I’ve been in a relationship for 6+ years now and I do love him with all my heart. but, throughout the years he’s never had a job or tried to attempt getting his GED. i do express time to time that he should try doing one or the other and make a step forward along with me… but he doesn’t and it’s been on my mind a lot more lately… maybe i should leave him… I really do deserve someone who will grow with me and has the same goals in life like i do. I just don’t know anymore. I told myself, well maybe he’ll start if i give him more time yet that’s all I’ve been doing all these years…
It’s hard when you love someone who doesn’t really do anything with their life. But your feelings are valid, & he should be doing these things as the bare minimum just for himself. He also needs to be contributing to your future together… working, saving money, etc. but instead he’s leaving it all to you & that’s not fair. It seems like a small issue but after so much time it starts getting ridiculous. My mom also divorced my dad after a couple years because he wouldn’t hold a job and couldn’t help provide for her or me. So do what you think is best. You deserve the best! xx
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