later. If he does not, you have your answer. He also needs to make apologies to everyone who witnessed it.
Take your son and RUN!! He will for sure cheat probably sooner the later! You and your son deserve better
Giant red flag!!! This same thing happened to my daughter and she stayed and things have just gotten worse! I pray you make the right decision
Nah get rid of him. Jeez imagine what he does when your not around if he’s doing it in front of you!
Call it off sis. He publicly humiliated you in front of your loved ones and made a young girl feel uncomfortable. Have you guys had a discussion about this? Like damn, what does HE have to say about his own actions? I would never want to bring him around my friends ever again. I say leave him 
Most definitely call everything off he is a joke
I think its a red flag. If he’s doing that in front of you once it will happen again and also you will always be wondering what he’s doing when your not there. You do not want to get into a relationship where you will have trust issues you will be totally miserable.
I would not marry him.
Imagine what he is like when you aren’t around 
I could never be with someone who treated me with such disrespect. And the poor uncomfortable 19yo.
I would definitely have long talk with him and postpone wedding do couples counseling
Aren’t you lucky to see his true colors?
Idc drunk or not- the fact he did it infront of you is enough to leave him altogether. He blatantly disrespected you in your own home. He can play the drunk card but I never take that into consideration. Maybe it was a sign that he showed you this prior to marriage. Take it as that and RUNNNNNNNNN!!
Right in front of you too. Byeeee 
If you’re already thinking about it you know you’re answer in your head. What would happen if you were not around?
I’m more concerned with the predatory persistence than anything else. Get the deposits you can back now.
Yah call off the wedding he not ready to be serious with you. Why the heck would he talk about a serious subject and ask you to marry him when he is acting like that. Nope take that ring off and demote his behind back to uh single. You deserve better
That would be a huge red flag to me.