I dont feel a connection to baby...is that normal?

I just found out less than a week ago that I’m pregnant, only about 4 weeks. Is it normal to not really feel a connection to the pregnancy yet? idk I think I’m still in shock. My first child I was over the moon and so in love from the second I found out. Now over 6 years later I am excited for my son to have sibling, but mostly what I feel is apprehension and just scared

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Completelt and totally normal

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I’ve had three kids and felt no connection until they were in my arms.

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Veary normal this early on 21 weeks 4 days with my fourth girl and no connection with lil one yet itl hit either before are after I have her

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Still really early on give it time

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It’s still so early. Give it time. It’s ok

I felt this way until I was about 18 weeks along.

I thought that my son was going to have a major abnormality and I tried to cherish every moment I had.

He was thankfully born healthy and now we have the best bond and always have since I first layed eyes on him.

It’s still sooooo early. Lol