Guys, I need advice, and I’m kinda ashamed… I was on Mirena. It got moved, and I didn’t realize it. Now I’m pregnant, not sure who the dad is (between my kid’s dad been apart over a year just hooked up after he got out of jail and a coworker). I’m terrified, not sure if I should tell either or just say Idk who the dad is and leave it at that help!!
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You have to tell both men! My mom did the same she never told my dad and now 27 years later it came out randomly. The test was negative.
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Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. Tell them both because they both deserve to know. You’ll feel better not having to hide it and they can both make informed decisions as well to be with you and in the child’s life or not.
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Be honest, tell both.
Be honest, dont be ashamed, dont let them try to shame you either!!!
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No matter how terrifying the truth is to tell, tell it. It takes a lot of courage to do that. Have a good friend you can call after and during to talk to you.
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TELL the truth & get a DNA test done once Bub is born.
I think you get it done in Utero - but with some risk to the child .
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Take both guys on Maury and get it taken care of.
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Maury wouldn’t have been so popular if you were the only one in this situation. 
Live n learn. No matter what, just be honest about it.
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No judgements here. But you lay your bed, now lay in it. As easy as it was for you sleeping with two men. Make it easy to be honest with them and tell them.
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