I am throwing my own baby shower...advice?

Just wanted to get everyone’s opinions and experiences. I’m doing my baby shower all by myself… my spouse is clearly helping and paying for everything… but my first child’s baby shower was done for me by family… i have been stressed about it for months with all the planning, decorations ideas, and expenses but i didnt think too much about it until now that its coming up and 4 ppl have asked me who is giving me the shower… and i say myself…

A baby shower is for your first baby. I would do a sprinkle. People give gifts for the first baby & you are supposed to save those items for the next baby. It isn’t everyone’s job to pay for your baby stuff. The shower is a one time thing because it is special the first time.