I am married and having an affair and do not want to lose my kids: Advice?

Maybe stop trying to find a way out, dragging a whole other family down with you, and try TRYING. Relationships aren’t always easy, and you’re screwing up TWO MARRIAGES with what you’re doing. I physically cannot condone that on any level, but I won’t condemn you for it. Just try to think about how what you’re doing is going to effect LITERALLY EVERYONE ELSE in the situation you’ve gotten yourself into

Nope ur disgusting he’s disgusting n I hope both parties find out. U care abwt only u not ur kids n definitely not ur husband or ur friend !! Oh n u have no morals or values at all both u of u

I think you and you friends husband are both selfish pieces of shit and I hope your husband and you best friend stuff it deep up in both your asses. People like you make me fucking sick.

Wtf did I just read. Just freaking leave.

Matt Heseltine what in the absolute fuck is this

You know you’re not going to lose your kids but he probably will. Give him an ultimatum cos in my eyes your friend will be loads better off without you and her husband in her life. Think of her and be a true friend. And if yours and his relationship lasts then that will be a bonus x

How can u say ur her friend if ur having an affair with her husband?? If ur not happy end it!! What ur both doin is why homes are wrecked and kids minds are destroyed and when it all goes tits up with ur husband ur gna have no were 2 turn cos uve fucked over your best friend!!

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I don’t have anything nice to say so I’ll refrain from giving any advise. I just pray the kids on both sides are not terribly affected by this toxicity.

I don’t know what is worse the affair or the betrayal to your friend

Has I said different set a mad people everyday :roll_eyes::person_facepalming:

Go to st.anns check your head you sick

Not sleep with your mates husband :thinking:

FOUR wordS HOMEWRECKING PIECES OF SxxT

Well you’re a real POS then

What a shitty wife and friend you are !!

Cheaters always get caught God

It’s simple…stop cheating or get a divorce it’s not that hard you can’t lose your kids for cheating but not only are you a terrible wife but a terrible friend…end that friendship too I hate fake people…and cheating ones at that.
Sorry Not Sorry.

Since you’re the one fucking up, get a divorce and offer 50/50 custody with no child support. Just because the two of you are screw ups, doesn’t mean the kids should suffer.

You are being selfish and don’t want to leave the familiarity of your marriage for someone who won’t leave his. You can say you both don’t want to leave because of the kids but that isn’t true. You are selfish not only because you call this woman friend but decided to cross a line with her husband. You are also selfish because you are not in love with your husband but won’t let him go to maybe he happy again with someone else down the road who might really love him and not he adulterous. If you don’t love someone anymore you leave and you work out joint custody so both parents have time with the children they love. SMH i am sorry for your husband and your friend who will both be hurt by this betrayal I am sure. Maybe friend and husband will be there for each other and become good friends themselves.