Met a guy who told me he was bi-sexual but wanted to try dating etc. should I be worried about him cheating on me with another guy?
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No.
Sexuality has absolutely NOTHING to do with cheating.
The question should be, “is my boyfriend going to cheat on me?” which is a question you should ask him yourself. If he was going to cheat, there is just as big of a chance it’s with a woman than a man.
Help a mama out and respond anonymously on our forum. I am dating someone who is bi: Should I be worried they cheat with a man?
They probably have the same chance of cheating on you as a straight person 
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This can’t even be real. It’s the sam amount of chance. I’d they are going to do it they are going to do it. Period. 
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Would you worry about him cheating with a woman? If you trust him and you have discussed the boundaries of the relationship this shouldn’t be an issue. However, if you’re uncomfortable with his sexuality maybe you should rethink the relationship
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This is ridiculous. No more chance then them cheating on you with a girl.
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Is this real? Have mercy. 
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Of course you should be worried. You don’t wanna know how many bi men I know that cheated on their gf’s.
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Trust is trust. These are things you should have discussed with him. Not the internet
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Are you serious? Same chance of him cheating if he was straight. Wow
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If you don’t have trust then you have nothing. It’s equal chances no matter what the sexual preference is but it comes down to your trust and their loyalty. 
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Bi doesn’t automatically mean they’ll cheat for the other sex. A cheater is a cheater regardless of sexual orientation and this sort of false narrative is a damaging stereotype for bi individuals.
This is fucking stupid
It’s the same risk either way. You risk them cheating with another person. The gender of the other person is irrelevant. If you can’t trust them right off the bat take it slow. If you can’t get to a place where you can then it’s probably not the best option for you
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Are you also worried he’ll cheat on you with women or is it just the guys you are afraid of? Cause if it’s the second, do the dude a favour and get out of his life with those messed up thoughts.
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Nope, but have honest chat with him about it. It’s common fear, as women can’t give same thing to their partner as man does. But it doesn’t mean the partner would cheat on you because of that. Open conversation and try to understand how’s and what’s. Good luck! Have fun 
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Date him but don’t have sex with him.
My kids dad was “bi” and he cheated all the time found out 8 yrs later down the road. But I wouldn’t put that on all bi people honestly
How long have you two been together?? And if hes all about you he wont.
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Same chances as if he were straight. As long as you are into anal and doing some anal stuff to him then I don’t see that he will cheat. Just discuss this with him…
This is bi phobia so bad.
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Regardless of whether or not they cheat definitely use protection from STD’s.
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If that question is already on your mind, then you should just let him go!
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I agree with everyone else when they say it’s an equal chance even if he was completely straight … I would like to add that he shouldn’t be denied that part of him just because he’s with you because that can cause resentments … I would have a serious conversation about all this and just come to an agreement if y’all can … But remember you are not forced to deal with any of this … You can walk away at anytime you feel uncomfortable or things aren’t your cup of tea … Good luck in this sweetheart
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Nope. If you’re in a monogamous relationship you only have your partner even if you’re attracted to the other sex. I’m a bisexual woman married to a man. I won’t cheat on him with anyone. If you’re monogamous, you’re monogamous. The only reason you should worry is if he’s polyamorous and you aren’t. Don’t judge people on their sexuality.
You should be the same amount worried as you would be with any other man cheating on you with a girl.
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When your with someone there is always a chance that they will cheat on you but if your uncomfortable with the fact that he is bi and that cheating with a man is a possibility then maybe you shouldn’t be with someone bisexual
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Depends on the guy. It’s definitely a spectrum.
Have you worried every partner you’ve ever had would cheat? Cause its no different if they are bi or not, they deserve better if you think bi means higher chance of cheating tbh.
Just cuz I’m strait don’t mean I’ll cheat with another man bi people can resist temptation too lots of bi women marry a man and don’t look outside they marriage
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If your worried this person is gonna cheat on you, maybe you need to leave the relationship. You don’t have anything if you don’t have trust
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Your toast. you would be livid if he went out with the girls for a drink after work, but he cant go out with the guys either, and no hunting trips in the mountains with the guys, no fishin trips, the dude wont have a life if you cant trust
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Unless he’s poly - no.
I’m pansexual but strictly monogamous and have been with my husband for almost 10 years now
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The first thing that should be in a relationship is trust, if your sexual preference matters, if that does not exist from the beginning, it is not worth looking for problems, better not to start.
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Why would his sexual orientation make him any more likely to cheat than anyone else? Either he’s a cheater or he’s not. And if he is, what difference does it make which gender he cheats with?
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Because you’re straight… Does that mean he should worry you’d cheat with another male?
Maybe the insecurity is coming from the fact that she’s a woman and can’t satisfy his other liking. I think she accepting of him being bi because she is with him, but I also think her mind may be trying to navigate new territory.
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Maybe he’ll cheat on you with another girl.
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I’d actually like you to explore that concern?
Is it rooted in bigotry?
Or is it possible that you’re concerned being a woman, that you won’t meet all of his needs?
Cause that insecurity is very real and understandable but from a bi girl, it doesn’t hold weight. And it doesn’t mean you alone aren’t enough.
Bi doesn’t mean promiscuous. We just love who we love. I hope this helps
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If he were straight would you be worried he will cheat with another woman? Just because he’s bi, doesn’t make him anymore likely to cheat.
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Omfg, no. Stupid question
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Probably shouldnt be in a relationship. You obviously have major trust issues. You need to work on that before trying to be in a relationship
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Do you not know what bi is? That’s a conversation you need to sit down and have. I mean anyone can cheat but I get where you’re coming from. Have the conversation because if it’s a possibility of that happening then it’s up to you on what to do. Me personally a cheater is a cheater.
She said try dating. Maybe she’s thinking he has a preference, or maybe this is the first woman he’s dated? Idk I’m guessing her concerns are based on more than she shared.
I dont think being Bi means your gonna cheat with a man or a women ( no more then if he were straight, a cheater is a cheater).
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Leave chest or not🤏🏽
Cheating is cheating. Period. Regardless of sexual preference. A man should be no more of a risk than a woman unless he has a cheater characteristic.
Just because he is bi doesn’t mean he will cheat. Anyone can cheat… bi, straight, gay, pan sexual, ect. Monogamy is all on the individual. Doesn’t pertain to their sexual preference.
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As a pansexual individual, I find this insulting. You should leave him, he’s better off🤷
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His sexuality has nothing to do with him being a cheater. Being bisexual means you like people, you’re not attracted to gender. People are ignorant af🙄
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The real question is “is he a cheater?” If he’s bi I would be worried about both genders not just a man? Kinda weird but to each their own
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Are you worried about him cheating on you with another girl? No…then you shouldn’t worry about another guy. If he is going to cheat, he is going to cheat, bi or not
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I’m bi af and my hetero husband of 7 years cheated on me. I never even had to resist the urge to cheat💁
Bi doesn’t mean promiscuous. But my advice is to leave him. You clearly have a problem with his sexuality and want to find a fault with him when it’s all on you.
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When he says try dating like he’s not sure if he wants to date or he’s never dated before? If he doesn’t know if he can date you then yeah I would be a little concerned.
Even if he was straight he was gonna cheat on you with a woman lol 
so either way you always need to be aware of that smh
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No more than a straight person might cheat on you??? 
Sexuality and/or identity doesn’t determine loyalty. Character does.
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i like girls and boys and everything in between, that don’t mean i’m gonna cheat on my partner. your sexual preference has nothing to do with rather ur a good person or a piece of shit.
If you’re biphobic just say that lol
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I dated one bi guy… he cheated on me with my “Lesbian” sister, a much older and 3 dudes on all separate occasions. Never again!
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This has nothing to do with being bi a cheater is a cheater it’s possible he would cheat with a guy or girl if he’s bi.
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Sexual orientation doesn’t make someone a cheater. Being a cheater does.
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Just because someone’s bi doesn’t mean they’re going to cheat… straight people cheat all the time too. Someone’s sexuality doesn’t make them a cheater or not, it’s in who a person is.
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you’re hypothetically dating and you’re worried he’s already gonna cheat on you ? i think you have issues tbh also is the fact that he’s bi the reason you think he would cheat and ruin your hypothetical relationship him being bi has no standing on his heart and what he wants if he’s a good guy and wants to be in a relationship with you bi or not he will be faithful but in ALL honesty it sounds like you should really take some time and focus on yourself and your insecurities before getting into a relationship also when you do don’t worry about the other person just be you and enjoy the good times they’ll show you who they are and time will tell if that’s the person for you if not then oh well it’ll happen again which is also why i say take time for yourself fix your internal wounds find your toxic traits and work on them you can’t attract a great guy without being a great girl yourself be who you want to attract❤️
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They can cheat with anyone so I guess it just comes down to if they are faithful, but for me that would be a hard pass.
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It depends on what boundaries you have set for the relationship? Are you exclusive or are you going to just date each other? Also if its early in the relationship you have to get to know each other and what each of your expectations are in the relationship, just keep the lines of communication open. At the end of the day he could be just exploring and happened to choose you to do that with. If you are clear that while hes dating you you that he wont see other ppl then you should be fine. But in saying that ppl do cheat it’s just a risk you have to take when you went into this relationship and if he does then you will know for next time what you want and deserve. Good luck and remember your life is short so jump in with 2 feet a clear head and boundaries.
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As someone who is bisexual. That isn’t what you have to worry about. It’s whether or not he is monogamous. I’ve been with a man for 9 years. I am still attracted to men and women, but I believe in monogamy and I am faithful to my partner because I choose him as a person over any other person, every day. I don’t ever “miss” being with a woman. I love my husband. If he isn’t going to be faithful to you, it won’t be because he is bisexual, it’ll be because he isn’t a faithful person.
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The real question is if he is a cheater IMO. Has nothing to do with his sexuality. If it’s that big of a fear date straight men only. However they tend to be the biggest cheats that’s only my personal opinion on str8 men.
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Open relationship solves cheating issues if people can be honest.
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His character has nothing to do with his sexual preferences.
“I have a boyfriend, should I be worried about him cheating?”
I fixed your question.
The relationship should be built on trust. Do you trust him to respect you? Can you be trusted? My guess is you are young and unsure of what you don’t understand. If there is a fetish involved, there’s toys for that. You as an individual are not lacking anything. Give your relationship a true shot or leave now. He could end up cheating, but FYI anyone can cheat.
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Bout as much as you worry about him cheating on you with a woman.
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A cheater is a cheater no matter their sexual orientation. Like that literally has zero to do with whether he will cheat or not.
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Your sexual orientation doesn’t make you a cheater… smfh.
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I am pan and have literally never cheated on anyone with anyone.
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Not going to lie, as a bisexual person I was slightly offended by this but I can also understand the other side. Cheating is a character flaw, and it has nothing to do with sexuality. If y’all have establish boundaries in the relationship and y’all don’t want an open relationship then someone who is going to stay loyal will be loyal and someone who is going to cheat will cheat regardless of their sexuality.
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Being bi doesn’t mean they need to be having sex with both men and women to be satisfied. It just means they could potentially be attracted to someone of either sex. However, even being attracted to someone doesn’t automatically mean the person will cheat, whether they’re bi or straight or gay or whatever.
Cheating isn’t about sexual orientation, it’s about the character of the person cheating, and more often than not, it’s about them being insecure and/or having emotional issues within themselves that they need to address, in one way or another.
If he’s a cheater then yes. Someone being Bi has nothing to do with them being faithful or not…
Being bi myself I hate questions like these, sexuality has nothing to do with if someone’s going to cheat or not.
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I think the issue here is that you have problems trusting. The issue is not that the person you’re dating is bisexual. You just have trust issues and you probably need to work out those issues before you start dating anybody. Don’t start thinking like that about this man because that’s going to start a whole slew of unhealthy thinking then behavior towards him that he doesn’t even deserve.
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You cant put bisexuality together with cheating. Its the person, not their orientation.
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Sexuality has nothing to do with integrity. It doesn’t matter what genitalia you enjoy. I can like boys, girls, boys who want to be girls or girls who want to be boys and be with someone asexual and not cheat. Or I can be with a freaky straight dude and still cheat. It has nothing to do with the parts and solely to do with the persons integrity or lack of. Any straight guy you date can cheat… Even with another man.
Just make sure he knows that if cheats on you with another dude, your gonna steal his side piece!
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I’ve been cheated on by every single man I dated in my adult life EXCEPT my bisexual husband. 7 years going strong. & he is by far the best person I know. The most honest person I know. He’s never cheated with a man or woman, hell I’ve never even caught him in a lie.
Sexuality doesn’t determine someone’s ability to be faithful, their character & morals determine that.
Have a conversation with your boyfriend about his wants & needs, & your own.
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Sexuality has nothing to do with if he’s gonna cheat… that has to do with him as a person…
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He said "try"dating??yep be worried
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Being bi doesn’t make u a cheater…
Be just as worried as you would if your partner was straight, some partners cheat but not because of their sexual orientation
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My wife is a bisexual, more male leaning than female. I believe that I would be considered pansexual, but I have no desire to label myself. The thing is, this only means that we are attracted to more than one gender. It does not mean that we are having sex with more people. We still have standards, morals, and loyalty. Give the man a chance, with an open mind. If you think his sexuality is going to effect you negatively, cut him loose and let him find someone who is accepting of that part of him. I mean that in the most respectful way.
No. Stop assuming bisexuals are cheaters. If you assume this about bisexuals you should assume the same about a straight partner. That they will cheat on you with other girls.
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I find this a little offensive personally… Being bisexual or any other sexual orientation doesn’t define if your going to cheat or not…That’s the person morals and who they are as a person.
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my issue would be the cheating and not the sexual preference. just saying…
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You should make sure they are clean first . Also if you don’t trust that person don’t bother trying to make a relationship outta this one .
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This is extremely biphobic. Being bi doesn’t mean you are a cheater. It doesn’t mean you can’t be in a committed monogamous relationship.
Cheaters cheat. It doesn’t just happen because someone is bi. -signed a bi person thats never cheated on a partner.
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If he’s a cheater he will cheat regardless of sexuality.
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Being bisexual doesn’t make a person a cheater.
He could just as easily be straight and cheat on you with another woman.
Being a cheater makes a person a cheater, not their sexuality.
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What I’d be worried about if bi was if he/she wasn’t “satisfied” by being monogamous with just you.
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If someone is the type of person to cheat they will do it regardless. Just because someone is bi doesn’t mean they’re more likely to cheat 
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So much biphobia in these comments Jesus 
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Not being rude but I would not date a bi sexual
Leave him, he deserves better.
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I’m learning so much about myself in these comments. 
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