As a bisexual woman, please let me educate. The vast majority of bisexuals (men or women) do not have multiple partners at once. For instance, I have been happily married to a man for almost 11 years, but when I was dating, I dated those I felt a connection and compatibility with, regardless of their gender.
All of that being said, do you think he is the type to cheat on you, or are you perhaps projecting due to stereotypes and misinformation you have regarding what being bisexual actually is? If it is the former, I would evaluate whether you want to continue a relationship with someone who you feel would cheat on you with another person. If itās the latter, I would have REAL conversations, both with your boyfriend and your internal monologue.
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NO. My husband thinks the exact same thing about me just because Iām bi. If my friends that are girls give me compliments, he thinks there are ulterior motives to it. Being bisexual does NOT mean you are a cheater or will cheat with the same sex if you have a partner of the opposite sex. The two have no correlation whatsoever. Cheaters cheat. Iām bisexual and have never cheated. The only people that I have ever known to cheat are mainly straight 
Imma just be honest. With the way you worded this, it IS the only dumb question that I have seen on here
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This was my friend he ended up saying he was CONFUSED ABOUT HIMSELF. It s a coin toss on what he wants at any given time. So no they arenāt dating
So, I had to come here to learn ima cheat, have diseases, 
I canāt wait for a different post to learn more about me!
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But even straight people cheatā¦
Straight people cheat more often.
I said wtf I said.
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So because heās Bi it makes him a cheater?
Im Bisexual, and I am very faithful.
Jesus your views are warped.
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Has he ever been with a man? If not I would say maybe itās less likely to last as heāll probably want / need to explore that part of his sexuality at some point?
But no it wonāt make him a cheater. Iād say if heās already been with men and women and is choosing to be with you itās no different than dating anyone else 
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If you have to question it like this, this is probably not the relationship for you.
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Lol about as much as youād worry about him cheating on you with a woman. Sounds like you canāt handle it already. Leave
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Is this a relationship page??? Because almost every question is drama about a relationshipā¦most have nothing to do with a kidā¦wth!!!
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If you are already worried about this id say just walk away save him from the hassle you are going to cause focus on your own anxiety of what ever issue you having thinking somone is going go cheat before your even commitednto them
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Well bi or not people cheat.
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I feel like you need to do a lot of learning before you get into a relationship if you believe something so painfully wrong and hurtful.
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Bisexual but wanted to try dating? What does that even mean? Also bi sexual doesnāt mean raging sex addict, but you should pass and save him a lot of trouble and take some time to educate yourself about the LGBTQIA community
Tbh it sounds like you donāt really understand what being bi meansā¦ he can be attracted to whoever he wants but if he is committing to a relationship with you then there should be no cheating and you guys should both discuss that and other boundaries like adults. If youāre worried heāll cheat on you with a man thatās just you being insecure IMO. Do you think heād cheat with a woman? If not then you need to reevaluate the way you see LGBQT+ people. And if you do think heād cheat with another woman then best not to go down that road.
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I think people worry about this not as a slam on bi people but rather the pool of potential sexual partners may be more abundant because they go both ways.
Key word ā¦try ā¦meaning he actually likes men better ā¦so yes
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He wants to try dating ?.. you?! He wants to try it out with you. Maybe he prefers men now and itās been a while since a woman, so he wants to try dating you.
Just because someone likes whomever they like doesnāt mean theyāre more likely to cheat.
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Yup men be on those dating apps looking for other men trying to hide his desires ā¦ i could not date a man whose bi cause id always feel like im competing with men ā¦ but thatās my feelings not yoursā¦usually these men will give into their desires cause they feel compelled to try it ā¦so be prepared in case you find out heās done somethingā¦
If you have to ask than the answer is,
NEXT
being bisexual doesnt make you a cheater. the " i wanna try dating" part that he said to you makes me feel like hes unsure of what he wants and your the social experiment for him. if your looking for something casual then go for it but if you want something serious id ask him to clarify what he meant by saying " he wants to try dating"
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The wanting to ātryā dating would be a red flag for me.
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Only if heās a cheater. If you are in a relationship then wellā¦ youāre in a relationship.
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If you dont trust them you dont trust themā¦and thatās apparantly it or you wouldnāt have said itā¦SEND THEM ON THERE WAYā¦
Noā¦thatās not how that works at allā¦Iām bisexual. I am married and have been with my husband for 11 Ā½ years and we have 3 kids together. I have never had the desire to go cheat on my husband with ANYBODY just because Iām bisexual.
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This is stupid. You assume he will cheat just bc heās bi? You have issues and donāt sound ready to date anyone tbh.
You are not a social experiment. Let him try on someone else.
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Thatās like saying he likes women should I be worried heās going to cheat on me with another woman. Not if heās not an asshole? Thatās not how being bi works?
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I donāt think sexual preference has anything to do with infidelity, however, before you jump into the relationship you two need to communicate wants, needs, expectations, and boundaries and see if you are both capable of respecting each other. If not, remain friends and call it good. Itās better to find out before hand if someone is testing the waters and not wanting something monogamous in the long term, than investing your heart and soul into something and later on learning they wanted to swing.
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He chose to date you, if heās going to cheat he will no matter what their sex is. Bisexual isnāt code for cheater though. Be clear about what you both want at all times and it shouldnāt be a problem unless heās just a jerk. If you donāt think you can trust him then you donāt need to be dating, period.
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Being bisexual doesnāt make you an automatic cheater. We do have self control and can be as faithful as those in straight cisgender relationships.
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Bisexual people arenāt all whores 
let him move on to someone who isnāt gunna make shitty biphobic assumptions
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Only if youāre worried that he might also cheat with a woman. Bisexuals donāt necessarily cheat anymore than heterosexualsā¦ theyāre just attracted to males and females and not necessarily at the same time.
If they gonna cheat, they gonna cheat. Bi or not.
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The issue here isnāt his sexuality, itās your insecurity. If youāre questioning his integrity this early then you are setting you both up to fail and it isnāt going to work.
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If he is going to cheat his going to cheat doesnāt matter if he is bi or not.
Iām bi, but have been with my partner (male) for 15 years and havenāt cheated with a woman or a man.
The issue here isnāt his sexuality hun, itās your insecuries im afraid x
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Only if hes a dwarf as well
just because someone is bisexual doesnt mean they will cheat and making that assumption is very biphobic. someones sexuality has nothing to do with whether they will cheat or not, i hope your bisexual partner finds someone that wont judge them for their sexuality
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This question is ignorant! Maybe youāre just too insecure for a relationship at the moment. Take some time to work on yourself 
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Not any more or less than he would cheat on you with a girlā¦being bi doesnāt mean you wish you had the thing that you donāt currently receive (genitally speaking)
Itās like people think that bi folk have more to want, when actually itās the same because they donāt want 100% of the people because they have some standards.
If you canāt trust him around men because you think he wants the Dā¦then either you have trust issues or he hasnāt given you cause to trust himā¦either way get out lol
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I wouldnāt say the chances of him cheating are any higher than if he was heterosexualā¦ So I wouldnāt worry any more than you normally would (which obviously you shouldnāt be in a relationship if youāre worried about them cheating)
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Sounds like youāre not ready for a relationship and should maybe work on your own insecurities first rather than passing judgements on some one youāve just met based on their sexualality
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Would u be worried about him cheating with another woman?
Bi sexual or not it shouldnāt matter 
If he currently wanted to be in a relationship with a guy then Iām sure he would be and not be with you xx
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Wow maybe I was silly Iām thinking that bisexual stigma has been concluded as nonesense 
as someone who is bisexual, no, you should not worry about them cheating just because they are bi, and thatās really harmful. A personās sexuality is not going to determine if they will be more likely to cheat on you, and maybe you need to have a conversation with your partner.
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Loyalty, love and respect is what keeps you from cheating, not your sexuality. Thereās no need to worry based on the fact that heās bisexual alone x
Have the conversation on whether or not youāre monogamous. If heās monogamous, it shouldnāt be an issue if heās bisexual. Right?
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Men have sex in parks and their cars. Heās definitely gonna cheat and I would be worried what he sexually catches that could harm you. Heās just saying heās bisexual. Trust me Iām a gay female that went with bisexual women. They always went back to men
No more than with a woman 
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Wtfā¦
you donāt sound like youāre ready for a relationship yourselfā¦
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If you think theyāll cheat it has nothing to do with their sexuality. Just because heās bi doesnāt mean heāll cheat. If you think heās a cheater though, donāt date him. Trust is more important than worrying about their sexuality. 
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Bisexuality doesnāt make someone more likely to cheat. OP kinda sucks
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If you had a straight boyfriend he could still cheat, your sexuality doesnāt make you a cheater, your personality does
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My question is why are you going to try being with him if u donāt trust him???
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Are you worried every straight guy would cheat on you with another girl?
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Being Bi doesnāt make you unfaithfulā¦ Being a cheater makes you a cheater not your sexuality.
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He told you upfront heās bi. Now you gotta find out if hes committed to a relationship with one person or wanna be in a relationship with 2. I think itās called a thruple
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I mean I guess to answer your question, probably. But being bi or straight thereās the same chance that theyāll cheat on you either way. It sounds like you have some serious trust issues
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Just because someone is gay doesnāt mean theyāll cheat. Holy cow.
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Are you worried about him cheating on you with a women? No, then donāt worry about him cheating with a man. Yes, then you should really break up with him.
No more than any other man.
What? Heās not more likely to cheat because heās bi. Sexuality has nothing to do with loyalty
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Try not to worry about cheating. The past can haunts us. But just try to enjoy your time together. If yāall end up falling for each other then thereās a good chance he is a good man and wonāt cheat.
Iām bi. If a person cheats they cheat. Itās got absolutely nothing to do with being straight or bi. Absolutely nothing. If youāve been cheated on in the past and carry that over and put that blame on him, which sadly a lot do that, youāll ruin your relationship. If you have traumas to heal from then heal from them before you do anything.
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A cheater is a cheater, if u trust him with women then trust him with men. If u donāt trust him well then either sex is up for grabs I guess
No more than you should be worried about someone straight cheating on you with another woman? Does that not make sense to you??
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It doesnāt matter if heās straight bi or gay. Cheating is cheating.
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Anyone can cheat. Heās just got a broader playing field. Look, you trust him or you donāt.
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Not any more than you should be worried they would cheat with a womanā¦
Date him like you would with any other guy you dated. If he cheats (whether itās female or male), leave. Whatās the grey area?
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Not a road u wanna go down trust me. That chit will fuk u up mentally more than the average cheating with another female.
No more chance of cheating with another women .
A cheater will cheat regarless of the sex. Just because someone is bi does not mean they will cheat, anyone can choose to be faithful.
Also if your already queationing and more worried about him with a man and canāt trust him, cut your losses now.
Regardless I wouldnāt hook up with him unless it was an exclusive relationship. Youāre putting your health at risk.
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If 50% of people are men and 50% are womenā¦she is likely fearful if he is into both that there is more of a chance. More temptation. Thatās a legit concern till they build trust.
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Is he poly as well? Did he mention he doesnāt like monogamy?
Just because heās bi doesnāt mean he will cheat, and itās not fair of you to assume that.
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Would you be worried about a straight guy cheating on you with a woman?
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Hard situationā¦trust him til he canāt b
Wow if you are that worried go donāt bother wasting either of you alls time
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The more I get notifications for this post means the more I think about this post and have come to the conclusion thatā¦. This belongs here
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Yeah. Just as you should worry about him cheating with a female. A cheater is a cheater no matter their sexuality. If you worry then he is not the one for you.
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you shouldnāt be in a relationship PERIOD.
if you canāt trust them, no matter who theyāre attracted to.
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being bi has nothing to do with cheating. if they cheat its not bc theyāre bi its bc theyāre a bad person
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No more or less than you should worry about any partner cheating at all.
This is pretty biphobic though probably unintentionally.
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I had a guy tell me heād never date me becauze Iām bi and the chances of cheating is higherā¦
But cheating is cheating
I was engaged to someone bi. He did cheat on me but not with men
Are you exclusive or not? If not then its not cheating if he sees someone else.
If you cant trust ANYONE you date then simply dont date themā¦bi or not
Gay is gay,no matter how you say it
Shoot Iād tell him he needs to share 
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I think she is more worried cause she doesnāt have body part to satisfy him. Or that she may not be able to satisfy him.
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If you have doubts before you start dating. Donāt start dating. Itās not right to them or yourself
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What about cheating with another women or your just worried about the man part.
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I would make him get checked out before I was intimate with him. There are health risks. Also, often homosectuals do not want to say they are gay. So they pass themselves off as bisexual.
You need other people to answer this. Really???
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There is nothing to worry about if someone is bisexual.
If you are worrying so much to post this then the insecurities are within yourself.
Ask him if he is also poly, ask him if you have something to worry about, if you are monogamous let him know from the start.