That is by no means normal she knew what she was doing you just need to talk her and tell her that that is inappropriate and explain why that is and also that its inappropriate to touch anybodys genitals she should’ve known better as you said shes 12 so she should know right from wrong by now
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she knows what she’s doing just keep the dog away from her unless supervised
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At 12 that’s not normal. If it was a 6-8 year old I would say it’s just Curiosity but at 12? I would get her into counseling ASAP.
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I’m sorry I fail to understand how people could find this amusing, as I’m sure they wouldn’t if they were in the situation. I personally think you need to sit down with her & discuss what’s right & what’s not, yes at 12 most would know its not normal behaviour but how are we able to judge & know it was of a sexual nature? I would personally do this first before jumping into therapy, you can then gage whether it’s needed! I hope you’re OK mamma xxx
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I would say that is not normal she should not be touching no animals private parts I would talk to her and make her understand no touching of animals of animals make sure she understands that’s wrong
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Could just be curiosity keep an eye on her
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If she has no intellectual disability I would be getting her help at 12 she would know not to touch and animals private parts it’s not normal behaviour I would be very worried as a parent . Seek help now as even you should would know at 12 this shouldn’t have happened don’t ask people for advice on here as you are wasting time you know what you should be doing
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Nowadays everything is normal loll. What if she is curious? About What 
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I think it’s pure curiosity… depending on the child she might be a late bloomer. I remember seeing my dogs mate and being super interested in the process. I even got up close to see what was happening. It was definitely something I’ll never forget.
Explain your reasoning!
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No not at 12 she is well aware it’s wrong
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If she was even a few years younger I would just say it may be general curiosity. Kids learn by sight, touch, taste, etc. and have limited ability to control their impulses to do so. However, at your daughters age she should find just about any other living things private area gross at the very least and not even have the thought to touch it. Maybe the curiosity peaks from being curious about the human version of that body part, but nonetheless it’s very weird and some people just are or they have mental health issues
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I think you should have a talk with her about the good touch bad touch, private parts are private for a reason, nobody else should touch your private parts and you shouldn’t touch their private parts unless they can talk and tell you that it’s okay but Animals don’t talk, and you should ask her if anyone else ever touched her private parts, because this is a indication of sexual abuse
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Maybe she’s trying to tell you something and just doesn’t know how! Could have seen someone touching another person or animal in a way they shouldn’t be doing! Maybe you should explain it’s not ok to touch animals or people on private area’s. Just try and be calm and don’t make a big deal and keep an eye on her and if doesn’t happen again then was just a case of wondering or friends might have said something. If you catch her again then seek counseling! Pray for advice how to handle this situation!
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Male dog or female dog? Touching the scrotum, penis or vulva? I’m a little worried about all the adults that are saying there is something wrong with this child or the parent that indicates it was sexual in nature. As the wife of a veterinarian and owner of a grooming facility, we touch all of these body parts dozens of times daily and there is nothing abnormal or wrong about any of it. If she was attempting to seek sexual gratification, that might be an issue, but simply touching a dog is most likely simple curiosity. No different than looking in the dog’s mouth or ears. As for genitals being gross, just wash your hands and all is well. Stop the unnecessary shaming of a child.
Jo Jo tell me how it’s “wrong”…she’s touching a dog in what mom refers to as it’s “genitals” without saying if it’s a male or female dog, if it was testes, penis, vulva. She says it wasn’t aggressive, and doesn’t say sexual…so what is the problem?
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At that age, I would say ‘no’ it’s not normal.
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Most likely practising to perform a handn job on the real deal, does she have a phone? I would be monitoring that asap
Or like others said, she herself has been abused
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I knew a girl who asked US to dare HER to lick her dogs junk… it was her 13th birthday party and we didn’t dare her but she still said “okayyy guysss”. She seems to be an adult. Not a nice one lol but she has money so. Idk lol she sure is something. But I don’t think you should worry lol she might have just noticed its an actual penis and that’s wild and she was curious.
Maybe she’s just curious and was just checking it out. Maybe she’ll grow up to be a vet. Maybe get her some age appropriate reading material on animals.
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I’d say she’s just curious…
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It is normal because it’s curiosity. But the lesson here, is the same as for herself and other children of good touch- bad touch. Encourage her to understand it’s the dogs private, don’t touch area and that we don’t do that unless there is an injury or something stuck there, that needs cleaned or cared for. And if it does, then we go get mom so mom can fix it or she can call the veterinarian. Keep it simple. Don’t make it dirty or bad.
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I think this page makes up stupid bullshit
Today, the stuff kids see on YouTube and tic tok are dumb and crazy weird. I’m going to go in a different direction from everyone else. I’ve heard of too much tik tok challenges and they scare me. Besides curiosity, can it be something she saw somewhere on the internet. And yes, talk to her about not touching animal private part unless there is an injury then tell a parent right away.
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What concerns me more is all the people in the comments section saying this is normal 
yeah no, this is 10000000% not normal behavior lol
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i would put a stop to it.x
No it’s not normal at 12 years old she knows right from wrong. There is a problem that needs to be addressed fast.
Talk to her to find out if anyone is touching her in the wrong places and also what she watch on television. We as parents have to keep close eyes on who our children befriend and what our children do in school and at home. Get her into counseling if needed.
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No not normal at all! Take her to therapy etc. get to bottom of it!
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I will say the same… i think she was just curious
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If its any help… Or just a good laugh… I was giving my dogs baths the other day. I have 2 females and 1 male…
My 8 year old was like 
“MOM… Did remi (male dog) tell you that was ok? Did he give you permission to wash him? He’s a dog… He cant talk. So i think NOT”
Dude… He cant wash his own homie.
I have 7 kids. I have caught every single one poking at my poor dogs at some point in their lives …
My 1 year old tried to latch on to my dogs nipple awhile back. 
THEY ARE KIDS…
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I think alot of people are quick to judge like… ALOT. Everyone says ‘for her age’
Check it out. I have a 12 and 13 year old. My 13 year old prob knows more then id like… My 12 year old is 10000000% oblivious to anything sexual. He has no idea what MOST anything is unless he’s asked…
Every kid develops different in EVERY single way. You cant say Every child at every age is the same. Cuz i can say from experience that’s just not true.
YES you should talk to your kid and get to the bottom of it. And there wasn’t much context as to what exactly she was doing…
Im just sayin. Don’t jump to conclusions based off what people in a facebook group say
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It’s hard to base off of what was said, I mean if she was poking at the balls because they looked squishy or something like that, then yes, maybe curiosity. But if it was more then that, like sexually exploring the dog or arousal like playing with the dogs erect penis, then ABSOLUTELY not. Even a 3 year understands what private parts are; so it’s hard to say just off of context, but if what you saw was concerning to you as it sounds because you said “inappropriately”; then I’d seek counseling.
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Curiosity. I wouldnt overthink it.
Sounds like Pure Curiosity to me however that is my “PERSONAL OPINION”.
Its all well and good all these people saying its just being curious but would it still be put down as curious when shes caught checking out little tommy down the road? Or a cousin or family friend? I would try to find out if the daughter was being abused herself first of all, then there would be a serious talk about trust, how the dog trusts her and she let him down, how its not acceptable at all to abuse anything or anyone in that way i certainly wouldnt be only saying dont do that. The poor dog was abused, was that the first and only time?
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12 is old to ‘‘be curious’’. Hopefully this isnt a whitney Wisconsin situation.
I no Doug open discussion on here but the culture today doesn’t consider modesty or what we would think is private conversation
Read the first line and no more…won’t even read the rest!!! Wtf???
Just explain to her that just because he’s a dig we should still respect his privacy. 12 is a weird age. Was she actually playing or did she just poke them either way not ok but I feel like it might be different.
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This isn’t saying that anyone has done anything to her or that she needs counseling. This isn’t a group that I would get parenting advice from. She might not see it as anything cause of our males sleeps on his back with his legs up and my toddler has touched his before now doesn’t after I corrected her but if you think it’s something more than you can correct then a doctor would be the next thing or neutering him and a doctor.
I’d say totally normal. She wasn’t hiding it aparently, so prolly pure curiosity. I remember a time when as a kid we poked the dogs testicles with a stick. Why? I honestly don’t know, curiosity at its finest. As long as she understands it’s not okay to do to the dog nor anyone else for that matter.
And for y’all in this comment section saying ‘wHaT iF iT wAs tImMy fRoM DoWn ThE RoAd oR aShLeY tHe NeIgHbOr GiRL?!?’ as long as they’re the same ish age, AGAIN NORMAL CURIOSITY. 12 is a weird age where sexual exploration begins usually whether you want them to or not. Having a healthy discussion about it will do more in the long run rather than shaming or ignoring it all together.
I wouldn’t worry. it’s wierd but so are young people. I’m sure it won’t happen again