I’ve been married for 5 years, we have one child together and I am pregnant of the second one. However, this wasn’t plan, our relationship has been in trouble for a while, we almost got divorced but decided to work on us. It’s been a year so far that we’ve been trying. Some stuff are bothering me like he doesn’t play with our daughter, and is always on his phone, playing video games or reading but always doing something else. He has had accidents in bed as well, in 5 years it probably happened 15 times which you could say is not a lot but it became a problem. I feel like I don’t love him anymore but I am wondering if my pregnancy hormones play a role in that.
The thing is I am from a foreign country and mentally need to go home, I am not happy here, and just keep thinking that I need to leave him, divorce and go home. We talked about it before and he would agree for me to take our daughter most of the year and he would have her during the summer. I just feel heartbroken thinking of how it would affect my daughter. But I am not happy and I do not know what to do! Any advice would be appreciated! No judgment please.
Do whatever you need to do to be happy. It’s better for your daughter to see you happy and single, then miserable and married. Don’t show her that that’s normal behavior for marriage. It seems like you’re really serious since you’ve talked about it, and it seems to be a mutual thing, which sounds good so your relationship will be healthy for co-parenting. & for him, peeing the bed at his age is not normal… he should go see a doctor. It’s hard being away from home, especially when pregnant so don’t feel bad that that’s what you want. If you have the means too, I would. You’ll be a lot happier.
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