Grow a pair and be honest or stop f*cking around… especially with your friends husband what kind of friend are you?
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Go to hell lady. That girls husband is not the love of your life.
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Hahahaha, the comments are the best.
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Just because y’all fuck doesn’t mean you’re in love. If y’all were y’all would have left your current relationship to be with each other and continue to be parents to your children. Y’all just want your cake and to eat it too.
You’re a prime example why women don’t trust other women. You’re not a friend pure 
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If theres no love in the marriage, you could just work on yourself instead of working on your friends hubby. If it was about the kids, you could stop the affair, especially since he isnt going to leave his wife or be with you anyway. From an outside perspective it’s just stupid. Its literally just sex that you’re possibly throwing everything away for, since you’ll at best be a booty call or side chick until his conscience gets the better of him. Maybe it’s hard to see how selfish one is being when they’re seeing it from their own perspective, but it is indeed selfish to your hubby, children, friend & their children. That’s a lot of people you will hurt eventually.
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Here’s an idea… DONT CHEAT
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Shouldn’t of done it in the first place. You want to cheat just leave. She is not your friend if she was you wouldn’t of been sleeping with her husband. You and him destroy 2 families. Completely selfish
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You’re simply not going to be able to have your cake and eat it too.
Someone will get hurt. Nothing will be the same again! CHOICES!!
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For a start your not madly in love. Second if you dont want to be with someone enough to cheat on them leave them. Third dont stay for kids it hurts them more.
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Grow the hell up! If your not happy,leave… Don’t hurt another like that! As for your kids, sounds like your husband should be raising them anyway… you need a lesson on morals and priorities. Nasty.
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Need to learn to write a sentence correctly 1st . You say you’re having an affair with your husband !!! And then your practicing??? Practicing what table tennis 
. Joking and grammar aside if you’ve no love in a relationship and you both don’t see a way of rekindling the love and passion leave now be much better for the children if you do instead of just staying together for them , because when things come to a head and they will eventually the hate and arguments will be alot worse then than if you both split amicably now
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Truth is you can’t TRUST a Hoe & make her a faithful house wife /vice versa…once a side pce. cheater always a Cheater (FACTS) SMH
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GROW UP! That’s what you do. You don’t deserve your husband and his friend doesn’t deserve his wife. She clearly is NOT your friend and I hope they both find out and leave your sorry asses
Staying in a loveless situation will hurt your kids more. Your showing them what love is not. You need to leave and work out a routine on which you both get to see the kids. Ask the other man to do the same maybe save up for a place together and then have either your or his kids there at separate times. You will not loose your kids but you might loose them if your not honest your ex might turn them against you so be upfront and just say youve found someone else. Move out and be an adult.
Cheating isn’t right and you know it. You got in this mess he’s not leaving his wife over you. I don’t use bad language but you know what you are
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You have to tell them, both of you, of course it’s going to break up a family and the kids will be sad because they don’t want to lose their parents. But they can’t keep the kids from you guys. Or if you don’t like that idea, either way you need to tell them it’s only right! You and your husband can take marriage classes, but you can’t keep seeing your secrets boyfriend. I wish you two best of luck!
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This whole post is complete
That’s not love and for the record it’s not just the other thats going to be hurt it’s the kids that going to be hurt at the end when it all comes out
If you don’t want to be with someone leave.
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Kids aren’t stupid when they get older they’ll know what their mother did and his kids will know what he did and their feelings towards that and you guys may cause more damage than just coming clean now
I can’t stand people like this. You’re miserable in your relationship, that’s your problem. Now you’re a home wrecker also. Now I know it takes two to wreck a home. But without your help it wouldn’t have happened. Now two families are ruined. Should’ve just got divorced instead of cheating. And started seeing someone who isn’t Also married. And don’t call her your friend cuz you’re No friend. You’re not madly in love either. You’re madly in lust. Soon as you’re both single I guarantee the “magic” is gone. It’s the rush of doing what you’re not supposed to. And it’s so childish. Remember. You lose em how you win em!
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If he’s doing it with you ,chances are he’ll do it to you. Wake up lady.!!!
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Wait until you think your so in love and both decide to leave your spouses so you tell your husband but wait… the guy your seeing decides he loves his wife and works on the marriage and your left with nothing haven’t you seen this enough to know he’s never leaving his wife for you
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With friends like that who needs enemies… madly in love 
karma is a bitch…
Three things , being a homewrecker isn’t a good thing, being a floosy isn’t cute, and just grow the hell up.
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You cannot call her your friend when you are doing something so atrocious to her.
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Don’t fucking be a homewrecker. You don’t even deserve your kids.
Having an affair with your husband?so you are your best friend?If this is true and you are having an affair with your best friends husband you don’t consider her any kind of friend,and you don’t have the guts to close one door before opening another.Sorry no sympathy.
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I feel really bad for your husband bc his best friend a s wife are lieing too him. Anyways, if you have financial stability and can take care of your kids then you’ll be fine. Just be careful. The grass is greener on the other side.
You’re about to ruin two family’s regardless. Y’all made your bed, now you gotta lie in it
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You’re a horrible person and so is he. Just leave and be done with it. You’re just being selfish and don’t really care about your kids, or you wouldn’t hurt them like this.
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You’re the side chick and always will be! You deserve the chaos, you created it!
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Just stop! It’s not worth it!
Can’t say I feel sorry for you, Carmas a bitch.What goes around comes around
I know from experience, that if he wont leave his wife and children that he doesnt love u as much as u think he does point blank…#2 an affair only feels like ur in love and is so passionate and “hot” because its something u both know you shouldnt be doing. (Like breaking rules)…#3 “Love” does NOT lie and keep secrets!..there should be no negative involved in real true LOVE…maybe u both need your priorities put into check…? You both have children and im sure they need to come first, not 3rd or whenever its convenient for u…p.s. Im sure the other partners/spouses are suspicious because thats way too close of a risk…u better figure something out soon cause ur time is almost up😉
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The answer is there already. You just have to decide.
People really don’t read well! I say Congratulations to you and your man!!
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What you do is both of you stop seeing each other, go to marriage counseling with your OWN spouses and try to work through it. If you are afraid to lose your kids then quit doing activities that could cause it. And if he will do it with you he will do it to you, same saying goes for you as well. Marriage is a career you have to work on every day. Figure out why the love and passion faded and fix it. Thats the problem nowadays, if it’s broke it goes in the trash. No one tries to fix what broken cause it’s easier to get something new. What happens in 10 year from now if you and the new guy fall out of love? Throw it away and find the next new?
Your lying n cheating kn your partners n your kids let your partners go so they can find true faithful relationship. You should of never started another relationship while your still in a relationship.
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You are a traitor to your own family
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First off … stop practicing and get real … I think you are full of it … 
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is this for real?! Come on! 
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You want your kids? It’s not working get a divorce. Don’t set yourself for a big fall as you are doing right now.
Wow you don’t sleep with any of your friends husband/partner that is totally wrong shame on you both
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Yall better just say something to your spouses now cuz they gon find out.
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Practicing what? …Is this a joke? Sometimes I think people submit false stories for entertainment!! 
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I actually know ppl who stay with their kids other parent cuz they don’t want to loose their kids. It’s sad cux you should be with the love of your life. But also shouldn’t have to loose your kids in the process. But it it’s a nightmare court battles
get it in:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
You are a terrible person. For cheating, and for sleeping with your best friends husband. Horrible and makes me sick.
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Food for thought It’s about the kids …your commitment NOW should be to them. You brought them into the world and your husband also has this responsibility. What do they deserve. ? What do you want for them? You want the best for them & they deserve it!!
I commend you for the effort. Just think about what best for the kids. I speak from experience here
Don’t be an idiot because you’re already making a fool of that guy you’re madly in lust with doesn’t even care about you.
If you’re catching on fire in the middle of the desert in front of him he wouldn’t pee on you to put it out.
Since you decided to selfishly think of yourself before your children, plan on spending a lot of on an attorney because you’re going down the wrong path too quickly way too fast.
ya get your head out of your butt and grow up
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Quit cheating and realize loving someone is a decision, not a feeling.
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Why do people always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence? Get back in touch with what brought both of you together in the first place, and you just might recapture that happiness.
Not good! It could be a flesh thing going on between you and the other guy. Focus on God and pray. 
. It is not worth you losing your kids over.
Karma is coming for you. That’s all I’m saying.
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Sounds like the wife and your husband deserve eachother. You and her husband are the no good ones! Wasn’t too concerned about anything to do with your kids before now so what is the difference. Y’all should tell them because THEY deserve better and so does everyone’s kids who aren’t doing this crap.
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. He doesn’t love you, you not him it’s lust. I’d end it if I were you and tell your husband the truth so he can find someone faithful
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This has to be fake… at least I hope it is…
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Wow just when u think people can’t be any more ridiculous heres comes this post. Haha
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Stop fucking each other for a start . Divorce your husband if your not happy & he has every right to take the kids if he finds out !!
Special place in hell 
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how about… not have an affair in the first place. you made your bed…
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U have already lost more than your children… Dumb arse!!
Your cheating which is very wrong. Your kids deserve a better mom
As you can see by the comments - everyone thinks and agrees you’re a terrible wife.
Having said that, this doesn’t necessarily make you a terrible mother. You need to be honest with your husband.
Let him out of this relationship to find his own happiness.
Whatever happens from there, happens.
If things turn bitter between you both, you’ll likely have to try mediation to keep the lines of communication open for your kids’ sake.
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God won’t ever send you someone else’s husband.
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you did this to…yourself
Why don’t you start with stopping?
Or telling your husband?
Or your “friend” that deserves a better friend?
Or maybe just divorce him and go through the custody process like normal people?
Or be like other normal people and not have an affair lmao?
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lmfaoooo maybe divorce your husbands/wives before sleeping with anyone else ??? idk just seems like the first thing you should have done i mean unless you all have kinda broken up and it’s known that between all parties but i’m not getting that vibe i’m getting dirty cheaters vibes
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also you’re not a friend to the friend you had friends dont hook up with their friends husbands 
this whole situation and post is just NASTY:face_vomiting:
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O le lua o lava e ai ni lua tae
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Stop cheating for one. And don’t worry about your kids now. You didn’t think about how they would be affected when you started cheating, so why worry now. Do whatever you want. It’s what you’ve been doing right? And FYI, don’t say it’s your “friends” husband. If she was your “friend” you wouldn’t be sleeping with her man homewrecker
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Cheating on your husband with your FRIENDS HUSBAND??? and you think that shits gonna work out? Yuck.
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What… Stop the affairs… And with your “friends” husband??? Doesn’t seem like you consider them a friend at this point. If you lose your kids that’s your fault and you should’ve thought about them before making horrible decisions.
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This post is the final straw for me. Unfollowing this page.
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Lose more than children. How about self respect.
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Use your head,not your heart.
Love is an action, not a feeling you have to cultivate it…start watering your own grass and stay out of your neighbors lawn.
You need to ask GOD to Bless You an your family(Hubble)and try to make it work with GODS help anything is possible.
You n him are made each other since y’all are homewrecker’s. And your not a friend to her so don’t call yourself that. It’s like spitting in her face.
Maybe you also should have thought how it would affect your children before you started a affair n not after dont u think. So tell your husband he deserves that.
Also he does deserve better then you.
Omg what an awful person you are!
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I can’t even…you have gone too far. You have ruined your marriage…your husband and your children’s lives by YOUR adultery…you don’t deserve any of them in my opinion. Not to mention you ruined your cheater boyfriends kids and his wifes lives as well. Personally his wife and your husband and all kids involved deserve better than you two. How low some can really be.
Stop screwing each other only the innocent get hurt
I say come clean tell the truth live a shitty life with your HUSBANDS FRIEND and worry every second of the day if he’s off cheating on you and leave him think the same of u (after all ye both didn’t give your partners and kids a second thought, why would ye be any different when the next sniff of ass comes along) both of your kids and partners deseve to find the happiness they truly deserve and your kids deserve so much more than ye both too!!
Am I reading this wrong. Currently having an affair with husband…?
I’m so confused. Affair with husband and practicing for the kids? It kind of sounds like a roll playing thing to spice up their love life. The best friend is actually her and her kids. 
For crying out loud, there are other unmarried men. Think of the family you are tearing apart. By no means I don’t wish you well but get a grip!
Stop cheating that doesn’t help anyone and it’s degrading to yourself. Your affair isn’t leaving his wife for you. If he does then he’ll cheat on you too. If you’re not happy leave your husband or get marriage counseling
First of all you are not a friend can you imagine the hurt you all are going to cause and the hurt is going to be on you because he is not going to leave his family for you and you are the one that will be along the Damage has already been done and you are terrible person if I was your husband when this comes out and it will come out I would fight for full custody of my kids because they don’t need someone like you for a mother
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People who cheat are pathetic. There’s never an excuse. You don’t get to stay married and still do whatever you want. Grow up. You need to just get a divorce if you aren’t happy.
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As hard as it sounds- work on ur marriage wholeheartedly first. Give it atleast a year of wholehearted trying. U married this man- has he changed so much that u cant find anything to love about him? Exhaust all options first to work ur marriage. Forever Marriages just means two people who never gave up on each other. The thrill of an affair is always confused with love. I am not judging u hun but i wana shake u so hard and tell u to wake the f up… flings are no good!!! U r a mom! Is it worth loosing ur child? HECK NO! And that too A FRIEND’s husband!!! LOW BLOW. What kinda friend can u say you are if ur having an affair with her husband. Cmon… having some principles in life helps everyone.
Trust me- most marriages love goes outa d window with years. Its takes A MOUNTAIN OF EFFORT and wisdom to continue loving ur partner by finding the balance. Find ur best friend in ur hubby and that could help. If u still dont want to be with ur husband- divorce him. Go single then date. And lay off ‘currently married’ men(not that its ur problem but humanity sake).
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High likelihood y’all are just heavily infatuated with each other right now. Wait til reality sets in. Lol.
Stop banging your friends husband and work on your own marriage.
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You will reap what you sow. No happiness or blessing will come from these decietful acts.
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I’m sure your soulmate isn’t somebody else’s husband. 
sorry not sorry
“Girls” like you are the reason use good women cant find a good man. Grow up !!!
Y’all both adulterers and don’t deserve a husband or wife !! Dishonest and disloyal!
What, exactly, did you expect from this post?
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Wake up it shouldn’t be about in love it should be about love